Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

My take on (guy's propensity for) virginity and inspired by 5 Reasons Guys Prefer Experienced Women in Bed.

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

I hear it all the time: Guys love virgins! Guys wish every girl they sleep with could be a virgin!

Why should it not be? It is unsurprisingly obvious that guys like virgin girls. Biologically, we are made to prefer them so that, we could have better chances to spread 'our' genes to the offspring. We want to be sure that we are our children's father. But we don't live in caves anymore and there are a lot of things like implants, condoms, pills and girls who say things like:

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

Of course, most of us are not virginity hunters and we respect promiscuous women. So, why in the 21st century, guys still find it a turn-on if the girl is a virgin? Let me tell you why.

Less danger of a misunderstanding

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

These days, girls are very forward-looking. They know how to get their job done. Guys do sex only because they want children or pleasure (or revenge? that's too deep, let's not talk about this), but girls can do sex for a lot of luxuries. Guys may misunderstand the girls' intention and could end up being broke, blackmailed, suicidal, losing their youth hoping she's the one. Obviously, this requires a lot of skill and experience. Virgin girls are unlikely to abuse men by using sex compared to hoes as they are doing it only in love. Keep in mind that I used the word "hoes", not "promiscuous women", because they are not bad girls in any sense, at least I believe so.

There's no ambiguity or questioning when it comes to virgin women. If they don't want it, you'll know. If they do, you'll know then, too. No ifs, ands, or buts.

We want blood during sex

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

Seriously, it's such a turn on and most likely, a 'once-in-a-lifetime' moment. We are not talking about 'menstrual blood' here obviously. It gives us a feeling that we totally owned her. Yes, it might hurt a lot, but (boys, take a lesson) men know that it is completely normal and there is nothing to be freaked about. An astonishing achievement to add to your list (or bucket list?).

The guy will enjoy himself with a virgin

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

One of the reasons I don't get why people believe guys love experienced women is because it doesn't mean that you "learned" from your 'experiences'. I've been with several "experienced" women (so experienced that they already lost their count) who can't even ride properly or suck at sucking. They just lie on bed and do nothing. Even the most experienced girls had to learn how to do the things properly at some point. I hate to break to you, but being experienced doesn't guarantee that she is a crackerjack!

And who says virgins can't be fun? It is such a turn on to see their expressions when someone is not just seeing them naked but doing a lot to their body they only fantasized in their life, making them comfortable, turning them on, hearing their loudest moan ever, being helpless and begging for it to end but wanting their guy's pleasure at the same time. What can a guy expect more than that?

Experimentation is a GO

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

She will be doing the biggest experiment of her life. The experiment she can do only once. It would mean a lot to her. We all are nervous before performing on stage, but we know that we have to do it and the outcome will be prolific. Now, think about how would it feel to have a person like that in front of you, want to make you happy, all nervous because of you? She spent all those years, repressing her wild side and now, she chose YOU to unleash that. You will be craving for that moment. You will really want to try it out.

Experienced women already enjoyed a lot. They must have done a lot of things. What is experimental to you, could be monotonous for her. But for a virgin, you will teach her what sex really is. You are her master. She is ready to do that all. There is a long way to go. She's ready to fulfill her fantasies on you and guys don't lose out easily.

Guys go in knowing they have to step up their game

Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Virgin Girls in Bed

Okay, a little pun in that subtitle there but you know what I mean. With virgins, guys know how big deal it is. This is not your typical hook-up with a random nympho. She trusts you, loves you and this is going to hurt her really bad. She might get freaked out. There is a lot of responsibility. It requires real guts to get the consent of a virgin, take her to your bed, turn her on, take her clothes off and finally do it WITHOUT making her completely apathetic about the whole idea of sex.

Anybody can ram it in, but with virgins, it is very perplexing task and guys really love that thrill. When it ends, it makes them feel like winners, a great ego boost. I guess a good analogy would be this: If you're playing in the majors, it wouldn't be much fun to play with some random dude from A ball, right? You want some competition; you want to play with someone who can bring out the best in you. Give your best thrust guys ;)

[Bonus]

Religion, Marriage values, No comparison, Purity, Virgins can get 'experience' but experienced ones can't become virgins unless we really trust them lol and last but not least, this take applies on long term relationships.

Suggested reading: Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Experienced Girls in Bed

#rekt

Thanks for reading. Virgin or not, guys love girls. Don't hate, checkmate.

Game on folks, believe!

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  • Excellent article. Furthermore, I would wager that most men prefer virgin women because they are more likely to adhere to traditional gender roles, and thus be better wives down the line. Many women are going to take offense at this, but it is just the truth. No man wants to put a diamond on a promiscuous woman. Women have every right to be promiscuous if that is what they wish to do, but they need to stop trying to tell men how to feel about them, and judging us simply because we do not find them as attractive anymore.

    Personally, I would prefer a virgin. I want our first time to be the wedding night, and thus I want for us to be each other's only partners. That way the experience will truly be memorable for both of us. Not to mention I prefer a woman who clings to her values, and virginity is an indicator of that.

    Overall, however, I have learned a lot in these past months. I've learned that while I will always prefer a virgin, I would not completely reject a woman either just because she was not one. I've learned that people make mistakes, but they change and learn from them. If having sex before marriage is one of those, then I might be able to accept that mistake in her past if she at least truly loves me and talks to me as an equal.

    • Haha I salute this guy. Thanks a lot for reading and sharing your input :)

    • Are you a Virgin?

    • @Your_secret_nerd Yes I am. Why?

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  • that made me smile, i am a sexy virgin (24),.. and my boyfriend really loves all the points you mentioned about me,,,, he was my first kiss, my first boob touch,,, etc,, we haven't had sex yet, but hot make outs that drive me crazy after all those years of waiting, he finds it ccute that the first time he saw me half naked i was super shy i even cried but he says i looked so beautiful and cute, he loves my perky unused boobs, he said he loves the look i had on my face when he first touched them,,, and how i looked at him when he became a little rough while touching me (downstairs) for the first time,,,, he also really loves how i am now all excited about making outs and kissing like they are the best things in my life (so new for me ),,, he also loves teaching me,, he loves noticing my progress, he says i was super bad at my first kiss, but once after a while he said you became a master in kissing.,... he really turns me on as he is MY MASTER for real haha, seriously ! i only imagine him and relate to him, and the feelings i had with him.. i dont have any other references,,,, i can't wait to learn more from him,,, etc ,,, i am just scared of the first penetration XD ,,, he is also 5 years older than me,,, and the whole thing turns him on so much ha

    • Aww this is so sweet :) I wish you all the best for your relationship <3 Thanks for reading and sharing this!

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  • "We want blood during sex...
    Seriously, it's such a turn on and most likely, a 'once-in-a-lifetime' moment. We are not talking about 'menstrual blood' here obviously."

    __

    ^^ Ahhh... I see.

    Hey girls! This boy is smart. We could all learn a thing or two from him.

    Next time...
    • Get down on yr knees
    • Get that boy nice and hard
    • Smile!
    • Take him as far down yr throat as you possibly can
    • Clamp those gorgeous pearly white teeth down on the boy
    • Pull yr face back off him... nice, and slooowwww, and harddddd.

    I LOVE when a boy *screams* for me. :*

    "Yes, it might hurt a lot, but... It's totally normal and there's nothing to be freaked about."

    Agreed... *Completely*.

    What's wrong with a little blood all over the sheets?

    Come get it boy...

    ahahahhaha <3

    • Ahahahaha once I suggested to a guy that I should use my 'pearly whites' as you called them while giving him oral, his response was hilarious, I've never seen someone's attitude change so fast. He was just like, 'No way, if you try that, I'll slap you really fking hard.' ahahahaha. Makes me regret not trying it tbh.

    • @Luci92 ahha, in that situation I'd have put my hands behind my back right then and there (esp if I was already on my knees), looked up at him with that eyes-narrowing teeth-baring derisive sneer, and said "oh yeah? let's SEE really fucking hard. Go ahead boy." ... would've been incredibly hot no matter what. and even though there are lots of ways for the boy to pass that test (plenty of which involve denying you the slap), most would fail it miserably. after which point the dynamic would just be yours... if you enjoy rubbing that kind of thing in.

    • Ahaha I so should have, I reckon he would have chickened out too, then I could have held that over him for agesssss.

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  • So, in a nutshell, guys prefer virgins because that way you don't have to feel intimidated by her thinking another guy had better dick game than yourself?
    media.tenor.co/.../raw

    • Guys prefer virgins because they are are not sluts!!!

    • @kneehow You mean there's no middle ground? You can't acknowledge a woman having sexual needs of her own without equating her to filth? I'm sorry to hear that you place your self-value in what lies between your legs. Go to school and maybe there you'll learn that you're good for more than just sucking a guy's dick.

    • 👏👏👏👏👏👏 want to upvote you a 1000 times.

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  • I love how honest this is.

    • Thank you so much :)

  • Posting the remedial Laci Green video o n how the hymen actually works since some people somehow still don't get it.

    https://youtu.be/9qFojO8WkpA



    And just as a super fun reminder out friend the virgin hunter just loooooooved seeing The Blood after he raped a child. So much so that he still shares the pictures. *That's* the kind of person into seeing a girl bleed. An insane child rapist. Does that sound like a joke to you?

    • I know how hymen works ma'am That's psychopathic behaviour. Do you think I meant it that way? And this whole take was satire fyi

    • Ah ha Ha Ha ha Ha hA Soooo funny! Women in pain! Funniest joke EVER. Ooooo here's another one! Girls in pain and suffering from infections that they don't tell their parents about because they think it's supposed to hurt! Woo! That's a FUNNY one!

    • Glad you finally laughed. I think it's been a long time.

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  • You want blood during sex?

    www.quickmeme.com/.../...bf5087421d4906dc9d95f.jpg

    Seriously though, I totally get that some men might have preference for women who have had sex with very few people or no one but I wish guys who do have that preference would be a little more sensible about it. Not calling women who fit category hoes, suggesting taking someones virginity is some kind of trophy or bucket list item, that virgins are better girlfriends or even better people, that virgins are tight, that their first time should hurt...

    And for your we want blood headline, what if she doesn't bleed? Does that mean you don't get your trophy and are not satisfied with that experience?

    • That headline was literally a reply to the girl whose take I mentioned at the bottom. Guys like blood, but we don't want it. And this take wasn't about ME but about GUYS in general. It was overall a satirical take :)

    • I get it was kinda satirical but you do mention a lot of things that guys commonly bring up about this topic and mean it. And being a virgin that annoys me

    • Stereotypes are created for a reason. Honestly, my points are valid to a lot of guys. But even (being the writer of this) I don't strictly prefer these things. As long as the girl is nice, a lot of guys won't care at all. Not all men are same :)

  • "We want blood during sex"

    What The Fuck
    bye
    www.reactiongifs.com/.../nwld.gif

    • Well, you have to read the take mentioned below to fully understand this.

    • lmaooo

    • I think this take was satire 😛 Read the bottom.

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  • Unfortunately, majority of guys prefer virgins. No amount of takes can change men's minds because they value purity in women.
    That's not to say us "touched" women are bad, just that we lose "points". If everything else is the same, guys would prefer the Virgin.

    • Prefer? Well, yes. But it doesn't mean that most guys would ditch you for not being a virgin.

    • Read what I wrote

    • You will tell me what to do?

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  • This My Take seems to be only focusing on virgins or experienced women that had their share of partner?

    What about non-virgin women that only had 1-3 long-term relationships and still won't have sex outside a relationship. They can count as experienced too but not the way you described it. It's not always about quantity but quality.

    Lastly do you realize that if she happens to be a virgin for religious reasons, she's going to make you literally wait for marriage? Would you be ok with a sexless relationship?

    • Didn't you read my last line? "Virgin or not, guys love girls". Numbers don't matter unless you're religious or has some weird intentions :)

  • I stopped at the we want blood point.

    Normal? NORMAL?

    WHAT THE FUCK.

    NO, it is NOT normal to fuckign bleed or hurt you idiot.

    Just... fucking hell. No. Just no.

    • You stopped and that's how you completely missed the intention and the wordings behind the take. It is satirical take in response to another. And don't name call me. It is against the site rule. I'm not reporting this for now. Give respect and take respect.

    • Actually, it's perfectly normal for a virgin to bleed when having sex. Not all do some. You need chill ^ .-.

    • A hymen breaking often does bleed. I broke one today, in fact. See the post "how to break a hymen?" as I was looking for help from the guys here. They gave great advice. We popped it. It bled a bit. Its all good.

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  • Maybe I'll read this later, but I have to make tbis comment, because you left yourself wide open:

    You make a Mytake for why men want virgins...
    And your name is yourfutureex.
    That together screams to me "I want to come in, take what I want, claim the right to be the first, amd then leave."

    Maybe you should have thought of the connotations of your user name before writing a MyTake on why you prefer a woman to be a virgin.

  • In coming salty people. The amount salt below gives me high blood pressure.

    • Haha what can we do? We could use their salt to make lemonade 😂

    • Oh no ! Lmao

    • It's funny how all the guys aren't even triggered by this though.-.

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  • "We want blood" , domination, fear?

    Uh... yikes.

    • No, not really. Just a direct reply to that take I mentioned.

  • yeah, conservative turkish men prefers to marry with virgin girls😊they don't marry with women who have sex with any men like a bitch/slut. if a girl has any honor then she should have been protect herself from perverted men for her future husband.

  • Just engaged in 3-some today. He spent way more time with the experienced one, myself, than he did with her, the virgin.

    • You had experience, you knew that how to keep him going. How to take away all the attention.

  • My girlfriend was a virgin our first time and I pretty much agree with these - except the blood thing. I didn't want to bleed her I'm not a vampire

    • These are not mandatory :D

    • They aren't? Damn I better go back and do it over again then...

  • I think people should read that take you mentioned before attacking you. It's really entertaining though.

    • When I see comments like this, I see sunshine in this dark cave :D #Corny Thanks tho. I wish people had enough common sense. :/

    • That statement gave me a corngasm😍😍 LOL Funny how the people who have misunderstood it the most are the ones with the most likes. Huh, that's internet being internet i guess

  • Dude, I actually thought that you had some amount of sense until I read this.

    So much for bursting my bubble that Indian dudes on G@G are not all creeps.

  • None of these seem like legit reasons and the blood thing is gross. I would prefer my partner to not be in pain and to not be bleeding but maybe I'm just weird.

    Guys with a virgin fetish usually have issues lol. And before some dude says I'm a whore.. I'm a virgin. But that doesn't mean I like virgin hunters

    • The people I described in myTake are not the ones with virgin fetish. Yeah, blood part was too overboard 😅

    • Uh could be could not be.

    • Whatevs

  • lol. GAG people are so funny. Seriosuly, this viginity stuff is only ever openly talked about online. Generally irl virginity is shamed.
    Oh and to the women who say loosing it isn't supposed to hurt or your not supposed to bleed lol.
    You must have had something in their before hand and two fingers isn't a dick. smh

    • Nah you clearly don't know shit. You're 100% not supposed to bleed. A bleeding vagina or a vagina in pain is an unlubricated vagina = an unaroused vagina. Which means the guy is a piss poor lover. It's a myth it's supposed to hurt. It's not, plenty of foreplay means it won't hurt a bit. Most women don't have a hymen anymore by the time they lose their virginity. Stop perpetuating bullshit.

    • somebodysaycheese - People are triggered xD @Blonde401 first time IS supposed to be awkward. Even for guys, it is awkward and one cannot 100% guarantee that she'll be lubricated well enough. We are human beings, we often hesitate in doing new things and it's certainly no big deal. But yeah, you're not 100% supposed to bleed for various reasons.

    • 'Awkward' and bleeding are poles apart.

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  • Good points, also I might add to the enjoyment part, is that even if a virgin girl is not good at sex, she had the excuse of still being inexperienced, while if experienced girl is not good at sex, it's likely to be an lost case. Anyway guys go for virgin girls because of their purity and because they are much more special, and not because how good they are at sex, also with experienced girl their is always a risk that she had been with someone who had bigger then you, and/or that she had traumas from other guys.

    tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

    • Very good point :) Thanks a lot!

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