My take on (guy's propensity for) virginity and inspired by 5 Reasons Guys Prefer Experienced Women in Bed.
I hear it all the time: Guys love virgins! Guys wish every girl they sleep with could be a virgin!
Why should it not be? It is unsurprisingly obvious that guys like virgin girls. Biologically, we are made to prefer them so that, we could have better chances to spread 'our' genes to the offspring. We want to be sure that we are our children's father. But we don't live in caves anymore and there are a lot of things like implants, condoms, pills and girls who say things like:
Of course, most of us are not virginity hunters and we respect promiscuous women. So, why in the 21st century, guys still find it a turn-on if the girl is a virgin? Let me tell you why.
Less danger of a misunderstanding
These days, girls are very forward-looking. They know how to get their job done. Guys do sex only because they want children or pleasure (or revenge? that's too deep, let's not talk about this), but girls can do sex for a lot of luxuries. Guys may misunderstand the girls' intention and could end up being broke, blackmailed, suicidal, losing their youth hoping she's the one. Obviously, this requires a lot of skill and experience. Virgin girls are unlikely to abuse men by using sex compared to hoes as they are doing it only in love. Keep in mind that I used the word "hoes", not "promiscuous women", because they are not bad girls in any sense, at least I believe so.
There's no ambiguity or questioning when it comes to virgin women. If they don't want it, you'll know. If they do, you'll know then, too. No ifs, ands, or buts.
We want blood during sex
Seriously, it's such a turn on and most likely, a 'once-in-a-lifetime' moment. We are not talking about 'menstrual blood' here obviously. It gives us a feeling that we totally owned her. Yes, it might hurt a lot, but (boys, take a lesson) men know that it is completely normal and there is nothing to be freaked about. An astonishing achievement to add to your list (or bucket list?).
The guy will enjoy himself with a virgin
One of the reasons I don't get why people believe guys love experienced women is because it doesn't mean that you "learned" from your 'experiences'. I've been with several "experienced" women (so experienced that they already lost their count) who can't even ride properly or suck at sucking. They just lie on bed and do nothing. Even the most experienced girls had to learn how to do the things properly at some point. I hate to break to you, but being experienced doesn't guarantee that she is a crackerjack!
And who says virgins can't be fun? It is such a turn on to see their expressions when someone is not just seeing them naked but doing a lot to their body they only fantasized in their life, making them comfortable, turning them on, hearing their loudest moan ever, being helpless and begging for it to end but wanting their guy's pleasure at the same time. What can a guy expect more than that?
Experimentation is a GO
She will be doing the biggest experiment of her life. The experiment she can do only once. It would mean a lot to her. We all are nervous before performing on stage, but we know that we have to do it and the outcome will be prolific. Now, think about how would it feel to have a person like that in front of you, want to make you happy, all nervous because of you? She spent all those years, repressing her wild side and now, she chose YOU to unleash that. You will be craving for that moment. You will really want to try it out.
Experienced women already enjoyed a lot. They must have done a lot of things. What is experimental to you, could be monotonous for her. But for a virgin, you will teach her what sex really is. You are her master. She is ready to do that all. There is a long way to go. She's ready to fulfill her fantasies on you and guys don't lose out easily.
Guys go in knowing they have to step up their game
Okay, a little pun in that subtitle there but you know what I mean. With virgins, guys know how big deal it is. This is not your typical hook-up with a random nympho. She trusts you, loves you and this is going to hurt her really bad. She might get freaked out. There is a lot of responsibility. It requires real guts to get the consent of a virgin, take her to your bed, turn her on, take her clothes off and finally do it WITHOUT making her completely apathetic about the whole idea of sex.
Anybody can ram it in, but with virgins, it is very perplexing task and guys really love that thrill. When it ends, it makes them feel like winners, a great ego boost. I guess a good analogy would be this: If you're playing in the majors, it wouldn't be much fun to play with some random dude from A ball, right? You want some competition; you want to play with someone who can bring out the best in you. Give your best thrust guys ;)
[Bonus]
Religion, Marriage values, No comparison, Purity, Virgins can get 'experience' but experienced ones can't become virgins unless we really trust them lol and last but not least, this take applies on long term relationships.
Suggested reading: Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Experienced Girls in Bed
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Thanks for reading. Virgin or not, guys love girls. Don't hate, checkmate.
Game on folks, believe!
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