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7 Things That Make Me Want SexyTime

Ladies. We know that it sometimes takes us a little bit longer than our male counterparts to feel like we want some lovin'. My mom always joked with me that a tasteful ankle could get the boys ready. While her comment is totally satirical (I promise), it does bring across the message that men can be ready more quickly than we (sometimes) can. So, to give all you lovely men some insight, here are some things that really get me, and other women, in the mood.

1. Massages

There is nothing better than a good neck/back/foot/anywhere massage. You are physically stimulating my body and showing me that you care for me all at the time time. Yes.

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2. Running Your Fingers Through My Hair

Maybe it's just me, but I LOVE to have my hair touched. Someone gently pulling on my tresses sends my body into shivers...in the best possible way.

It is the same idea as a massage: you are stimulating my body and showing me you love/care about me. I think you'll find that appealing to women emotionally as well as physically is really meaningful and such a turn on.

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3. When He Takes Control

Whether this means deciding where we are going for dinner or taking control in the bedroom...yep, such a turn on.

4. When He Does Something to Take Away My Stress

Nothing says "I love you" or "I care about you" like someone doing something with you in mind. If he knows I've had a long day and cooks dinner or if I get home and he's cleaned the apartment or has done the dishes. At that point, I'm ready to jump him.

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5. Suits, Uniforms, Any Power Man Outfit.

Enough said. Sexy as HELL.

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6. Your Smell

Find out what your woman likes and wear it. I can't tell you how sexy it is when I really like how a man smells. I personally love the smell of Versace Eros (which I only found out because a guy was wearing it and I had to ask what it was).

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7. When You Are Telling/Showing Me About Your Passions

I LOVE to know you and what you are passionate about. It is really inspiring (as well as a turn on) to see someone who is sharing their passions.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • #4 is so freaking spot on! I can't tell you how many times my girlfriend has text or called me and you can hear the stress in her voice; I go and clean the house or cook her favorite meal. It's no coincidence that each and every time I did that, we had sex that broke the record books lol
    Actually all of these are really spot on. Good myTake.

    • It is because it shows that you care about us! And we find that HOT!

    • @Poppykate going to replenish my supply of Febreze and Mr. Clean, just in case 😉

    • Spot on!

Most Helpful Girl

  • 100% agree with all of this

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  • Chores and suits don't really do it for me. But everything else I get. Especially #1 & 7

  • Sex can do that all at once. What? Just saying. No? No. Okay. Well, good mytake.

  • I go to great lengths to avoid perfumed personal care products. So many are bombs of fragrance that let others know you're approaching before you arrive. I find many are toxic to me. I love using unscented antiperspirants and shaving cream and skin lotion. Apparently my natural pheromones are working just fine without artificial intervention (pre-oderants).

    • Many of them are over-sprayed. You may only need one or two sprays on your chest. That way, a woman will smell you as you walk by, but not from a mile away.

  • I don't know why just apparently every girl likes foot massage 😐

    • Well if we have a career, most likely we're wearing heels all day. Heels + 8 Hours = PAIN.

    • I like pretty much all of me massaged except my feet - They're too sensitive/ ticklish. My back is incredibly sensitive so it needs a lot of pressure otherwise I can't sit still.

  • 1 thing that makes me not want sexytime

    calling it sexytime

    • Lol okay. Noted

    • Un-note it. I like that you call it sexy time. Sounds playful

    • @Rahdle :) Okay I'll un-note it

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  • "We know that it sometimes takes us a little bit longer than our male counterparts to feel like we want some lovin'"
    I nominate that for understatement of the year... lol

  • Thanks for ideas but I'm already so completely into mu lovers arousal that I'll forgo any chance for a quicky in order to spend the time to have her geared up and, literally, flooded with desire before anything else. In fact I enjoy getting her closer anc closer to the edge or orgasm - so much so that her hips are writhing and her back is arching with the need for just the tiny bit of friction that will unleash her. I love toying with her, repeatedly getting her so close and then backing off and finally doing it one last time but instead of backing off doing something dramatic, a fave is pushing softened ice deep into her V and her ass just when she begins to come. The combination of the cold touching some very warm and sensitive spots while continuing to give her head has resulted in some apologies to neighbors.

  • Me being with her makes her want sexy time

  • I am iffy on #7. My last girlfriend started calling me boring when I talked about my passion which is applied mathematics. It's what I do for a living. When I told her that I'm not going to put up with disrespect especially as it pertains to my career she got really pissed off and she broke up with me =P

    Anyhow great take nonetheless

    • I'm sorry about your ex-girlfriend. You should be with someone who supports you in your passions, even if they don't have the same passions as you do.

    • Lol just because a girl you dated didn't like your interests doesn't mean that Take Owner doesn't enjoy hearing about her SOs interests.

    • So I don't see how you can be "iffy" about it. But I agree with OP, find someone who supports what you do.

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  • Agh now I'm in the mood too!
    I still remember seeing all my guy friends in suits for the first time, they all instantly became a little more attractive, and I freaked out lol (in a good way).

  • I agree with all. :)

  • That's so lame

  • Good Mytake, Most of these are similar to the ones that get my wife interested.

  • 40,000 in my bank account 😍

  • 5 and 6 are enough to drive me crazy
    Def suits and a great parfume is sexy as hell

  • very nice

  • Girls, always seem to hate neck and shoulder massages, probably cause I give them when others are around. lol

    • Quite the other way around for me

    • @RedHood7 lol. Yeah I don't know, maybe I need to let someone else choose the girls I date. I really know how to pick em, what girl hates massages?

    • My female friends fight each other and pretty much beg for my massages. This ain't no joke. This happens every week. I fully regret giving one of them a massage once. All it took me was one massage, and now Im practically harassed for 10min of massage by 4 or 5 girls simultaneously. At first it seemed funny, now its just annoying.

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  • Sexy time? What are you 50 years old

  • This mytake is great.

    • Why thank you :)

  • 8 / an expensive gift like a jewlery :p

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