What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

There are many things that I've noticed about physical attraction but it seems that many people don't know what physical attraction is. People still believe so many stereotypes that have already been disproven. I know that us guys are capable of being physically attracted to women but I'm still not sure if women are capable of being physically attracted to men. I thought that women are capable being attracted to men but contradictions that I've found say otherwise.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

In one of my previous takes, I talked to a female that shared an opinion. Everything she claimed, contradicted women being visual. I assumed she was a troll at first but she sounds so serious. The way I interpret her claims is that women don't really feel physical attraction for men. She even said that she finds women more aesthetically appealing than men, even though she is straight. I'm not sure if she's a troll or not. I'm not going to mention her but feel free to read everything she says on this Take that I wrote.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

So physical attraction is the feeling us males get when we see a Splendid looking person. Us straight men get this feeling when we see a beautiful woman, while gay men get this feeling when they see a handsome man. The feeling men get is"wow, she is so beautiful. I wish she were my girlfriend." "Any guy that becomes her boyfriend, is so blessed/lucky". I tried "dumbing it down" for people on this question.


https://www.girlsaskguys.com/guys-behavior/q2167911-what-s-the-name-of-that-feeling-you-get-when-you-feel-attraction-to

People still didn't understand the question. People said that it's "lust", "aesthetic attraction" but none of them mentioned physical attraction. Only one guy understood the question.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

It's weird how a lot women still think that men instantly get a erection from looking at a hot girl. Just cause we find women physically attractive doesn't mean we want to have sex with them! Most men don't get erections just by looking at a random hot woman, I don't know why so many people still believe this.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

Guys, I'm sure you know what physical attraction is, we all felt it at the beginning of puberty. I remember when I was 11 years old, I liked a girl in my school, it was not sexual, it was simply physical attraction. I'm sure that if you are a guy reading this, you also liked a girl. Those feelings you felt for her were physical attraction. I don't know if females are capable of being physically attracted to males.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

There is a reason why most movies, T.V. shows and books focus on the male point of view when it comes to physical attraction. They always depict a male looking at female with him going "ahhhh, she's so pretty", we rarely get movies were it's the woman looking at a male and saying "ahhhh, he's so handsome." If you know any movies that focuses on the female point of view, let me know so I can watch them. I think movies that do depict female "attraction" towards males shows her non visual "attraction" towards men. They like his smile or his personality that's all. To me that's not attraction.

I find it very hard to believe that straight women don't check out guys, it wouldn't make sense. Some women say that women are visual, other women say that they aren't visual. I'm kind of skeptical that there are women that aren't visual. It's confusing. I think that if you aren't visual when it comes to physical attraction, you're incapable of being physically attracted to people.

Aesthetic appeal is not physical attraction, although it may play role in it. Some other "straight" women incorrectly say that they can find both men and women "physically attractive". That doesn't make sense at all. How can you find both sexes physically attractive if you are straight? What you mean is aesthetic appeal, not physical attraction. It's true that you need to like how someone looks to be physically attracted to them. You can still be physically attracted to them based on their looks even if they don't have aesthetics.

Aesthetic appeal is what people feel when they don't feel physical attraction for someone but can still admit that they look good. When a straight man admires another man's physique, that's aesthetic appeal but due to taboo, most straight men won't admit that another man looks good because all the SJWs will call him "gay". When us straight guys find a woman beautiful, it's because we feel physical attraction and aesthetic appeal for the woman. Guys can still feel physical attraction for a woman based on her looks, even if she doesn't have aesthetics. Physical attraction has to do with how a person's body and face looks.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

I don't know how women look at men because I am a straight man. I was almost convinced that women do find men both physically and aesthetically appealing until some girl implied that women don't feel physically attracted to men. She implied that she only cares about a man's personality. She also says that women are more aesthetically appealing than men which makes no sense at all because she claims that she is straight.

If women do find women more aesthetically appealing than men then why do the poll results say otherwise?

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/fashion-style/q2167928-do-you-think-male-modeling-will-fail-like-playgirl

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q2105297-which-gender-has-better-looking-bodies-faces


If women look better than men then why is male modeling still thriving?!


I just don't understand why women claim that men don't look aesthetically appealing as women yet these poll results contradict what they say. Look, us straight men can admit that women look more aesthetically appealing than men because we are straight but it makes no sense for "straight" women to claim that women are more aesthetically appealing than men. It would make more sense if straight women would think that men are more aesthetically appealing than women. I wish women would find men more aesthetically appealing than women.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

Sexual attraction is a different thing, I think only us guys can feel sexually attracted to a woman based on her looks. That's only if we truly want to have Sex with her. Sadly women are biologically unable to be sexually attracted to a man's looks. Remember, a guy doesn't instantly get a erection by looking at a random hot girl. It's not too hard to understand.


https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q2166617-do-girls-get-wet-when-they-see-a-shirtless-handsome-guy

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

Sadly, women prefer feminine looking men over masculine looking men:

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/fashion-style/q2165103-do-women-like-rugged-or-smooth-skin-on-men

Unfortunately the feminine looking guy got the most votes on this poll. It just comes to show that femininity is considered better looking unfortunately. I wish masculinity were considered better looking.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

Women are only visual when they check out other women. It makes no sense, I always hear women saying "wow she has a nice butt" "wow she's so beautiful" "she has a nice tummy" "ooooh she's so sexy" yet they claim to be straight.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

What does it mean to be visual? Well, it means everything that I just explained about men. You don't need to be sexually aroused to be considered a visual person when it comes to physical attraction. If you don't feel physical attraction for random people, then something might be wrong with you, no offense.

What I've Noticed About Physical, Aesthetic, and Sexual Attraction

The purpose of this Take is to remind people of what physical, sexual and aesthetic attraction are.

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  • Dude, I've had plenty of women being sexually/physically attracted to me because of my looks and it sucks because I'm an asexual man.

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  • good topic

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  • I think women can be physically attracted to a man. Some women are attracted to muscle, so they look at men's arms and chests and abs and legs and calves even and say, "that looks hot". So I don't think you're completely correct. Some do prefer the not so chiseled look, but I think it's so subjective that it's impossible to group it down to all women.

  • I think physical and sexual attraction are basically the same thing. It's not only men that feel sexual attraction because I know many women would disagree with you. Aesthetic attraction is appreciation of beauty.

  • I don't know how you made your research but I have to disagree with it. Women can be as physically attracted to the guy as any guy can be to a woman and that's a fact from my experience. Women also enjoy just sex with no attachment, just like guys. The only difference in regards to attraction is that women tend to put the less importance on the visual attraction in general while guy put way more importance to it. But both genders feel the same way and experience similar things, it's just that the priorities are a bit different, but not so much.

  • lol wat?

    • Even though I explained it as carefully as I can, you still don't understand? What I'm saying is that while us men are capable of being physically attracted to random women, women are probably not able to be physically attracted to random men. If us men see a beautiful woman in a mall we will say"wow she is so beautiful, any guy that dates her is so lucky." We say that because we are physically attracted to the woman. We (men) check out random women because we are capable of being physically attracted to random women. Physical attraction has to do with how a person looks.

    • I understood you. It's dumb. Not our fault if you are an ugly mofo and never had a girl checking u out.

    • I'm not ugly, no need to be so immature.

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  • yeah op women don't like masculine men

  • It seems like you contradicted yourself... first you said:
    "Aesthetic appeal is what people feel when they don't feel physical attraction for someone but can still admit that they look good. When a straight man admires another man's physique, that's aesthetic appeal "

    Then you said:
    "She also says that women are more aesthetically appealing than men which makes no sense at all because she claims that she is straight."

    How does that not make sense? You said it yourself that you can find people aesthetically appealing but not be sexually attracted to them. So that particular girl was saying she finds women more aesthetically appealing... but not sexually appealing, and you said yourself that those are not the same things.

    What it seems like to me is... women, on average, are more aesthetically appealing and everyone knows that. But women are still more sexually attracted to men, even though they don't have a lot of aesthetic appeal. Someone can be sexually and physically attractive without necessarily being aesthetically appealing and vice versa.

    So what are you trying to say?

    • Also, yes I realize "physical attraction" as you describe it is different than sexual attraction, and I think the former is closer to aesthetic appreciation but not perfectly aligned with it. But what I said still applies..

    • by the way you seem really confused haha, it's not that hard to understand... but everyone also has different tastes and works differently so not everyone will have the same associations with sexual/physical/aesthetic attraction...

  • What the fuck is your obsession with this? For one you're just plain wrong, second, as long as women are into men, what dos it matter?
    Move on already.

    • Good meme but irrelevant. I just don't get your obsession with this delusion of yours

    • You got one thing right, it is a obsession, I'll try to explain it to you. I worry that women don't actually like how guys look. To me if a woman can't feel attracted to a man's looks, then I don't think she actually likes men.

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  • Its nowt to do with women not finding men attractive on a physical level. The main issue is feminism has caused women to be self entitled, have over inflated egos, have ridiculous standards and has increased female hypergamy no matter how attractive she looks or what she has to offer. This is to the point that its ruining relationships and creating groups like mgtow.

    80% of women are chasing/sleeping with the 20% of men. Whereas 80% of men are fighting for the scraps (lower 20%). Feminism is a sexual strategy in order to get access to high ranking alpha males.

  • Some of your statements are misconceptions... both men and women can are just attracted to someone based on looks/appearances... that's the definition of physical attraction. Women can be physically attracted to both men and women and be "straight"(in quotes because what you're really saying is heterosexual, and not bi-sexual, homosexual or asexual). Aesthetic attraction is just something you made up on your own or maybe not, since i got tired of reading between all the damned photos. Sexual attraction, which a lot of people equate to physical attraction is slightly different in that the only purpose in being attracted to that person is for the desire to have sex with that person, nothing more.

  • Thank you for writing this. Looks like I'm not the only one that goes nuts over definitions... LOL

    • You're welcome

  • Believe me. Women are very visual. I been single for a long time cause of it.

  • I'm a little confused... I kept reading trying to figure out what you mean by physical attraction. You said it's not sexual attraction nor aesthetic appreciation so what is left? That is all I can do when I look at a hot person, either admire them as a beautiful piece of art or imagine what I'd like them to do to me.

    • They can all go together but physical attraction is how much of a impact a person's looks has on your romantic feelings.

    • So are you describing "love at first sight" basing the way you feel about someone purely on how you precieve them from afar? I really want to understand your point of view lol.

    • If I find a woman beautiful "I wish she were my girlfriend" then that's physical attraction. I'm assuming that when women call each other "beautiful" it's only based on aesthetics. Unless they are into women. Your sexual orientation determines who you find physically attractive. That's how it works for men, I don't know how it works for women.

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  • good

  • What is up with all of these Moral? es about physical attrac5ion

  • When I see a man who is very good looking and my type, yes I'm physically attracted to him and I think wow he is so beautiful. I don't think sexually of him until he is flirting with me, being cheeky etc. I can admit some men are good looking even if they are not my type which to me is aesthetical attraction, no amount of flirting is going to make me want to have sex with him or admire his looks any further than initial thought of he's good looking guy. That's it simple.

    • How can you not think sexually of a guy even though you like how he looks? By saying a guy looks "beautiful" isn't that implying that he is feminine looking?

    • I just can. Beautiful, doesn't mean feminine at all. I actually prefer manly, rough looking guys and what I consider beautiful is the features which I prefer. And when I see them I can admire the art of it without thinking sexually. Unless he gives out signs he thinks of me sexually.

    • Why do women say that women are more aesthetically appealing than men?

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  • Reality:

    Women are attracted to men but a very small % of male populace. I'm going to guess around 20%. These men are born with physical features women find attractive that other men cannot change. E. g. Nice face with square jaw line, and being taller than the average male (6'0"). For these men love is on par with the love your average girl receives. Many people offering you sex, girls wanting to get into relationship with you and basically being treated like a king without you having to take her on dates, put in work romancing her or playing an inflated price for pussy that other men will have to do.

    fatburnerdepot.com/.../Jeff-Seid-6-300x281.jpg

    The other group of men women will only go for if they believe that the hot guy is out of their reach, find themselves too old to be considered a serious contender for relationship with them (late 20's) or who have been pump and dumped by Chad so much she now wants to date someone she percieves as safe and easy to control (average/ugly guy).

    For these men women aren't just going to date a guy like that just cuz. They are going to do it and make damn sure they get a good deal out of it in form of money and/or social status. Therefore, these men often having to work hard to get the girl, take he on dates, tingle her emotionally, romance her, spend money on her and wait until she thinks you've invested enough cash in her for her to give up the pussy (which she most likely gave up to Chad Thundercock night one).

    The reality is we have 2 types of men:
    1. Guy who has dating life on par with your average girl and who can get many girls to want him.

    2. Guy who women place in the provider category and has to pay full price for the pussy.

    So in conclusion women are attracted to men. Small % of men. The rest of men however, they are not that attracted towards and if they are going to be with you then you have to work hard to get her.

    • I agree. Don't listen to what they say. Watch what they do. But since when was 6'0 the average height? At least in the US.

  • "Sadly, women prefer feminine looking men over masculine looking men" – well yay for me! XD