Ladies, Men Really Want You to Be a Freak in the Sack

1. No one likes a person to just lay there

Let's face it, one of the biggest turn-offs is when your partner just lays there and acts like you're about to have sex with a corpse. Don't act like you're doing your partner a favor by "allowing" them to have sex with a body...that can't possibly be attractive (unless maybe its role-play?).

Ladies, Men Really Want You to Be a Freak in the Sack

2. It's hot when a woman takes charge sometimes

Men usually want to be the one to plow and dominate, but sometimes its nice for a woman to be sexy and take control. It is hot to be wanted, and even hotter to be dominated during sex.

Ladies, Men Really Want You to Be a Freak in the Sack

3. Be open to trying new things

No one says you need to go crazy! After all, everyone has their own comfort zones and boundaries. However, it is always refreshing to be open to try new positions, new role plays, and adding some spice to your sex life. A bad attitude=bad sex. Laughter is key in sex sometimes, but so is passion.

Ladies, Men Really Want You to Be a Freak in the Sack
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh believe me, WE want this, too -- probably even more than YOU want it from US.

    ... but first, you boys need to stop giving the slightest fuck about the fact that, yes, we've probably been "freaks" with our PREVIOUS lovers, too.

    Got a problem with that?
    ... Fuck us sooooo damn good that we forget all about everyone else.
    <3 <3

    As long as our "past" is something that still bothers you... You boys bring this shit on YOURSELVES.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Amen and thank you. I want her nails in my back, telling me in detail about her getting turned on and screaming obscenties to me when she comes. I want the neighbors to hear.

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  • Good sex is compromising and good communication.. if male and female do both then they'll find their sex lives be better and surprise each other..

    Most people have kinks but to afraid to act out on them as society deems vanilla sex as normal... I press men before I have sex with them what they'd love to try out and they say things they've never tried, id say well let's try it and if don't like it then least we have done it..

    Good communication and the willing to try new things with each other makes good sex..

    Guys should do it to with their girlfriends as well.. have a conversation about sex and what kinky stuff their girls would like to try out..

    I'm not a vanilla sex person... I'm not into 3. Positions and that's it.. I like to try all things out and aupirse myself and person I'd be with.. I've been with men who have never tried anything remotely kinky and just altered their sex life forever lol Becos opened their eyes up to a whole new level of sex.. that's because I communicated with them.. n the sex was good..

  • I have said this for 20 years. To be open, sharing and willing to try things keeps your relationship healthy, and keeps lack of interest from setting in.

  • Umm, yes.

    I am aware. Who wasn't?

  • That makes sense I literally told him to stop cus I wanted to try something. But then again that didn't last that long since I was, well am a tease.

  • If I am on top, I prefer she just stay still. When the woman moves it just throws everything off. I do like when she is aggressive though.

  • Well actually many men are willing to take 'dead fish' over no sex at all, but is an woman showing enjoyments and being at least little active it's usually much better.

  • I feel like it depends on how you react. Like if you were totally quiet, but writhing and it was obvious you couldn't control yourself... that's really hot for an example.

  • "A bad attitude=bad sex."
    This is SO true! Having a great, adventurous attitude in bed makes all the difference. Really good myTake.

  • interesting take

  • Too short to be a take

  • None of this adds up to "freak in the sack".

    • Trueeeee

  • yes please.

  • Great take - I agree with what you say but would expand it to say full and honest communication about how you physically interact - Talk about what would make your sex life better.

  • Amen. That dude just laid there. It was sucha turn off. And I like taking charge some times

    • Your a dirty girl, eh?

    • @Ted3025 you'll never find out peace✌

    • lol xper1's ---.--

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  • Agree, I guess a good saying that would some up your take is be a lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.

  • Men don't necessarily want a freak. Men want a passionate girl who is as into him as he is into her. There is a clear difference between the two.

  • Agreed with number 1. I love when some women just lay there and expect a man to do all the work and then they say oh that guy was terrible in bed. It's like uh, you just layed there. How am I supposed to know what you like if you just lay there and dont say anything?

  • Great take!

  • Good take. Short and simple but to the point.

  • Sexually repressive social conditioning is probably the main cause of the " cold fish " woman , the more sexual minority of women have been bashed for eternity for the heinous " crime " of enjoying & being open about sex , but certainly in the last 20 or so years , more vitriol has been aimed at men , male sexuality is viewed as " disgusting , rapey , perverted , predatory " etc... utter crap for everyone !! A great take , as a single dad , this is something I won't be experiencing again.

    • I think you mean to say women act inactive during sex because they fear they'd otherwise be labelled sluts? I think that's partially true, and partially it's just laziness.

    • @Felinegirl Yes , that too , plus all this " Good girls NEVER like sex !! " type BS , which is a Puritan / Victorian throwback. Yes laziness is a factor , depending on the woman in question. Women do expect a man to lead & are more submissive , in general , there are always exceptions however , 2 very highly sexed exes of mine turned out to be nutcases , violent & explosive in one case !!

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