Why I Love the Concept of Prostitution and Sex Work

Before I go anywhere with this, please note I will not entertain the notion that sex work and human trafficking go hand in hand. Human trafficking exists, it’s a terrible crime (actually it’s an umbrella crime for many crimes) but is a minority. Like EVERYTHING in life you get the good majority that is tainted by the bad minority. For example, ISIS is not reflective of all Islam, the legal pet trade is not reflective of the dog fighting trade etc. Most good humans that would use escorts would keep this in mind and they do. Some sex workers I know have youtube channels, are ex- porn stars etc.

That aside, when sex work is consensual, the following awesome benefits come:

Why I Love the Concept of Prostitution and Sex Work

1) Casual sex is awesome

If you don’t like casual sex, this entire take will not apply to you. But if baffles me how humans have this almost obsessive urge to experience different countries food and cultures, yet cry when this is applied to exploring other people sexually. Seriously? Two consenting adults who want sex? What’s the problem?


2) It gives men the same casual sex power as women

We all know women can get sex at the speed of 1 x tinder profile. In fact, prostitution is the evidence that women get paid for 1 x internet advertisement. In abundance too. Men don't have to chase women for pussy. Women don't have to have that power over you. This has some really fun and controversial implications which lead to the other awesome benefits for men:

Why I Love the Concept of Prostitution and Sex Work


3) It’s the biggest “fuck you” evidence against all the delusional love advice thrown out there

I love anything that proves something wrong and this is a BIG ONE. Why do people use sex workers? Lol…like just wait and love will find you? Nope. Eye is in the beauty of the beholder? Nope. Just be yourself? Nope. Bottom line, many men are unattractive and don’t get ANYTHING. If women loved introverts, comic nerds, men who may be boring (without getting a chance to prove otherwise) or any of these type of things, then it would be a lot better. But alas, it’s not.


4) It gives men a lot more options

You have no right to call yourself an INCEL or any of those things because of sex work. That babe you could never get? well you can have a piece of that for a price (and it will be cheaper than going after a super-hot babe the normal way). Threesome on your bucket list? Many sex workers offer this. Wife refusing you anal? There is an offering out there to get this without divorcing and missing out. Speaking of missing out. You are 30, virgin light because of who you are, and you want to experience certain sexual things, but haven’t done much, like having sex with a younger woman (20-25 for example). Well you can, no excuses. Even porn is built on this. A guy has to PAY women to do all that freaky shit. They wouldn’t do it for free. With sex work you can have this..

Why I Love the Concept of Prostitution and Sex Work


5) It helps you grow into the unicorn women want

A common reply back to the sex worker thing is “work on yourself and get women”. So you 40, you missed out, you have responsibilities and getting women is pretty tough. I have no doubt you can get a girl. But getting a rock n roll sex life? You have to work to be a certain type of man with money and a lifestyle that attracts. This is hard for many men, most men. Sex workers can help with this. You can still try get your perfect girl, and grow as a human while getting your casual sex.


6) A note on money, another thing to consider

They say that the average Joe gets 10-12 partner’s in his life. So let’s assume you are average joe and have a 50 yr sexual lifespan (being very generous here), that works out to be one partner every 5 years. The one escort I know charges $400 for 15min. It’s a lot and her prices increases with what you want. So lets bump this to $800 half hour with added stuff. 5yrs x 52 weeks x 7 days = about $1820. If you save just $1 a day you could get two high class escorts for your average joe one. So you die with double the experience, triple if you add the women you see to this.


7) It addresses other curve balls thrown at men

Time is the biggest the one. I think this is why professional athletes, actors, business and any man with a hint of logic uses this wonderful service. Business meeting tomorrow and want sex? I would have to dress up, go out, spend my night chasing women with a 50/50 return on investment. Sex worker solves this problem. There other things I have mentioned already, it saves time, money (in context), helps men with sexual solutions and gives men a taste of something they cannot get without money.


8) You can still be an awesome dude and use sex workers

You are not hurting anyone, you are not doing anything bad, you are not desperate (just horny like the rest of us). You are not raping, you are not playing women, you are not creeping on websites etc, you are just getting sex in a direct way. Those successful guys who do fuck a lot? Lawyers (destroy people), Bankers (destroy people), Politicians (destroy people) …etc. Not you.


So that’s why I love sex work. It’s a multibillion dollar industry for a reason and it really helps men get their sexual desires that is often denied to them for who they are.

Why I Love the Concept of Prostitution and Sex Work
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Basically all this is doing is making themselves feel better for not finding a girl. And yes it may 'get them a better looking one' or 'it let's them experiment' but why doesn't it even consider how the woman feels in all this. Yes they know what they signed up for. But don't you think just as 'their wife won't do it' they should have to. It's disgusting eit her parties degrades themselves to that level.
    On top of ever occurred a lot of the women do it as they can't find other work or feel low enough they have to? Yet then have men encouraging using them which leafs to a cycle

    • lol obviously they gonna feel better if they can't find a girl. Not find a girl and not have sex vs not find a girl and get sex? Very easy choice. Consider the girl? Let's reverse this and say "consider the boy". Will any girls feel sorry for them and give them pity sex or something like that? NO. People do what they have to do to survive. If she is offering it and there is a demand, we will take it. And the problem is, it's not degrading. It's sex. You... I repeat YOU and people like you tag the label of "degrading" onto something like sex. And did you ever consider that 80% of ALL people don't like their job? The majority of people are there to make money. So why don't you just stop supporting shops, banks, clubs etc. doesn't work like that does it? Many escorts I know love their job.

    • If women weren't shallow whores then prostitution wouldn't exist.

    • This list doesn't even sound like he's trying for a start. It's just jumping to 'let's get prostitutes' there's a difference between being forced to consider a job and not liking it then 'poor me I can't have sex' the fact they have to use sex to pay for stuff isn't degrading? Don't get what world you live in. Sex is fine. The fact they have to pay to get it isn't. Like I said it's a lot different 'not liking their job'to being forced into it. He'll he's bragging about these prostitutes. Near where I live there as young as 14. Selling themselves for £2. So please tell me how it's a good thing? Or its just a case of 'they don't like their job'. As no they do it because they have to. And women are shallow whores? Someone's bitter for a start. Sex isn't a necessity in life.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yeah, I view prostitution just like any other services. I can pay a psychologist a couple hundred bucks a month to talk about my stress. I can also spend a couple hours in a massage or sauna. I can also do sky diving if I want some thrills. Of course, I can also pay an escort to do wild sex in an elevator, listen to my troubles and give me a fabulous massage for similar price.

    Sometimes a guy just want to have NSA sex and fun after work. He can waste time in a bar somewhere trying to hook up or just go straight for a super model escort if he has the cash.

    • Nicely said. As simple as that.

    • Times more valuable than money and women are a big waste of time lol I'd rather fuck escorts than waste time stressing bars that might not be guaranteed. Bars and clubs are always expensive with drinks, travel and entrance fees (if you decide to move around to other bars or clubs)

    • @oddwaffle Assuming you've been with women who are actually *into* you -- like, women with whom you actually have a sexual *connection* -- how could you stomach getting with a woman (escort) who obviously doesn't give shit no. 1, and if anything is just rolling through mental playlists until yr paid time is up? I mean... I refuse to believe these women are such good actresses that they could stop themselves from showing all the outward signs of "::yawn:: Are you done yet?" (even if they're business savvy enough to stfu about it). Any woman who could fake it half that well -- and who wanted money from a man -- could just lay it on thick with ONE guy, and become a spoiled trophy wife. Rather than faking it with a constant procession of johns. Like yeah, how could you go back to that?

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  • As someone who's been in the life 50 years now and has no intention of ever leaving it this is a very well written piece

    • So what made you want to become a sex worker? Or was it just money...

    • @Mrwoo99 I'm perpetually horny, I need a lot of sex daily. I need sex at least 12 times a day and more if I can get it just to maintain an even keel. I get really mean if I don't get enough sex. I've been to doctors, tried medication that was supposed to decrease my sex drive which only made things worse. Being a Whore is an easy way to get the sex I need not to mention the guys benefit from it too.

    • Jesus I wish they were women like you. I can't even talk to women about sex or even mention it without been looked at like a creep, sex predator or weirdo. It's like they see sex as something bad or shameful when it's the main part of our human species.

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  • So you are saying that whores are a good substitute for the desperate losers of the world?

    • Why am I a loser for paying for escort? Who the fuck are YOU to decide who's a loser... lol

    • @olderandwiser Wait for the punch line, I just have to say this first: You didn't take in what I said. There are so many other variables involved. powerful men use sex workers, porn is about sex work (those guys couldn't get that shit without paying for it) hell, half the rappers in America rap about their time with strippers and prozzies. This is what I'm getting at. It's just a service to help ALL men out. But the punch line? You are right too. It does help desperate losers. They are desperate because clearly they are unnatractive and by societal standards, losers. But the crazy thing is, what is loser and unnatractive to a woman is nothing more than loving Star Wars (nerd), being soft and not outspoken (shy), not being a party animal (introverted) etc. So what do these guys do if they want to explore sex? Introvert has to party, Star Wars nerd has to play a sport for example. At least with sex work, a guy can be himself and still get laid.

    • I understand the point, but. . . not all powerful men use whores. Rappers laying down some shit about their whores is not exactly like an A+ rating from the Better Business Bureau. ALL men don't use whores. When you overgeneralize like that, you can reach some bad conclusions. @Mrwoo99 Most guys would say that if you must pay to get sex, you are a loser. It's not an opinion that I developed and promoted. But, if I have an opinion that doing that makes a person a loser, then - IN MY BOOK - they are a loser. I get to decide who's a winner and who's a loser in my book. I don't pretend that anyone else must care about my opinions, but I'm not going to be silenced by someone who laughs at his own jokes.

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  • "Using" sex workers. That shows how you view them.

    Rather than, saying, "buying services from" sex workers.

    • It's just the word of the day. Doesn't mean anything. I have a high respect for them as human beings like I respect all my fellow brothers and sisters. It's this unfortunate personality floor (kindness and empathy) that makes me repulsive to women. Hence I get escorts now and then.

    • Exactly being a good caring loyal nice guy makes men repulsive to women lol

    • @Mrwoo99 studies show otherwise www.reddit.com/.../?ref=search_posts

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  • Yup, yup! No BS. It works as the best and ceapest way to get what we men are DEPRIVED of...

    • That's what am saying, all these women making out that it's sinful when really its just simply money exchanged for sex... that's it.

  • I've tried prostitution once when I was in Germany. So the price was 50 Euro for 30 minutes (about 60 U. S dollars). You go in, and you stand over a sink first and the girl washes your penis. Then you go to the bedroom and get to it. She slips a condom on you using her mouth, a trick of the trade these girls have mastered. They use their mouth to pinch the air bubbles out of the tip of the condom, and then she slides it onto your dick while simultaneously arousing you and getting you hard. Then you get to it for your allotted time limit, and if you finish great, if not then you have to either pay for more time, or leave. It's not bad at all, I ended up choosing a beautiful dark haired woman who I thought was Greek (she was Iranian). She was very sweet, humble, there wasn't any faking or over the top bullshit. It was a good time. I think when people picture prostitutes, they picture dirty std infested drug addicts, having unprotected sex with an active herpes outbreak on their face. These girls are tested every 6 months or so. That being said, I've never hired an escort or anything in the U. S, as I don't trust an unregulated industry. I prioritize my health above everything else, and you can have both practicing casual sex. It's not that difficult to accomplish in the 21st century. Legalize prostitution, Europe is right on this issue. It's a better policy for public health, it protects the women and clients alike, and it generates tax revenue. It also takes an industry away from organized crime.

    • She looked something like this:

      dating.co/.../Iranian-Actress.png

    • Good story man.

    • every 6 months is scary for a prostitute if you ask me.. Should be every week or at least month.. Who knows how many people she's been with

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  • You, and all those women are abominations.
    Goodbye.

    • I know but that blonde one though... daaaammm! I bet she's quite the naughty type, demon in the sack sort of speak. I would mate with her for life. Do you reckon she'd be up for sale in long term? It be so awesome if you could buy a wife like that with money.

    • I'm just probing and prodding and pushing people out their comfort zone of ignorance😇

  • I'd love to bang that blonde one ;-). You reckon she'd be around 200 bucks?

    • Probably more lol

  • because its the only way a person like you can get laid

    • No man can match a woman's sexual power without his wallet. And you clearly didn't read the assertions either. I will give you the benefit of the doubt. Pick one number and correct me if I'm wrong?

    • Unless a woman approaches you and offers it then all men pay for sex. The only difference is that women use another currency or exchange rather than hard cash

  • To be honest the ones who you use to picture this or better said: All the persons in the pictures you're using aren't sexworkers. So you also don't know that most are ugly.

    I've read your take and some things are true.
    - 1 tinder profile gets a women/girl at least 10 men to choose
    - many women/girls are chasing that one to-them-perfect-guy
    - to get sex you have to had sex
    - all you want prostitutes do it
    - it's a 50/50 you might get it

    But my biggest nono here is:
    - Do you know if they chose to do this job
    - You really want to pay for sex. Sex is a beautiful thing (men and women fucked up both but...) and to pay for it is not... it doesn't feel right.

    Most of those "pro-prostitute" Takes are written like women-aint-shit-style but you have done it good. You have a certain view on women but know how to sell it. You have a special talent. Use this in the good way.

  • Beautiful take! You are 100% right

    • Thanks brother. I know I'm right:) you will only see "you are disgusting" remarks but no replies to the actual reasons. It's because it's logical. You can't argue against it.

  • Any man or woman that hires a prostitute is pathetic and disgusting.

    • Why though? Is there anything wrong with an average guy getting his rocks off to a fine piece of ass?

    • @Mrwoo99 Even if there a 21 year old war vet who became disabled and terminally ill in the process of stopping a nuclear sub from going critical and blowing up New York who just wants to get through there bucket list before they die.

    • Replied to the wrong person sorry.

  • is this what trump means by making america great again?

    • No the world again!

  • You're probably going to get a lot of people saying prostitution is immoral, and you're going to get STDs (you won't, because you'll be wearing a condom}. That's because they've bought into the Puritan idea that sex is too good for normal folk.
    Sex work is like any other business. If you go into MacDonalds (say) for a burger, do you worry that you're exploiting the staff? Of course not, because you're just paying for a service. It's the exact same thing.

    • If its just a service why don't they promote it like McDonald's instead of shaming it, making illegal and treating it like a crime or being secretive? Do you reckon it has anything to do with feminists trying to control mens sexuality?

    • @Mrwoo99 No, because feminists have no real influence. If anyone is trying to control men's sexuality it is the church and state.

  • there is nothing wrong in it.

  • A "sex life" with a woman who'd really rather be doing anything else but having your dick in her. That's not really sex, it's jacking off.

    • And look at you buying your own little delusion that "maybe" these women really dig your awesome dick. More masturbation. All you do is jack yourself off to feel like a cool dude. Pay to feel like a sure fire winner every time. Entitled dicks.

    • Firstly it is sex, not jacking off. I know people say it's glorified masturbation, but then that's what casual sex is anyway. Nowhere did I say they maybe "dig" me or nowhere did I say I was entitled. You are guilty of labelling it as such. Not me. Nowhere did I say I feel like a winner either. You are again making your own shit up to justify your position on it. Bottom line, casual sex is awesome. Some men are unattractive and cannot get sex. There is a solution to this with sex work. The choice is easy as fuck: die without having sex or die with having sex? Every bloody man will reach a point where he has either got it or paid for it. Or both🤔 Or choose celibacy and go crazy.

    • Look at these women trying to talk us out of paying for sex lmao. They really are losing the power dynamic in dating when men wake up to realise that escorts are cheaper than having a girlfriend lol

  • the hell with taking woman on a date
    pay a hooker and have sex on first night
    the best

    • At least with a call girl it's guranteed lol chasing women these days even wastes time.

  • I, personally, am all for prostitution. Lost my virginity to one.

    • Cool man. There will be adult virgins who will argue with you that what you have done is wrong 😂

    • Of course, but, I've given up the whole idea of caring about what other people think a long time ago. I don't even bother to be politically correct anymore. If they want to be offended, so be it.

  • thanks for sharing

  • You know who would make an awesome sex worker? Stephen Daughtery or Obama.

  • It's cheaper to hire a pro once a week, than it is to have a girlfriend or get married by a long shot.

    • Damn man, the price of weddings these days, you may as well do a long term contract with a pro for life and still come out better financially.

    • So you're saying a guy should seek an arrangement? I think there's a site for that.

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