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Does Porn Control?
When you Drive your car, do you drive it to your destination or would you let sex take the wheel?
Sex, it really is a wonderful thing. From your first experience to your last, people can't get enough of it. It is from this that the miracle of childbirth is possible. But when newborn becomes newborn pleasure, does this change your stance?
Pornography is the "limb tangle" of sex. Pornhub released their annual results weighing in at 21 billion people visiting the website and 4.3 billion hours worth of pornography consumed. Doesn't it all get to a point where you've had enough? A point where you realize that this one thing is simply sex.
Many could argue that sex is the reason for our existance (which could be argued) but most would agree both porn and sexual activity is for simple pleasure. Yet has anyone thought about the feeling of making something? The feeling that you get after coming home from a long day at work safe? The feeling of growing something significant in the world and making a difference? What about even simpler things like friendship? When you dig deeper and deeper it is evident that the answer to this is yes, sex is overrated. There are way too many price tags and too many ratings for such a common and insignificant thing.
It's almost as if I declared one day that playing with the end of your pencil was forbidden and that doing it was wrong. Then everyone would do it, most likely make memes and probably even make videos on the dark web of rubbing your pencil.
Just take a second now, step back and think. Is sex needed to survive? Is it absolutely complusary? Sure I won't make the truth abstract, for some it is all of the above but is it something we should let drive our lives?
I personally believe as someone who has been surrounded as a child and teenager with such atrocities that sex and more so, porn is wrong. I believe that porn is something that should be banned, there are many different people gaining money. The owner of buisnesses, the domain hosters, the actors and directors, the internet companies and places which sell sex toys and technology used in porn. However, take a look at how twisted this society, no this world, has become. How many lives have been ruined and how many more to come?
Taking a look back in time to the earliest of people to roam this Earth, artworks and pictures can be seen of men and women walking around peacefully naked. No men popping one, no covering up of the "private areas" and most of all, no need for porn. If porn did not exist, then the secrecy put on female's "girls" and both men and women's "downstairs" would not exist. This would mean that people would not find these genitals so significant and arousing. Understandably, people have common decency and dignity though porn is a large contributer to the sexual attraction put on pictures of women's pants for example. I personally believe that this would substantially decrease the rate of sex scandals, rape and many other sex-related problems let alone the pressure put on relationships over sex.
On the topic of the pressure put on relationships because of porn, this website, GAG, has over time revealed to me that this is an evident problem. More commonly with females but evident in males (myself included). Porn puts such great expectations on relationships and from people looking to date online on datings apps and websites. My favourite quote that would simply save everyone from this endless loop of expectations and rape is; Expectations always lead to disappointment. Never expect anything from anybody. Be self content. Anticipate everything but expect nothing.
Dr Anil Kr Sinha quotes
This article is proof that sometimes these sexual expectations go too far and a when there isn't a no to sex, a yes isn't required. https://www.bustle.com/articles/135171-i-didnt-say-no-but-it-was-still-rape?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=owned&utm_campaign=sexrelationshipsbustle
It really is a shame that the world has come to this.
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