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No, this myTake isn’t a lesson on the birds and the bees (I sincerely hope that anyone reading this take already knows the basic mechanics of sex), nor is this about Salt-N-Pepa’s 1990 hit song by the same name. No, this myTake is about good ol’ fashioned screwing, banging, f*cking, getting laid; Sex.
Sex Differences in Sex
Lets address some important gender differences between Men and Women when it comes to sex. When it comes to "doing the deed", Men and Women are on different pages (heck, even different chapters!). Understanding these differences is key resolving conflicts in the bedroom.
Sex vs. Love: What comes first, love or sex? For Men, sex leads to feelings of love, but for Women, feelings of love lead to sex. This may be why women often feel hurt when the man they have slept with does not reciprocate her feelings, or why men think women become too “clingy” after sex.
Arousal & Satisfaction: This is a major issue for men and women in the bedroom; they are aroused and satisfied at different speeds. Men are quickly aroused and satisfied while Women are slowly aroused and satisfied.
Tension: For Men, The best part of sex is release of tension, but for Women, the best part of sex is the buildup of tension.
Simulation: Lets face it, our bodies and erogenous zones are also different. While Men want immediate direct stimulation in one place, Women want to be touched everywhere, delaying direct stimulation.
Relaxation: Men want sex in order to relax. This is why Men typically need to get-off several times a day. Women on the other had must relax in order to have sex. When a Woman is stressed-out, the desire for sex and the ability to enjoy sex is decreased.
Sexual Prime: Men are in their sexual prime in their late teens to early 20s, while Women hit their sexual prime in their 30s and 40s.
Desire: For Men, desire is dependent on constant hormones, while for Women, desire is dependent on changing hormones. This usually causes issues with libido and ability to perform as we get older.
Orgasm: Men are capable of a single orgasm, while Women are capable of multiple and varied orgasms.
The Difference Between Sex & Making Love
Sex is a biological need for pleasure and/or reproduction. It is a desire for physical contact with another person’s body, irrespective of emotional bond or connection. It is seeking self-gratification; fulfillment of one owns sexual needs. Sex is a sort of appetite; once the appetite as been satisfied, the partner is no longer needed or wanted. In this sense, partners can be seen as objects in a means to an end.
Here is where things get confusing; making love involves sex, but sex is not necessarily making love.
Making love still involves a desire for physical contact, but involves a deep emotional connection and a shared bond that develops between two people; it is a confirmation of love. It is a mutual desire for a unity without partition. While sex is self-gratifying, making love is selfless.
Don't get me wrong, sex is still a necessary part of a couples life, but in my opinion making love is far more fulfilling.
I think this comic by College Humor, illustrates the difference between Sex & Making love very well…
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