Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

For the purposes of this article both men and women will be referred to as gay, instead of applying the gay and/or lesbian label to prevent the myTake from getting cluttered.

Warning: This is probably one of the gayest articles you will have ever read on this site, including images that you may or may not be comfortable with seeing. So if you have a problem with any of these then I suggest you stop reading right here.

Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

Let's face it everyone is curious to know what it feels like to be with someone of the same sex, and that's nothing to be ashamed of.

Human sexuality is fascinating and far less straightforward than most of us assume, or perhaps would prefer.

There is nothing wrong with a good old cuddle session with your bro, getting off to gay porn or taking it in the butt. It's all relative. It's time we moved on from our preconceived notions of sexuality and finally accept the beauty of being gay. I dream of a world where everyone is bisexual and accepting your own gayness is the first step to achieving this.

Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

Satisfying your own curiosity

Any self-identifying straight man or woman who says they never once thought about what it might be like to bed another person of the same sex is lying. It’s natural to feel curious about things that are that are foreign to you, including getting prodded by foreign intrusions.

Getting outside of our comfort zone is the first step to experiencing a whole new world of pleasure. That’s how we learn and grow. So why not stop fantasizing and actually give it a college try? Remember: If you don’t like it, you’ll never have to do it again.

Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

More than half of women are attracted to other women

Most women are naturally bi-curious when it comes to sex.

It is said often that women's friendships are barely distinguishable from romantic relationships and for the most part it is true. You're only deluding yourself if you think otherwise.

Socializing, chatting on the phone for hours, snuggling during chick flicks, uncanny comfort-ability around other naked women etc. And to top it all of guys don't know a woman's body as well as another woman does... considering they are of the opposite sex and all, but still, they can't just compete with someone who knows the owner's manual.

Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

Experience being penetrated

Straight men are used to doing the penetrating. But ever wondered what it might feel like to be on the receiving end?

True, the first time can be a bit shocking, and you’ll need need to prepare with some stretching and cleaning. (A new jock strap never hurts either.) But as long as you remember to breathe, you’ll be fine. And when it’s over, not only will you have experienced the most mind-blowing, earth-shattering orgasm of your life, but you’ll walk away with a greater understanding of what sex feels like for your female counterparts. Men are lucky to have a prostate and to think most men will never experience an orgasm from anal is not only insulting to your prostate as a whole being under utilized but also to women who will never get to experience two different kinds of orgasms.

Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

People of the same sex make excellent lovers

You know those filthy things you see in porn that kinda turn you on but that you would never actually ask your girlfriend or boyfriend to try because they’d probably think you’re a total pervert? Well, we’ll do it! All you have to do is ask.

When it comes to sexual inhibitions, many gay people, well, lack them. Not only do they make excellent lovers but they're also more open to experimentation and trying new things.

Why Every Straight Man and Woman Should Go Gay At Least Once

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Remember when you were a kid and you said you hated Brussels sprouts, even though you had never really tried them, then when you were adult you realized that, actually, Brussels sprouts are pretty delicious, especially when tossed with olive oil and roasted?

The same could very well apply to gay sex. You may take a dip in the bi pond and realize it’s actually a ton of fun. And, no, just because you tried it once and kinda liked it doesn’t make you gay. You’re more than welcome to go back to your straight “lifestyle” in the morning.

No one's gonna judge you for it.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • "Let's face it everyone is curious to know what it feels like to be with someone of the same sex"
    No. Quit making assumptions honestly lol. Would you tell a gay person to try to be with someone of the opposite sex just once? Probably not because it would be insulting to assume that they should/they want to.

    "No one's gonna judge you for it."
    A hell of a lot of people do and will, actually. Ever heard of this thing called homophobia? Yeah, it exists. And by saying that nobody is going to judge you for it, you're effectively diminishing and disregarding the struggles ACTUAL gay people face.

    Also using the term "go gay" is offensive considering that being gay is not a choice, it's not something you "go" or "become" with the snap of a finger. You don't "go gay", you act out on your bi-curious fantasies. Which a lot of people DON'T HAVE.

    • fucking preach!!! It's beyond annoying when people try SO hard to be liberal/free/understanding that they spurt out stupid outrageous shit that is actually more offensive than progressive. Loved your response.

    • @Tealtop1 honestly I'm contemplating whether this is just a clickbait take.

    • True, the chances of both are very likely

Most Helpful Guy

  • "everyone is curious to know what it feels like to be with someone of the same sex"

    Er no.

    Look, if bisexuals are going to prance around demanding gay people acknowledge their existence and stop calling them confused or greedy gay folk, then the bisexuals had better also wrap their heads around something. It is possible to be Straight and have entirely ZERO curiosity about what it would be like to be gay.

    If you can't even wrap your collective heads around that concept, we have nothing to say.

    • ^ as a bisexual person, I fully agree with this

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  • Great article!.. I have actually taken your advice once many years ago, and never looked back afterwards... Since then, I have slept with a lot of men, but no women at all...

    Gay sex is so great!.. I am sure so is lesbian sex!.. Thanks for bringing it up under a positive light!..

  • This doesn't really address the fact that straight people who are confident in their sexuality have no reason or interest in forcing an experience simply for the sake of experiencing it. It wouldn't be pleasurable because they find no arousal in experiencing anything sexual with someone of the same gender. Sexuality doesn't work that way, you can't just decide to try being gay for a bit and start sleeping with people of the same gender and then cross it off your experience list, it serves no purpose, that's like suggesting any number of experiences people should try but none of which they would experience any pleasure in having. Sexuality is a natural thing and for many they don't need to explore homosexuality to determine if they are "really" straight, no offense to homosexuals at all. I don't know if this is was intended to be humorous or if there's a certain level of naivety here, but it's almost as if you're ridiculing the people who don't want to explore homosexuality, and they are missing out on a vital human experience should they not partake.

  • Nope, not "everyone" is curious of what it would be like to be with someone of their own gender. Not even remotely.
    I'll let gays be gays, if I'm allowed to be straight without having crap thrown at me (not that you were necessarily, but some people do).

  • How is this any less offensive from telling gay people to 'Go Straight' at least once, because they might like it, and it doesn't mean they'll have to do it again?

    There's no need to glorify one sexuality over another. We're all just trying to get off. No one's special.

  • experimentation is one thing, "going gay' is... just not a thing. and i disagree - i don't think you need to try something in order to know whether or not you like it. i most definitely do not need to touch or taste another girl's vagina to know very well that it's not something i want to do! lol

  • This reminds me of that Zootopia theme, "Try everything". But instead of "Try everything" Gazelle should be signing, "Got HIV" because you "Tried everything"

    Homosexual men, according to the CDC, are 5% of the population yet are responsible for spreading 75% of some very nasty STDs.

    Lots and lots of men have "Gone gay just once" and ended up dying of AIDS because of it. Not worth it. Anal sex is seemly, horribly painful, demeaning, and puts you at risk for a whole host of diseases.

    In short: it's not worth it.

  • Yeah, I didn't even remotely relate to this in the slightest. I don't mean this to be mean, but you must live in a unicorn paradise because somebody is always judging someone for something and if you truly believe that if someone found out they experimented like that and wouldn't judge them for it, you are very sadly mistaken.

    Let's also not forget that gay's have been fighting for the right to marry the person they love and dealing with criticism and rude remarks from people much of their life. So, to act like everybody accepts gay people and would accept what you're are proposing, you are wrong.

    Let me tell you something else, I've never kissed a guy or had sex with one (I'm a virgin) but I have had a sexting friend and even had phone sex with him. So, I don't have to even be with a guy physically to know I'm attracted to and like men. All I have to do is think back upon that experience with him and how the things he said turned me on, how attracted I was to him, how seeing pictures of him in his boxers made me feel things I never thought I could feel. I'm not a looks person and I don't do lust, but I certainly lusted after him. Hell, even now thinking about him makes me all hot and bothered. So, that's all I need to know I'm physically attracted to men. The guys that I have had feelings for in the past and I have feelings for now, I all I need is what's in my heart, mind, soul and body to know I want a man in everyway that matters. Not just sexually, but emotionally , mentally and spiritually as well.

    I don't know where you came up with this theory but it's not a great one. And, I can predict most guys and girls that read this are thinking "when pigs fly and hell freezes over all at the sametime."

  • Being fucked in the ass is what it feels like being fucked in the pussy? Interesting. Although, as an antinatalist, I should probably be pushing for everyone to become gay. But, just not gonna happen. Not to mention a dude being gay is a lot riskier than a female being gay. You could also add in the risks of anal. Like dying horribly from HIV since it really is the "gay disease"--and I can quote a gay speaker saying that--or easily transmitting other STDs or getting infections, since you're swimming in bacteria. No thanks.

  • I've tried it out and it wasn't horrendous. It helped me know I was definitely straight haha. No harm in giving it a go, we only have one life!

  • lol, this is one of the most disgusting things I've ever read on this site.

    When is this conversation ever going to go down?

    Hey bro, what's up?
    NM, what about you?
    Just read this article suggesting I try being penetrated. Want to stick your dick in my ass?
    Bro?
    Hello?
    Are you there?
    I'm sorry, the number you have dialed has been disconnected, please hang up and never dial again.

    Homosexuality is a mental illness and you want to live you life that way then fine, but don't try to drag other people down with you, that's the lowest of lows.

  • Got my mind on your body and your body on my mind. Got a taste for the cherry and I just need to take a bite. Don't tell your mother. Kiss one another. Die for each other. We're cool for the summer 😏 💋

  • Yea, you're right..."UareNuts" ... you gotta be nuts lol.
    I understand the premise behind it, i also adhere to the "try everything once" propaganda... but i don't think my personality and instinct will let me. like @jacquesvol said, i could admire or like another guy's body... but its not like i like him, im looking at what else i could add to mine lol. I am in No way physically attracted, nor will ever have sex with a guy. Curiosity aside, It will never happen, regardless of who is receiving or giving. That claim even became more rigid when i got a best friend that was gay... i think that is when that curiosity you speak of... dissipated entirely, thats when i KNEW i wasn't even Bi. When i realized i was just comfortable... comfortable enough to know my sexuality couldn't be shaken even in the slightest.
    I gotta give you props though @IamNuts , most people would have posted this anonymous being such a controversial topic... you really must be nuts lol... got a pair on you. I like :)

  • Even though I'm 100% pro LGBT community, I don't think I will ever see the logic in telling people to try being gay just cause. But I did enjoy this very satirical MyTake. And those images! I've never seen one of them XD

  • I never found women exciting. Nice to look at? Sure, like I'd look at a pretty flower or a work of art. Sexually or emotionally arousing? Not at all.

    A bi female friend tried to interest me with touches, closeness, suggesting we kiss. I really don't want to try.

  • Oh boy... You really are nuts... No thanks. I'm totally against that shit and I'm not curious about it, I'm glad to see some other people haven't gone nuts yet XD

  • Um.. no thanks. It doesn't interest me. How about we accept that that's ok too? I'm not missing out on anything, just like a gay person who's never dabbled in straightness isn't missing out on anything.

    And 50% of women are not attracted to their own gender. The study that started that myth measured stimulated responses to sexual imagery and showed that most women had a stimulated response to seeing images of other women in sexual positions. That doesn't mean that they're attracted to them, it just means that sexual imagery makes them think about sex...

    • @Sara413 But why imagery of lesbian sex and not imagery of straight sex? I read the same study. If a woman can be turned on by seeing two women fucking it says to me she must have some kind of gay side to her.

  • I totally agree with the author. Most of my boyfriends have loved it when I put a finger or two in their butts while I jack or blow them. After the first time they nearly always ask for it again.

  • I didn't even read you MyTake. I am simply replying based on the premise:
    No.
    While most people have some fluidity to their sexuality (some more, some less) the simple fact is, if a person is straight, they do not have sexual desire for their gender. Sexual orientation is not a choice, for the most part. I am not straight because I am able to be attracted to men, but choose not to be, I am straight because I am NOT attracted to me. Any situation involving me having sex with men would either involve gross deception, mind altering drugs, or force. In any event, it would be rape. Sex with men is not something I could, or would, ever consent to. Not because I am a homophobe, not because I choose not to desire men, but because I DON'T desire men.

    Now, for the sake of argument, let's flip this premise around. Let's argue that every gay man and lesbian woman should go straight at least once.
    You have two replies:
    The first is their insistence that they have no desire for the opposite sex. Somehow, a woman saying she has NO desire for a man, or a man saying that about a woman, is accepted more than my claim to heterosexuality.

    The second is anger, as they perceive you telling them that they shouldn't be locked in to who they are, and the implication that such sex would open their eyes to something knew. It's the old douchy guy "my dick of gold will cure her" mentality, and is offensive.

    Sexuality is not a choice, or a fad. And for people who desire serious relationships, sex with random people for the sake of experiencing new things is not desired, even with their desired gender. The very premise of this MyTake is offensive, to me, and to everyone else, gay or straight, who feels that their sexual identity is not a choice, but part of a hard wired part of who they are.

  • Not everyone is curious. And wether you like it or not, people may very well judge you. Possibly a lot. But do what you want, it's your life after all. I'm just gonna not do that. Here girls! Where are you? I'm patiently seeking a boobed person of the feminin gender to love and hold forever 😚

  • No thanks! I like men.

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