Why Women Always Seem to Have the Advantage Over Men

Why women have the advantage over men.

WARNING: This mytake may offend people, but I feel like it needs to be said. This is more of a rant and I need to get it off my chest. This is all based my experiences in the dating world and other people's experiences in the dating world.

I hear women all the time (mostly radical feminists) about how men are taking the world by storm and men have all these advantages over women and women are always in second place. Well today I'm going to explain why that is complete bullshit and why women have the advantage over men, more specifically in the dating world.

1. Women are picky about who they want to date.

Yes, men are picky too, but in reality women are more picky than men. I've heard more stories about how women turn down guys than guys turn down women. Now I get that it's the guy's job to approach the women, but a lot of women don't give the guy the type of day because of their shallow pickyness (if that's a word). I myself have experienced this way too many times. It get even worse when the girl talks to a guy she doesn't like for her own attention seeking habits (we'll talk about that later). Most girls want the same typical type too; talk, dark flowy hair, and muscular. What if you aren't any of those things, well in most cases you'd be worthless.

Why Women Always Seem to Have the Advantage Over Men

2. Women are decisive

Women can be EXTREMELY decisive and you must be careful. I've heard stories of guys going to jail because a girl lied about her age saying she was over 18 and was really 13. The way little girls dress up and wear makeup today is quite scary because they look as though they are 21 but in reality they are only 13! That almost happened to me once. I was talking to a girl who I thought was my age (I'm 17) and she turned out to be 13. Luckily I had some friends who knew her personally and told me before I met up with her again.

Also, there are a lot of cases where girls are lying about being raped and it's increasing by an alarming amount. Now I know some of you are gonna comment " That's ridiculous! The amount of real rape cases to fake rape cases are like a 5:1 ratio!" I know that, but as the years go by more and more girls are trying accuse men of rape when they did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Why you may ask? I'll talk about it in the next point.

Why Women Always Seem to Have the Advantage Over Men

3. Women are attention-seeking

This is probably the most important out of the three in my opinion. Women like to attention seek. And sometimes it's not that they want to seek attention of others,but rather seek their attention for their selves (if that makes sense). Like I said in the previous point, women like to accuse men of rape or domestic violence simply to get attention. It sickens me deeply because they don't give a single fuck about the guy their accusing, they are only out to get friends or random strangers to say "omg that's horrible! I'm praying for you!"

Attention seeking can happen in mild ways too. Like I'm the first point I made where a girl would text a guy, who she doesn't even like, just for attention and for him to say that she's pretty. It has happened to me SO many times it's unbearable. The current girl I'm texting now doesn't even like to respond. It has been 6 hours since she responded to my last text. Some of you are probably thinking. "She's probably busy" let me ask you something. What are you doing that is making you so busy that you can't send a simple "hey, I'll text you later I gotta do (insert thing that you would be busy for)"? Also, I've had girls that I would talk to for a couple days and then I would say hey and they would never respond to me again. What kind of bullshit is that? It's ATTENTION SEEKING.

Conclusion

So in conclusion today I know there are gonna be butthurt people in the comments and I'm ready for them. I'm tired of women saying that guys have the upper hand when really it's upside down. It's been like that sense the beginning of time and as evolution takes place it just changes form, but it's still present.

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  • 1. You’ve heard more stories of men turning down women, because men approach Much more often. You can have your complaints about that, but it’s unrelated to them being more picky. Actually, women have a very large variety of types, as opposed to men. One might say “men just want blondes with big boobs,” obviously that would be an over generalization. I don’t even like big boobs; I’m a big fan of the c cup. Men however will often find much more women attractive, than a women will find men attractive. So in a way, they are more picky. But as I said, they have a variety of types. There are the obviously attractive to everyone type males, but it is somewhat unlikely for two random women to have the same taste in men otherwise.
    2. If you can’t tell the difference between 13 and 18, you got probs. Okay, maybe that’s harsh. But, courts are usually more lenient on guys that genuinely did not know; you have to prove criminal intent after all. But it should be relatively obvious when you are talking to the girl. A girl will not act the same at 18 as opposed to 13.

    That is an entirely made up ratio with quite literally no basis in fact. False rape claims are real, I’m sure. But the ratio is nowhere near 5:1, get real. Most women would not put themselves in such an embarrassing and degrading spotlight just to punish some dude, but yes, there are crazies out there.

    Also, none of this has to do with women being decisive. I think you mean manipulative?

    3. Wow. That’s a generalization. Women don’t like attention seeking any more commonly then men do. Societal standards often make genders seek it in different ways, but that is a (rather annoying) personality trait, not a gender specific trait. Again, most women do not lie about rape, or sexual assault; it is fairly obvious when they do. Courts have become much better at spotting fraudulent claims.

    It seems that you are the needy one friend. She is just busy, holy Christ, clingy much?

    Conclusion

    My butt feels fine. But let me just offer this. You are under 18, have barely experienced life, and know very little about women at your age. Try not to grow up to be a misogynistic jack ass that generalizes all women because you had a couple bad experiences. Some people suck, some people don’t. It has nothing to do with Man vs. Woman

    • Oh I've had more that a couple experiences buddy. Let's analyze your comment shall we? Women are way much more picky than men are. If a considered ugly girl walks up to you and says hey most men would probably let her say her peace. Guy does it to the girl. Gets shut down immediately. That would be picky. She PICKS who she wants to date. She PICKS the guy that's her type. Most girls have a variety of types? Lol please. Girls only have one type and stick to it as much as possible. You know why there is a higher chance of rejection when you approach a girl? That's why. So that's debunked. Now to your next point. You might now understand because you're 25, so you probably haven't experienced such thing but let me explain to you that as time goes on little girls are looking much older than they appear. Acting much older than they appear. You'd be suprised by the amount of girls who look 21 but are actually 13. You wouldn't be able to tell without someone else telling you.

    • That ratio I mentioned is what I believe someone would say in the comments. It's NOT an accurate ratio. That's why I said "are like 5:1" not "are 5:1". Also, the amount of "crazies" out there are increasing. Second point debunked. Now to your next point. Yes I probably should of used manipulative. So congrats you got me there. You are also right about attention seeking being in both genders. BUT the female gender tends to have more of the trait than the male. Most women don't lie about rate. I never said "the amount of people that lie about rape is more than the people who don't" I said that the amount of people that lie about rape are increasing at an alarming rate. Now. You probably are pretty good with women so you wouldn't understand that I've been rejected over and over again and never had a girl be attracted to me. That's not clinglyness. I'm saying that it's annoying when that happens, but obviously you must be a male model of some sorts so you wouldn't get it.

    • As for you're conclusion, just because I'm 17 doesn't mean I don't know about girls. I've experienced life my friends have experienced life. Try not to grow up to be a misogynistic jackass? I'm just stating my peace buddy and saying that women have the advantage. A couple bad experiences? Hahahahahaha.

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  • We have the pussy so we make the rules :)

    • So you make the rules huh? Well why must one of the rules be "if you see a guy approach you, unless he's rich, don't give him the time of day"? Or, here's a good one, "If a guy approaches you and you don't like him, give him your number anyway so that he can compliment you and feed your seekingness"?

    • Actually, the dude doesn't even have to be rich. It could be any dude that doesn't fit your type to the tee.

    • On the contrary we have porn xD :) Just saying, not feeding the fire.

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  • Something regarding your point about women being picky. I used to believe the same, but men are equally picky. I agree that we men have to approach, and women have the luxury of picking the best among us. But the thing is, we never approach ALL women. We only approach those women we find attractive in some way, which means we are being picky too, and are 'rejecting' the women we don't approach.

  • Not all guys think like this. I just wanted to point that out.

  • There are all very common MGTOW/MRA/manoshere/manosaurusrex points. And it's basically b. s. Women date DIFFERENTLY than men, have different things they're picky about, have different communication styles. This doesn't mean we necessarily have an advantage or are deliberately trying to make you miserable.
    For example, 99% chance that girl you're texting isn't trying to hurt you by not texting you back immediately. Just FYI, some people don't like being a slave to their phones, and some people wait in order to not come off desperate. Or maybe she isn't interested, but doesn't want to tell you straight out. Guys are known to "ghost" too. It's not really an attention seeking thing, but rather an avoidance of confrontation. Yes, it's rude, but sometimes the alternative is worse.
    I think you'd be a lot happier and less frustrated if you'd take some time to learn about how to interpret social cues. It doesn't come naturally to everyone (myself included), but it can be learned.
    Oh and one more thing, I don't even know any "tall, dark flowy hair, and muscular" men. lol Women are usually a lot less picky about physical appearance than men, actually. That is not to say men have the upper hand in the dating game either... I think it's about equal.

  • Like you daid, you're 17, girls around your age are usually still too sensitive and not yet centered. It'll get better in a few years. Also, if you like agirl, and she IS seeking attention, give it to her! what's wrong with that? Girls like to feel pretty and appreciated. You wanna win a girl's heart? that's the way to do it. don't be too harsh, lots of girls get hurt easily.
    As for the women who false accuse rape! I don't think it's fair of you to put that in your take because it's not something that has to do with gender, ant not something most women would do, it's a lie related to the woman's personnality (as in cruel, bitch, insensitive) and told for whatever reasons. You can look at it from another angle: a guy TRULY rapes a woman, then says it was consensual sex, also a lie related to his personnality and told for reasons of his own. Doesn't mean all guys are like that.

  • And men aren't all these things?

    • Nope. The gender who has pussy is the more valuable gender. The one who has pussy makes the rules.

    • @Vivaldi definitely not true in all relationships.

  • So young and so bitter already...
    Eh, I don't care either way. 😛

    • Mine and other girl's experiences make me bitter

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    • You have endless dating experiences at your age, yeah...

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  • Buuuuut all of these apply to men too. So... kind of a silly take.
    But I get what you were getting at > you feel as though women have the upper hand at everything in life. The only problem with this is - you, as a boy feels this, and since you're not a woman... no way to actually tell.
    Outside observations miss out on a lot.

  • Yo do you have a sister or a mom? Maybe a mutual friend who you are not attracted to that happen to be a women?

    Cuz you seem to hate women too much bro. There good and bad one, just like the male population. Maybe you just had a bad streak with bad one. Keep looking.

    Also, you complain about woman attention seeking, which is IRONIC, because you seem to be desperate for a woman to text you back. You longing for a woman's attention AKA ATTENTION SEEKING.

    Women might have the advantage over men in the dating world, but in everywhere else... hmmmm. If I get to choose a gender , i would pick being a male everytime.

    • Yes I have a mom. I'm not saying ALL women are bad, just the majority of them. It is not them to blame either because women have been doing this for centuries, passing it down from one generation to the next. Also, how would you feel if you text a girl and she doesn't text back? You would feel pretty bad right? Yes it would be somewhat attention seeking for her attention on my part, but the majority of attention seeking would be coming from the women who left you hanging. Also, women could have an advantage in other things too, even though it might seem the man has the advantage. Most women are sneaky. They can use their sexuality to get what they want in pretty much any situation. It's happened way too many times before.

    • You obviously must of had easy relationships with women, otherwise you wouldn't be saying what you are saying

  • Its your fault your trying to put your dick in anything that gives you attention. And news flash i was once a 13 year old girl a lot of men dont care about the age diffeence. Trust me a lot dont care. And where are the statistics and evidence that flase rape is being reported? Because the last time i checked rape cases are going up not false rape.

    • It's my fault for trying to put my dick into everything? Hahaha. You sound like the stereotypical woman. Only dates hot guys and the ugly guys are shunned by you. And a lot of guys care about age difference... So they don't go to jail

    • Plus I said this was based off of my experiences and my friends and other people I am associated with. Not statistics

    • typical woman. You dont know women your not even a man your a kid. Your too young to be bitter.

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  • Was #2 really suppose to deceptive?

    • No decisive. Meaning untrustworthy

    • Decisive: having the power or quality of deciding; putting an end to controversy; crucial or most important: Your argument was the decisive one. 2. characterized by or displaying no or little hesitation; resolute; determined: The general was known for his decisive manner. 3. indisputable; definite: a decisive defeat. 4. unsurpassable; commanding:

    • Yeah. Probably should of used manipulative. Sorry bout that

  • We have to be picky. Many men only want us for fun times. Whether it's me or some other girl he will say yes because he wants to have sex. A picky woman is a good woman. I'm not talking about those who have silly requirements (must look like Channing Tatum etc).

  • If many men wouldn't fuck a troll just because she has a vagina, women wouldn't have so much power.
    Stop putting women on a pedestal.

    • I like your post, but it doesn't work for me. I am cursed with not getting women and all my friends say I am. You're "tricks" may work for some people, but not for me. I'm trying to get MY FIRST KISS. Sex isn't even on my mind yet until I get that first. Women's behavior are made up of statistics. The only reason you probably didn't have trouble is because you probably weren't ugly. Women will ALWAYS have the advantage no matter what. Your tactics don't mean shit if you don't got the looks.

    • Why don't you try this: stop trying to get a kiss from a girl and actually just try getting to know her first, as a friend :O

    • There is a reason you don't wanna do that. It's a dreadful word. Hmm what is it? Oh yeah I remember! It's called the FRIENDZONE. Once you're in you can't get out. I'm trying to do what you said to this girl I like. She has a boyfriend right now but they are gonna breakup soon so I'm just being her friend. I don't know why I'm doing this because all that's gonna do is put me into the friendzone

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  • Its really only up to a certain age. That is around 30 women lose a lot of say and power. Most become desperate. At this point on men take over for the course of the remaining years

    Women have most of their advantage from 18-30

  • Women are genetically programmed to be picky and decisive in seeking mates. Men are programmed to spread their seed.

  • Most girls in their teens are still FIGURING OUT what they like in a guy, that's why so many relationships in middle school and high school come and go so frequently.

    The main thing as a man to keep in mind about dating, is that there are PLENTY of girls to choose from in your school, your neighborhood, your city. Don't take a rejection personally, you just didn't sync with her personality-wise or style-wise.

    Don't get desperate. As my dad would say, "Make yourself valuable as a man" Once you begin to carry yourself as a person of high value, then YOU will have standards in women (such as you don't want the really hot girl that tends to tease and lead guys on for her own amusement)... then you won't be bothered about being single. Because you haven't found what YOU wanted in a girl yet! ;-)

  • Sounds pretty accurate. And yes it does go both ways. But i kinda feel bad for men along these lines.

  • Aw I'm sorry you feel that way, but not all women are like this.

    • Unfortunately, most are. And they are increasing by a large amount too

    • you're talking to the wrong women then mate. You said you understand it's a man's job to ask out a woman (why?), which if true would mean a lot of women are endlessly being asked out. Have you thought about it from that side, from the side that gets 'pursued', who run the risk of somehow 'leading on' a wierdo with some accidental affection? If you get rejected without being given a chance then they're not rejecting you because they don't know you, they're rejecting a date, maybe they don't want one for whatever reason/ It doesn't need to be taken personally and you'll find you're a lot happier (and more successful) when a rejection means she doesn't want to for whatever reason, and not ''she's a bitch, I suck, the world's fucked'

    • @Klokateer true

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  • Women have the power, until they hit 30, then things begin to change. By 35, the power relationship has been reversed.
    This video is worth half an hour of your life:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yk9MREmmWWc
  • deceptive*

    • Meant to put manipulative.

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