4 Reasons Why Women Tend To Prefer Larger Penises

Guys are always posting on here asking if they are "big enough" or asking if "women care about the size of a guys dick". I thought I would make this in order to help guys understand why we generally prefer a bigger penis 😄. I hope this helps.

1. They make you feel more full

4 Reasons Why Women Tend To Prefer Larger Penises

This is fairly obvious. When a guy is bigger it stretches you more which generally feels much better - especially when you've never been with a guy that big before. It's like when a woman has a tight vagina - it feels much better, right? This is no different. The pleasure that women get from sex, a lot of the time, is the feeling of simply being "full" - a larger penis tends to accomplish this much better.

2. They look better

4 Reasons Why Women Tend To Prefer Larger Penises

Looking at a large penis is like looking at a large pair of breasts - they just look better. The reaction guys have when they see a large "rack", girls have the same reaction when we see a large bulge. A lot of women don't care, but at the end of the day it does most certainly catch your eye and get you a little excited to see more. In terms of look and feel, girth is more important than length.

3. It's more masculine

4 Reasons Why Women Tend To Prefer Larger Penises

Typically, when we are talking about masculinity and femininity, men are big and strong and women are small and fragile. Of course this mindset has changed a lot over time, but we can't change biology. Men and women are generally still attracted to those who are feminine and masculine respectively. The size of the mans penis is no exception. Big, thick, pumped, strong, hard - they all contribute to the overall sense of the man's masculinity which can, in turn, make a woman feel more feminine.

4. Bragging rights

4 Reasons Why Women Tend To Prefer Larger Penises

Girls talk a lot about their boyfriends. How they compare to their ex's, how caring and loving they are and, of course, how big they are. It's not the only thing we care about, of course, but it's definitely something that comes up over a round of drinks 😆. It's nice to be able to brag about your man and see your friends grin with jealousy.

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  • 1. "Looking at a large penis is like looking at a large pair of breasts - they just look better." Not all guys prefer looking at big boobs. Some guys prefer small boobs and lots of guys don't care. I have spoken with some ladies who are intimidated or scared by big penises. Maybe YOU like looking at a big Johnson but that doesn't mean that every other girl feels the same way.

    2. "It's more masculine." Do you know how shallow that sounds? Why not define a guy's masculinity by how much money he earns or how jacked up his pickup truck is?

    Some guys think it is masculine to come home every night and slap around the little woman before you fuck her senseless. They think their impulses are biologically driven and "that's just the way things are." Pretty cool, huh?

    3. "Bragging rights." This is why you get into relationships? So you can tell your girlfriends that you are dating Harry The Horse? I would guess that you are not very old or you are very inexperienced.

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  • This all can be true but... big dicks can also hurt/be uncomfortable to fuck. Like even with a guy's fingers, 1 finger feels best because he can touch the most spots. Once you get to 2-3 fingers, the stretching can feel good but not awesome. Most guys' dicks are two fingers wide, and that's plenty for being stretched out a reg basis.

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  • I don't care much about your preferences regarding dick size. If you like big penises, that's fine. However, I do get very much bothered when you talk bullshit about scientific stuff. Masculinity and femininity are NOT biological concepts, they are SOCIAL and CULTURAL concepts. Yes, males and females are biologically different but that doesn't mean anything. If you knew something about history, you would know that ideas of masculinity and femininity have changed DRASTICALLY throughout time (often several times). In the 17th and 18th century, it was considered very masculine for men to wear long stockings and wigs. Today, we would probably disagree with this notion. Likewise, crying is nowadays considered a weakness when you're a guy. However, in the middle ages, it was considered a normal part of being a tough warrior/knight to be able to weep publicly. I could continue this list for a long time.
    Now you might say these are not physical traits and that it's different when it comes to human bodies. And wrong you are again. One good example: in the renaissance, small penises were considered attractive on men. Ever seen Michelangelo's David in real life? His penis is not exactly big. There's a reason for this: big penises were considered brute during this age.
    Also, you really wanna go into biology and the origins of human kind? You really wanna do that? Now then get this: the picture of the man you've posted here couldn't be more artificial. This man looks masculine according to MODERN standards. It has only been 30-40 years that men such as him even exist. Why? Because the only way you get such looks is by working out at a gym regularly and making sure to have a certain diet. However, this behavior is directly connected to our modern, wealthy lifestyle. No farmer or factory worker of the 19th century ever looked this way. Yes, they had some muscles but they were nowhere close to this kind of magazine cover boy. Also, if we talk about the origins of mankind, men actually looked very different. In order to survive in the African savannah, men were mid-sized (neither short nor tall), very lean and not muscular. The point of having good survival chances as man in those days was not to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger. The point was to be able to run fast, walk far distances, quietly sneak through the high grass etc.. So if you wanna talk about masculinity in a biological sense, your ideal man looks more like modern Somalis, Ethiopians and Eritreans.

    • I was expecting an answer like this, sir ^

    • @Heera Haha, yeah, I just couldn't help it ;-)

    • Of course the ideas of masculinity and femininity have changed over time but there are some universal concepts - such as men being big and women being small.

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  • This was obviously written by a dude using a girls account -.- women dont talk like this. They're trolling

    "Big, thick, pumped, strong, hard"

    no woman has ever written this sentence

    • Yeah all women talk in the same pattern. You're so right.

    • @Slikmix exactly what I was thinking. But I've also been told that I articulate ideas the way a man would, so who knows. Lol

    • @cpzpbx3 You actually sound like an intelligent person. I think that's what opinion owner is trying to say. Most women are dumb.

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  • From my experience and what I've heard from most women is that the penis doesn't need to be exceptionally large. As a matter of fact, very large penis are not in demand. It can be of average length, but it's the thickness that's important to them. They want to feel filled-up. I mean, a penis can be 10" ng, but, if it's a pencil dick it won't be desirable.

  • I dont know if i'll agree because I am a girl and well some dicks can be short and thick.. and a dick that doesn't hit the spot won't be fun at all.. so a thin long dick can go a veryyyyy long way like making me unable to move for a while ;)

  • It’s true the thickness stretching causes more stimulation the thicker it is. I’m not say just because you have a big dick a girls going to enjoy it. I don’t like fat guys or ugly guys and wouldn’t enjoy what ever they had to offer. I do think the average size penis with all the right other traits will make great sex. I personally haven’t been with a guy to big to handle his size confident in could accommodate any sized man lol. My boyfriend has a 7 3/4” long and 6” + thick around cock that fits me perfectly. I think his size is perfect nothing to change about him in that department lol. I might only change him not watching sport on TV more than I do lol. I told him her gets any fat on his body he is many watching TV and hitting the gym or road lol.

  • 1. too large mix-match fits are uncomfortable and make foe short sessions + painful sometimes
    2. as Elaine Benes once said, I don't know HOW you guys walk around with those things, so again disagree
    3. can't agree here as well, ironic b/c I do see/agree with converse about gals' breasts being more feminine
    4. bragging rights? lunacy b/c the #1 gals most likely to make him cheat is a boyfriend or at least in the group & wants to sample what you've got she hasn't... what ARE you thinking?

  • Most women I know have ol had 1-4 partners, so they aren't comparing penises, since they don't have any statistical base for that.

    The sluts are still a minority in the US, though they get most of the publicity, of course.

  • I've noticed that even men with large penises are self-doubting and self-conscious about them. It's kind of like thin women who for some bizarre reason are convinced they are fat. I was mind-boggled the first time I heard my husband say something that implied he was embarrassed by his size. Like wtf you idiot you're almost 9in hard? That's like a 98 pound chick bitching that she needs to lose weight. Seems like most men I've met feel that way about themselves regardless how big they are.

    • Im big and even i doubt it. Cause its not really about how big it is, it can be big but if she doesn't enjoy it then it sucks amd every woman has a different size so its about finding thr right key to the lock unless you have a master key ;)

    • lol seems like guys worry more than girls cause majority of guys no matter size always wish we was bigger

    • lol yea

  • I'll take whatever he's got and make it work. If you were to put me in a situation where I could pick a guy by only seeing his penis I'll go for the big ones. I like a little pain mixed with my pleasure sometimes!

  • I'm not the most well hung man on the planet but I've never had any complaints so I think I'm ok lol. Personally the way I see it is, if her preference is larger than what I have and she was willing to end the relationship over that and not even give me a chance? Well she wasn't really worth my time to begin with. It's not like you can change it. You're born with what you're born with after all. I don't fret about it. Why worry about something you can't change? I instead focus on improving my knowledge of pleasing my woman rather than worrying about the size of my Willy. All and all good take though. I find the basic premise of this take is this: This is the reason we like it but everyone has their preference.

    The reason I dislike this argument is because it's demeaning and you can't change it. But I do respect that everyone has their preferences. Good take though!

  • You are the same "girl" who wrote the myTake about why are tall guys awesome.
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    • yeah!!! and all these puppet anons! Someone is playing games.

    • @Laura_Marx He has too much free time. @.@

    • He's probably an "alpha male" who wants to make women ok with hurting the "betas" with small penises, probably to affirm his own "alpha" status as most desirable. Or he's some average guy obsessed with small penises, and does things on the Internet to make women hurt them, so he can jerk it. Either way, I'm afraid that both these guys are just getting what they want, and damaging others lives.

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  • nope. big hurts. end of. course some women like pain. or are really big themselves but for non masochists and non stretched women, bigger is not better.

  • Thank you ;)

  • Big dicks are pretty to look at, put I'll pass for sex. I'm smaller and can't take a huge horse dick without severe pain.

    • Hahaha, well whats your max you'd take then?

    • @CaliSoccerGuy I don't know, I don't measure before we get down to business.

  • It would be refreshing if more women were honest about this. Most women I've talked to say they like big ones. But what annoys me, is when guys are worried about their size, and women on here say they're dumb for thinking that way? I've always wondered why they call it, "common sense" when it's so rare.

  • number 1 and 2 are subjective

    hopefully most women don't subscribe to 3and4.

    • Yeah this is true

  • And yet the flip side... no guy with a massive cock has ever looked at a woman and said "This is the pussy I am going to fuck for rest of my life, forsaking all others..."

    • You, sir, are a legend.

    • At least not the hoes (speaking of men)

    • Lol, soo true.

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  • I think it is important to put in that having one that is "TOO Big" is worst than being average.

    • Sure, but you would have to be 20" around in order to be "too big" and guys like that don't exist lol.

    • That last comment.. tells me that you have no ideal of what your talking about.

  • I never really knew how I compared when I was younger because the only other penises I ever saw were porn stars, or guys in the locker room (without erections). Sure, a few girls remarked about my big penis, but I thought they were just trying to bolster my fragile male ego, right? But I also met some girls who didn't have anything sexual going on with me who still said I had a big one. So I did some research, and all the studies I saw showed that what I had was a good inch and a half longer than average. In fact, one detailed graphic showed that mine was very close to "perfect", statistically speaking. No wonder so many girls have just used me for sex.

    • You and me are probably close to the same size of we read the same studies. What do you say is average?

  • They are fair enough points - Everybody has their preferences - I don't care because my penis is the same size now as it was at the start of the article - It will be the same size next week - If a woman likes my penis that is really up to her, the same way I might have a nice opinion of her vagina.

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