There are a number of reasons why having a baby is a BAD idea.
1. Conception
Conception is only limited to heterosexual, fertile adults of reproductive age (mostly the 20s and 30s). The likelihood of conceiving a child decreases as you age, so if you think that you can waste away your 20s/30s and then have a child in your 40s, then, well, you've just passed your reproductive prime. If you are desperate for a child at this point in your life, then you should definitely adopt, use reproductive assisting technologies, or use a surrogate. As you can see, our time on Earth is limited. If you plan on having children in your life, then you should marry and have kids in your 20s or 30s, not consider settling down in your 40s or 50s.
For those young people who "accidentally" have a child during their teens and twenties due to a misused condom, let's just say that their lives are fucked up at this point, because of too much irresponsible fucking going on in their lives.
2. Pregnancy
If conception is successful, then you should congratulate yourself, because not everyone can conceive. Then, you have to carry the child in the womb for 9 months. During that time, you may have to watch your diet and behavior, because what you eat, what you do, how you feel can all potentially affect the child's health. It may be useful to start doing these things before pregnancy, because you may not know that you're pregnant until you are showing obvious signs of pregnancy and because mistakes can have serious, long-term effects. If you don't want the pressure of having to create the ideal conditions, then pregnancy is not for you.
3. Labor
After the 9-month period, the baby has to come out. During labor, complications may arise. The baby's head may be so big that a Caesarean section is needed to yank the baby out of the womb. A Caesarean section leaves an ugly scar on your abdomen, a permanent sign that you are no longer the young girl you used to be. Congratulations, you are now a mother, and you are expected to act like one . . . for 2 decades or more.
4. Raising a Child from Infancy
Babies may be cute and all that, but behind that cute and adorable face is an obnoxious crying machine. It will cry in the middle of the night, depriving you of your sleep. It will cry for food, for a diaper change, for a cuddle, for apparently no reason at all. You have to spend a lot of time in raising a child, because a child grows relatively slowly. In fact, in five years, the child may not even be sexually mature, while a dog becomes sexually mature in less than a year.
As you can see, investing in a dog is more worthwhile than a human. In less than a year, the dog will be sexually mature and ready to be spayed/neutered. A dog is extremely sensitive to human behaviors, while a child, especially an autistic child, is not. A dog can be trained to never steal your food - and for good reason too! Some human foods are toxic to dogs! Little humans, on the other hand, can be disrespectful, disobedient, and rebellious. To prevent these little horrors from entering your life, do your best to take care of the environment and not have any children!
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