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Men, You Don't Know What A Woman Truly Wants!

Just as women most likely don't know what men 'truly" want, you don't know either

! Sidenote: When I say "men", I say specifically guys who're misogynists and claim to know everything a woman wants.

Men, You Don't Know What A Woman Truly Wants!

Something I reallyreally really fucking hate is how on the internet there's all these guys complaining about what a woman "really wants" or how they claim "all women want to be raped". So many guys on here try to act as if they know exactly how every woman is. Then whenever I dispute explaining a rape fantasy or that every woman is different, they become a butthurt little bitch.

Disclaimer: No one wants to be raped! Women who have rape fantasies wish to be dominated, have their will's broken, to be completely taken by the person they TRUST. They don't want some stranger to rape them. They want their SO to take control of everything, take control of them, and then after that session of sex they go on in their daily lives again. @Redeyemindtricks has explained this so many times and still; men on here still try to say secretly every woman wants to be raped.

Men, You Don't Know What A Woman Truly Wants!

Men (on here and in real life) become so fucking sexist. And I'm not saying every guy does this, at all, but the misogynism levels are too fucking high! I don't care if a man thinks that there's a large # of women who do/think something, I understand that. But the moment a man tries telling me what every single woman wants or thinks, it pisses me off to no end.

Oh so you grew up with 2 sisters and a mom, and you dated 1 girl so you know every girl ever? Oh yea okay. Cause that fucking makes sense. I mean, men on here are either white knights who defend a womans honor blindly, or they hate women completely because they can't find a girlfriend to love them and all their misogyny. I've noticed a lot of the time on here with those types of guys it's either "My opinion is every woman wants ____, and if you disagree then you're a little bitch and I'll block you after insulting you"

Men, You Don't Know What A Woman Truly Wants!

Men on here try to say they know how women really are, and that they know what women really want. That is not the case AT ALL! Then they go and complain about chilvarly and shit when not only do they NOT have to follow the chilvalry code, but it is just basic fucking kindness! They don't seem to realize that if they're nice to people, everything will look better, and that if they open their damn minds up to listening to women and trying to understand then they won't get as rejected as much and maybe just maybe they'll find someone who won't wanna fucking punch them in the throat everytime they open their mouths.

Men, You Don't Know What A Woman Truly Wants!

#SeeMyWork

Footnote: I'm gonna tally however many men get butthurt and comment on here.

So far: 10

Aw it's so cute how many men are getting so butthurt.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Part of your problem is when you complain about jerks and men who treat women poorly or think all women want to be dominated... women made 50 Shades of Grey, a book series about a man who literally treats his women like fucktoys and has them sign contracts and is violent and threatening and a stalker... one of the top ten bestselling books in human history.

    But I digress.

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    • Fantasy and reality are hardly the same thing.

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    • isn't 50 shades a book series about blah blah blah, what you said, who ends up being turned into a dominated, needy bitch? so it's not about hard sex with women, its about a woman changing a man, which is what women like doing after all. They enjoy sculping a man more to their liking.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Guys who say that women want to be raped are messed up. End of story.

    • Not as messed up as women who say they want to be raped. Guys who say that are most likely reffering to womens "rape" fantasy, which is I believe the number one fantasy among women, at least according to surveys (and how well 50 shades of gray sold also supporting the notion). Personally I find it unsettling.

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  • I would never claim to know everything a woman wants, especially when that woman doesn't even really know what they want. However I am rather intuitive, as my wife will often tell me that we are psychically linked because I will do or say something she is thinking about, and even though I'm not 100% on the money every time I would say I can often do or say the right thing to make her feel better, relaxed, happy whichever the case may be at least 80% of the time. What happened to the remaining 20%, well of that remaining amount 10% is spent working or sleeping, and then the last 10% is taken up with just human error. ;-)

  • Great take , keep it up and ignore the "butthurt " guys.

  • We don't usually claim to know what women want here. We just give our opinions on what information you give us in a question.

  • Misogny is hatred of women. Hate: intense or passionate hatred. A man claiming to know what women like or do not like does not fall under this catagory. As for generalizations, its because its generally excepted that its a generalization that its not applicable to every scenario and every individual. To restate that its a generalization is redundent. The context of the statement already states as much. Women like rape fantasies (I believe its the number one fantasie for women, statisticly speaking, as made evident by 50 shades of gray), I have never heard a man say women like to be raped at least not in the context of being actually raped. If a man states what he feels women wants then yes he could be full of it as many many women are who make that claim, but he could also being going off of what he personally has experienced which would mean its a statement of fact (at least from his perspective). In any of these situations it is not misogyny so that is an inaccurate use of the term. Please refrain from using the term unless you are using it properly ie when a man outright states he hates women. Criticisms, beliefs or opinions on women or about women does not constitute misogyny. If that was the case every woman in the world would be a misandrist (not that the term carries any kind of weight) which would be a ludicris notion.

  • It would be easy if the woman would tell us what she wants... Oh wait... She doesn't know either. If she can't figure it out, then dammed if we will.

  • You seem fairly butthurt yourself. I Absolutely love women. I also think as a gender you're definitely smarter as a whole, but you're all crazy some more than others but none the less crazy. As for the rape thing I think some have rape confused with dominated. I do feel most women want to be told what to do. Part of the problem is some where along the line women thought they deserved to be equal. Nobody deserves to be equal. You earn that shit. Women and men are clearly different. Im not saying men are better, Im saying men are better at certain tasks just like women have they're strengths. This opinion that I have doesn't mean its alright to abuse women in any way shape or form, emotional or physical. I do believe I have a decent grasp about how women think though. Mostly because I pay attention even when I could care less about the topic at hand. I Definitely view women as sex objects but its hard not to. Im a heterosexual guy after all. Its embedded in my dna. It might sound sexist but I believe there are certain professions that should be either all men or all women. Most jobs can be both. There are some that women can't perform as efficient but there are also some that they just flat out can't do. I don't know why some females can't deal with that. Its not your fault that overall men are much stronger in the their upper bodies. women have different strengths but thats not good enough for men hating feminist.

  • i think you know what a person wants if you simply ask them and learn to understand them.

    but i agree some men and some women don't know what men and women want

  • I try to be kind to women, I try to understand women and what I've gotten is shit. I've been made out to be a horrible person for the lone fact that I'm a male when in fact I'm a good person. You talk about wanting men to be kind... well a lot of women ignore kind men and take them for granted while they go and take to ass holes that hurt them then complain to me about it. And I listen to them cause I'm a caring guy. Give respect where it's due.

    I don't blame the world's problems and all problems on women. I ain't perfect either. But when I say a lot of women, I'm not saying ALL women... but the majority of women I've come across. It really seems though that what a lot of women want is to make it unclear what they want. My advice to women is to assume men are retarded until otherwise and to communicate what you want. If a guy likes you and cares about you enough, then he will honor what you want and take care of you. If you play guess what I want, guess why I'm mad, guess why I'm acting weird, passive aggressive bulshit, mindread, etc... then the guy doesn't have a clue. I refuse to date someone that does a lot of that.

  • I find the women I get along with the most, are the ones who can relate to being horribly mistreated by peers to an extent similar to my own experience. Others, who have nearly always insisted on being treated like princesses and who usually get what they want... I can't relate to those women, at all. And they don't even try to relate to me.

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  • huh, did anyone really think about the quote above? "Mysogynist - a man who hates women as much as women hate one another"

    It basically says that all women are mysogynist, lol

    Anyways, I dont find women or anyone really to be hard to understand. People in general are pretty easy to figure out really. An yeah, almost every woman I know have had some rape fantasies, not uncommon, but yes a huge difference obviously between actual rape and their fantasy. Although know a few cases they would say and yeah wish actual rape, but I think in those cases they just dont know any better cause they are desperate and most likely dont mean it deep down, just really want to feel some desire of anykind. Lonliness can make people crazy :)

  • Sounds like you are a misandrist, which is just as disgusting as a misgynist

  • Hahaha that is so true.

    "I'm not sexist. Being sexist is wrong and being wrong is for women"
    The person who wrote that is a genius. It's so funny!

    It seems like everybody on the end of the spectrum (be it feminazis or anti-feminists) will put all the individuals of opposite gender in the same bag any time it fits their view. If an evil woman gets a ridiculous amount of money as alimony and child support from a man and make it so the father can't even see his children, then ALL women are evil if you listen to anti-feminists. If one man rapes a woman, then ALL men are rapists if you listen to feminazis. That's the problem. Women are our equals. That means they have their assholes and criminals just as we do and it's normal. Look at how when a woman CEO makes a mistake, she is pointed to and told how women in important positions are a bad thing. Yet, men CEOs make mistakes all the time but it's normal. They are seen as "individuals who made a mistake". when a woman makes a mistake, all women are responsible, when a man makes a mistake, only THAT man is responsible. That's bullshit. I think feminism is not only about women having as many rights and responsibilities as us but also to have the right to make mistakes and be imperfect just like we are.

    • @RationalMale Jerks are for real. Books are fantasy. You are always in control in your fantasies.

  • Well said and unfortunately more true than false.

  • well if women/girls didn't hate guys/men so much, and actually loved us as we love girls, then we won't have to be so butthurt anymore

    • Most women actually don't hate men, you'll find far more misogynists than misandrists here.

  • A sugar daddy, slave or a door mat? Lol Jk. No, I have no clue and stopped wondering or caring a while ago. If I found someone that wanted what I did without me having to change my whole life, belief structure about humanity, the world and god, I'd be interested.

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  • Well men don't claim to know what women want but men are curious, scientific and logical by nature. Men have looked at women's actions and cross checked with the words that come out of their mouth and found many sharp contrast and some that are often polarized (i want a nice guy but keeps dating assholes). Men have even created theory on women's behavior to evolutionary biology and it turns out to match up pretty well in general cases.

    https://youtu.be/HGEO6ig8WsM



    So while men may not know what women in all things many guys have done the work on the stimulus most women respond to in actual field test rather than theoretical bais, their actions and behavior to certain things to and how women in general react and behave when faced with certain personality types, and physical features of men. All crossed checked with hypothesis theories that makes sense.

    • Many guys have said even on this site that they got much better results in how to approach, flirt and understand women from PUA books. And results were often always poor when they took advice such as their mother or female friends.

    • oh a fellow fan of RSD! Finally someone who took the red pill. If a guy takes advice from women on how to act he'll be miserable most of the time lmao. These guys know what's up

    • @Kraftmuppen lol this guys is a tool

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  • Well, women, don't really know what women want. Men don't know what men want. Everyone is different so it's impossible to generalize.
    I know there's dudes here that generalize; there's also others that speak from experience and in no way they're saying every woman is like that, but still manages to get bitchy women to jump at him saying not every woman is the same.

    I mean, sometimes it's not necessary to state that you're not talking about every woman, cause it's common sense that not every woman will think that blue is their favorite color.
    Just because you say "women like when..." doesn't mean you're saying EVERY woman likes that thing.

    I agree with you on those that say every single woman is the same, it's bullshit, especially when most of those dudes have never even touched a boob.

    • Well yea I agree but I made this rant so I made it into a mytake for a friend on here.

    • So I didn't focus on women being sexist/not knowing either because of the rant

  • Great take... made me think. My ex husband tried to rape me. When I confronted him... he said he thought I would enjoy something different. I guess me screaming and crying didn't give him a clue I wasn't into it.

    • wow im sorry <3 are you ok?

    • Yes that was quite a few years ago. I'm with a great guy now. Thanks

    • Okay good. <3

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