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Being excessively hairy sucks and so does having in-growns and a stubbly body!

Sometimes you have something that's totally useless and ugly but somehow you got unlucky to get them and have to carry them with you till the end of your life.

Excessive body hair is one such thing that's totally useless ugly and creepy. Well anything I'm excess is ugly and bad , body hair in itself is ugly and useless even in small amounts and thats why even people with fuzz shave wax and feel insecure.

Being excessively hairy sucks and so does having ingrowns and stubbly body!

The picture has a man with excessive hairiness and I am dead sure his body hair is more than normal persons pubes.So people who feel it's not to worry about and it's easy fix , how do you feel after you have ingrowns, stubbly feeling in your pubic region? Imagine those ALL over your body and then say something.

Being excessively hairy sucks and so does having in-growns and a stubbly body!

Imagine a hot sweaty summer day when other people wear shorts, sleeveless tops or even go shirtless and you still wear full sleeves and full pyjamas because you hate to see your sticky messy hair and you sweat sweat and sweat and feel irritated.

Sex is out of question in your life and all you do is look at naked women pics on net and masturbate.

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  • I have several hairy guy friends, most are committed or even married in their relationships and happily so. Some live in Arizona, too, so they get the heat side of it. Swim when it's hot, live where there is A/C and enjoy your bod! If you wanna groom, groom, but I would recommend trim, not full wax/shave to avoid skin infections and ingrowns. Just my feelings on this.

    • Okay thanks but it's hard

  • I I wanna date a guy, and trully like him I won't care about his body hair. What will be turn off is him having problem with it himself!
    My boyfriend is hairy, very hairy in fact, for some reason though he doesn't have a hairy chest, and he's blonde, so it is less noticeable, but when you touch him, he IS hairy.
    Having hair in your body is normal, you hate it? Wax! I have been kinda hairy, its been almost 10 years that I wax my body hair, and I'm not even close to how hairy I was before! I hardly have hair on my body now!
    Girls dont care, and you shouldn't care what they think, what do YOU think about your body hair? If you hate it there are ways to take care of it. If you dont mind it, well then good for you! ;)

    • Also I actually like those hairy arms :D

    • Your boyfriend doesn't have hairy chest and belly or back so that's great. A REALLY hairy chest abs and back look awful and make a man look animal. He is lucky and so are you. Yeah I feel very very very bad that I grow hairs like a fucking animal. Am I cursed?😞😭 As I said it's not easy to wax shave those thick coarse hairs from whole body. Those thick hairs grow back giving ingrowns that are itchy and if you shave they get sand paper feeling and get stubbly that's really really aeeful. Imagine having beard stubble on whole body? That's no fun anyway. Keeping the hairs as it is isn't nice either. You like those furry arms?:O I fucking hate having them. I never wear half sleeves. i hate to look at my own arms as obviously hate rest if my body. I try not to see my body. i shower with lights off

    • I'm sorry you feel that way. For about 3 years I hod some thyroid problems and I gained about 60 pounds wihich s lot! I hated myself, I went from a hot skinny girl to a chubby depressed girl! I lost 20 pounds in a year but I was still kinda fat. I couldnt starve myself, so I just started to accept the fact that I was going to be overweight for a while and I it will take time to lose weight. I started dating again and I was dating a very athletic guy, which made me more determined to lose weight. My point is there is always a way to change your appearance, even body hair, but love yourself the wY you are fist, cause that's the one thing that will help you the most. Get your thyroid check, too much hair might be hormonal, wax regularly even though its painful but the hair will get softer and less and you won't have ingrowns. Try laser? Its 21st century! There's a way to solve almost every problem! Stay positive and try to find a way! Best of luck :*

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  • I think I said it before, and I will say it again just to be sure you got it: just learn to accept yourself, and love yourself!
    Body hair won't make a person ugly or less worthy, it is just hair. You don't need to cover yourself all up from head to toe. If it's hot and you want to wear shortsit and a sleeveless; wear them! No one will be disgusted to see your hair, it is only you making a problem out of it. 😊
    One question for you to think about: would you be disgusted if a girl was very hairy?

    Maybe it is just you who are judging yourself too harshly. Stop it! Let your inner self glow and don't judge your body, you'll see that there is much bigger things in the world and in people 👀

    • Even after seeing those torso and arms you say be confident and wear shorts and short sleeves! See those arms and similar hairy legs😭 And NO I would have NO issues if a girl was very hairy, seriously😃 that's not a problem for me at all. I would encourage her to keep it all natural and be happy, its sexy 😉😉 My hair is ugly and messy animalistic ewww Look at the fur kind of hair tsk tsk so cursed I am unable to keep myself happy and feel normal like others

    • Yeah, you have to accept it. Usually hair is like that, it looks messy and animalistic, because it is something we human have left of the animal-form we have been. I don't think it looks bad at all, and as long as you don't go in speedos it should be okey to show some skin + hair when it's warm. Just be yourself and be confident, because you know what? What looks ugly on someone is if they are too insecure about themselves.

    • I am hella insecure esp when I compare myself to women's skin, I feel beast next to hairless Angeles women

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  • I just don't know what you want people to say anymore. They've tried telling you that not everyone thinks it's so bad, they've tried telling you ways to fix it. All that's left is to agree with you. So, yeah that sucks. Sorry you have to deal with that. good luck.

    • It looks OK?

    • Personally I don't hate it. If my boyfriend had this much hair I'd be totally fine cuz I love him so it doesn't matter.

  • Groom youself for your own comfort and self confidence, dont groom for anyone else. perhaps in the future if you have a good relstionship you can both discuss grooming but for now try grroming smaller areas dont clean shave or wax anything on clipper trim so its tidy and matches. Leave your pubic hair full length for contrast but trim so it defined. I think you will find more comfort in doing it only for your own confidence.

    I dont wax my vagina for anyone but me and if i want to have some groomed hair or a big blonde bush thats how i will havs it

    • Thanks, lovely thoughts coming from a beautiful mature woman😃, enjoyed it thoroughly. Just one curiosity, " Leave your pubic hair full length for contrast but trim so it defined", what do you mean by saying this?😞

    • So trim your body hair short but kind of give yourself a bikini line shape around the top

    • Oh okay, just one thought, why do you suggest to leave pubes all natural bushy? Because I am virgin?

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  • I have no idea how guys usually think of it but as a girl, I don't like too much body hair but some girl found it sexy

    • I know it's creepy as fuck

  • fuck what anyone thinks srsly if u have a great personality and face then who cares.. but i think if u want to know where to shave, just ur boobs but nothing else

    • Shave boobs? You mean.. shave upper chest? How about arms?

    • nooo keep arms... just around the nipples and chest

    • Shave chest and belly, shave shoulders? The second pic is arms, see how furry they are, keep the all natural?

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  • okagin this question... I want to be honest with you , i dont want to offend you or anything but its too much. I understand how you feel because my boyfriend have hairy back on shoulders. Its not your fault its because the hormones but you should at least cut it witha scissors because you hair is too long. Like you said you feel disconfortable because you must sweat a lot with of that hair in the summer days. In these days you never see a hairy man , a lot of guys do the depitation and i dont understand what you want people say about this.

    • Thanks for understanding my pain 😃😞😭

    • im very hairy too... in the right places hahah (kidding) Do you want to see my hair , i have very strong long curly hair

    • Can i ask you about your age?

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  • OK. So let's be real here. People will have different reactions to your situation. I'll give you two scenarios:
    If we met at a bar, start making out, maybe go to your place for a good time, then I see all that hair on your body, right off the bat I'd be turned off and maybe freak out a bit. I won't say it right to your face but I most likely won't want to see you again. I tend to be more judgmental when it comes to hookups.
    If we met somewhere else and I get the chance to know you more (and if we get along well and I start to like you for you), then it won't really matter how hairy you are. When

    • *when you've established a good relationship with me and we decide to be more intimate then I see you naked for the first time, I may still be surprised to see so much hair but I won't really care much about it. If at first I'm already attracted to you and we get along well, I tend to be more accepting of the whole package and that includes all your imperfections. So my point is, let women get to know you more first. Try to hold off your sexual urges if they don't know much about you with your clothe on yet. If the girl you're with really likes you, then your imperfections won't matter to her.

    • *clothes

    • If in the first scenario, would you somehow stop the intimacy and run away from him without having sex?

  • Darling you're too paranoid... men can have hair like this. pls stop being so self conscious. As for the ingrown hairs, dont shave there, just trim the hair. you're a normal man

    • Men "can" have hair? Ok so you are saying it's socially acceptable? Ok But as a young woman say for yourself isn't it gross abnormal dirty and turn off?

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