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The 3 Most Hurtful Stereotypes Surrounding Men

The 3 Most Hurtful Stereotypes Surrounding Men

The next time a woman says men aren't oppressed,...laugh. And laugh hard. Because after some simple research, we know society is pretty gynecentric. For example, we talk dirty to them, it's considered sexual harassment. But the other way round, it's almost always 5$ per minute.

And in divorce cases, the woman succeeds in getting custody of the children, and more than half the man's salary, 99% of the time. And then they wonder why man don' want marriage anymore: we simply can't take any chances. Here are the top three stereotypes surrounding men. If you even somewhat believe them, you're probably a feminazi.

#1) Men have no desire for anything from a woman, except her vagina.

You realize how ridiculous that is! This one exists purely because 90% of perverts are men. But a man is just as happy, if not more so, to have a female companion he can talk to, dine & drink with, snuggle and watch movies with, and much more. Men have biological urges which makes us role eyes towards large boobs and butts, and that's completely natural, but if you catch us doing that, you consider us rapists. The fact is, if we don't the desire to do that, we're either gay, so old we fart dust, or a John Harley Kelogg prude [he invented cereal and modern circumcision to try and stop people from masturbating]

The 3 Most Hurtful Stereotypes Surrounding Men

#2) Men have the inborn ability to fix anything with an engine, regardless of their experience or the complexity of said machines.

That's like me saying, "Every woman is born to know a million delicious cooking recipes. It's stupid. Enough said.

#3) Men who don't have sport cars, a big house, and a six-digit salary are unsexy bums.

This is one I deal with on an almost daily basis. A woman isn't considered a loser no matter what her situation may be, but god forbid if she has a penis. It is a feminist belief that a man at his absolute best will never be valuable as a woman at her absolute worst. We're sick of hearing this.

If you want equality from men, please stop thinking of us as such!

I hope this helps you all.

The 3 Most Hurtful Stereotypes Surrounding Men

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  • #3) Men who don't have sport cars, a big house, and a six-digit salary are unsexy bums.

    This one pisses me off the most. Actually, I noticed that women play this both ways.

    -If we don't have this stuff, we are a loser.
    -However... I do have this stuff (especially the sports car and I dress nice)... and women say I'm too flashy, desperate or showing off because I wear suits and drive a nice car.

    A guy can't win.

    • And "consistency" can never be said about women...

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  • Lol I dont take any of these stereotypes serious. And I also don't believe in the rich-sports-car-owner-big-house guy thing that all the guys on GaG is talking about. If it was like that then no broke ass college guys would get laid. 😂😂 please stop. 🙄

    • i was watching that oj make in america documentary and at one point you saw his wealth make more women flock to him. Even though before he was good with women since he married his best friend's girl

    • @hazoplmeught you mean gold diggers? Lol, regular women? Nope.

    • a lot yes, he STOLE HIS BEST FRIEND'S GIRL WHEN HE WAS GETTING MEDIA ATTENTION IN HIGH SCHOOL AND THEN MARRIED ANOTHER WOMAN (the one he killed) WHILE WITH HIS FIRST WIFE. Women flocked to him (i mean ran and all up on him, his friends were saying) when he was walking on the streets

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  • i don't believe any of these, at least not exclusively.

    1) yes, there are men (and women) like that out there. but they're the exception, rather than the rule.

    2) no, but it's amazing what reading a book or asking for help can accomplish.

    this applies to both genders as well~ my boyfriend and i have completely different skill sets, and we're totally okay with asking each other for help: he's teaching me how to build a computer, and i edit the scripts he writes for his youtube channel. any good relationship is give-give, as my mother says.

    3) none of the guys i've dated have been super rich. but i'm not materialistic, so that's fine~ i've never understood the concept of dating someone for money, and people who do bring out the worst in me.

    -von

  • 1) I know that. I know guys really enjoy just being with a woman. But there are a few who see women as the path to sex.

    2) I think this comes from the fact that most men learn better when doing things and seem to grasp the workings of machines, better than women. I've seen it in every guy I've been with.

    3) Not at all!

    Anyway, as you said, they're 'stereotypes' that many women don't actually believe. :)

  • "women who say men only want to have sex are women who have nothing else to offer than that"... i am SO stealing that. makes mondo sense.
    These are only three out of the like 20000 stereotypes that there are for men. its all some form of control, to shape men into people that THEY want.
    notice how women try to change men, but when we try to do the same to them, they want to be accepted "as they are"...
    what i do to women these days is give them a taste of their own medicine and since i started, i can honestly tell you that 98% of the DO NOT like being treated the same way that they treat men.
    the 2% that did like my method were the ones that already treated men right... as equals... and weren't manipulative trying to get their way only... respectful.

  • "Men have the inborn ability to fix anything with an engine" ... You mean that's NOT true? Oh. :(

    why is this hurtful though?

  • I was actually talking to this guy yesterday about how his ex kept putting him down because he didn't have a nice car, his own house, and a high paying job. And I told him some women do want that, but they should have those things too. And he agreed. I think there's a lot of pressure on guys to have their shit together much earlier than women, especially finances and material things. Guys are pushed to 'be a man' and provide. Now, I'm not saying being a bum is good, but working hard and having something to show for it (1 bedroom apartment.. old car.. out of season clothes) is always better than mooching off of someone else.

    That being said, I think as the times change, there is thankfully less of an influence on a guy to live up to really old stereotypes. But there are some women who still want that. Thankfully, none of my lady friends feel that way or me, we're more about equality on all planes.

    Back to the second point, I agree it's just stupid. I think there is still a pressure for a man to pull his weight doing housework because most often the woman does most of the parental work. So, I think it started as a fair trade. But if the couple doesn't have kids or want the roles reversed, it should be as fair as possible.

    Back to point one, 'Guys just want the p' I think this is still true for some guys, but in my experience 95% of guys that approach me HOPEFULLY (Lol, I hope I'm reading them right) want more than my vagina. Though! This guy tried to pick me up at work after my coworker told him I was not single. The convo went "She's not single." "Oh, lemme see for myself." "She's not that type of girl." "Call her over here, let me see for myself" I avoid him but have to get something for customer, calls me over, "Let me call you." Boy bye! No passenger seat, disrespectful, scrub is going to tempt me.
    Lol, but that's rare. I think most women just want to be careful, and the idea probably came from more traditional times, and it snowballed and carried over to sex crazy times and got out of hand.

    • Tempting scrubicle

    • @OrdinaryGentleman wut is dis scruicle

    • This comment section is too scrubby. Shouldn't you be studying?

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  • Gynecentric? In a world where there are more people called ''John'' then there are women on the boards of Fortune 500 companies, this is a bit of an overstatement innit?
    Dunno, these just seem to be rather petty complaints. ''She wants me to mend a car, she thinks I only think about sex, she only like rich men''. Damn, dude, if these are the worst stereotypes for men that you can think of, I would swap mine with you in a heartbeat.

  • Well, i must say you did your research. Or maybe you just know. But here's the thing. Not all women think that. and while i must say im not proud of the lables that women have put on men there are plenty of lables that men have put on women. more so than women i must say. And though you may blam that women have made all of these accusations but some if not all have come from men. You see, media has put so many things out on the Internet that girls just tend to use it as an escape route. If you look at the different movies and tv shows you can see that its not 'just women' but also men saying these things. Im not using that as a reliable resource but i will say that its not a womans fault that men think that in order to be a 'man', per say, you have to be rich and have nice material things, et cetera. So its not our fault that men put it out there and feed it to us and then go against us like its our fault.

    On the bright side i really like this article. It was good. This is only my opinion so yeah... No hard feelings?

    -Ataylor02

    • In short, its all mens fault, women cannot be criticised for anything right?

    • @hellionthesage no thats not what im saying. What im saying is dont blame someone else for something that you fed that person. This goes for anyone boy or girl, man or woman.

    • Except your repsonse was to dismiss everything stated then come back with women are more victims then men and its mens fault. Ergo you are stating its mens fault. Even in your rebuttal you placed blame squarely on men: "dont blame someone else for something that you fed that person" which in turn implies heavily that one is not allowed to criticise women otherwise you would have said something to the affect of "yeah some women do it and its bad", but you didn't. You made sure that women where vindicated from any guilt by stating not all women, which in logic is reffered to as a dismissal, its meant to brush aside a comment without actually challenging it with facts. Clearly he is not reffering to all women, yet you try and use a straw man fallacy by suggesting he is. You then use the "you too" fallacy of oh but men do it which itself is also a straw man fallacy because its meant to deflect blame back on to men. The last remark suggested all of this originated from men.

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  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqXi8WmQ_WM

  • I mean ofcourse men dont all know how to fix things otherwise mechanics, electricians... etc would have a job. noone thinks thats true at all. that being said women find it hot.

  • :'( poor little men. so oppressed.

    • Hahahahaha

  • This is really weirdly typed out. Can't exactly put my finger on it but it feels like you typed this out while you were drunk or just saw a hurtful Facebook post from some stupid woman or something.

  • I never take that stuff seriously, and you shouldn't either. Especially the one about guys only wanting a vagina. Women usually just say that to get a rise out of us, particularly if they were a woman who let a guy get her into bed.

  • all of these are only stereotypes

  • Well I'm a manwhore who is also an engineer in training and desire a 6 figure income salary. I guess when you fail in life you try to rationalize everything in pitiful ways.

  • Meh some of these are stereotypes for some of us and some of these aren't.

    For instance 1 and 3 are stereotypes for me but 2 isn't as I know how to work on and fix multiple things. But this won't be the case for another guy.

  • Exactly, great Take.

  • that is true that almost girls want rich guys. I had friends like that , for them a " hot guy" is a guy that have good hair , brand clothes and most important a nice car. Sometimes a car is useful but i think a car is not the most important think in a relationship. Not all my friends think like that but i know most of them want guys with money because they want to have a nice live. Most of them believe in that think " a guy should support the woman , so if he dont have money , they dont want make live with them "
    Im not like that but when i start live with my boyfriend i pass a lot of difficulties , so my conclusion is money dont replace love but is need.

  • 1 - Majority of women don't think that, hence not a stereotype
    2 - Not exactly true either, girls just love a guy with some handy skills, but its never a problem
    3 - Majority of women don't think that, they just want a guy to be ambitious & have goals.

    • "Ambition" is just gold digger code for money.

    • Good luck getting laid.

    • It's true, sorry.

  • Men are abused just as much as women- physically and verbally. The only reason nobody believes that is because too many people believe "only men are abusive." I've seen it in person (one of my parents' friends).

  • Everything but the six figures but maybe one day

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