Stop Acting Like Being a Virgin in Your Early 20s is the End of the World

Seriously stopping acting like being a virgin in your early 20s is the end of the world

Let me tell you something, I'm 21 and a Virgin, let me tell you something else. It doesn't bother me. I'm not depressed because I'm a virgin. I don't think I'll lose it this year. In all likelihood I'll be 22 or twenty three when I lose it. However I don't really care. Not at all. There is nothing absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin in your twenties.

You know what is so fucking annoying though. Acting like your life is absolutely over because you are a virgin.

Stop Acting Like Being a Virgin in Your Early 20s is the End of the World

Seriously, you are complaining and moaning and whining about being a virgin. Do you think that's likely to change anything? Do you think that any woman anywhere will find that attractive? The reason that you will be single forever is because you keep fucking moaning about this. Its annoying.

Being a Virgin shouldn't embarrass you the fact that you go around constantly whining woe is me I've not had sex and I'm 22 years old should. All you are doing is setting yourself up to keep being a virgin. Seriously stop fucking whining.

Seriously, ask any of these women on here if they find the fact that you constantly whine and moan about being a virgin attractive (I'm 99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999% sure they don't.) and girls feel free to confirm this in the comments.

The most unattractive thing about you isn't your virginity, not by a long shot, its that you constantly bitch and moan about it.

Stop Acting Like Being a Virgin in Your Early 20s is the End of the World

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't lol in fact I can't recal ever acting that way about it.

    RIP Firefly.

    • Not you, But seriously some guys are just so whiny. I invited you cause I thought you'd get a kick out of the butthurt that is bound to come

    • Ah ok. I agree with you there. Ah gotcha haha your probably right I will, good call.

    • Lol thanks and lmao this is no joke the 20+ MHO I've gotten today.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sounds about right

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  • Bravo! Thank you! Misery loves company as they say! They could have had sex with ANYBODY, but nobody is forcing them to not do it. The ones who are often miserable are the ones who have had sex, especially when the relationship ended, or they had one night stands/FWB, and regret their choices. Studies have proven that over and over again. And the ones who often end up suicidal were sexually active people than non-sexually active people. I always tell people to wait with good intentions, but you can't force them to listen.

  • There's nothing wrong with being a virgin :) Everyone goes on their own pace in life, it's not a competition. Just because a person is still a virgin, does not mean it's going to be a permanent state. i agree with you, if a person is fixated on something like their virginity for example. And then that becomes the sole focus of their life, they won't make a very good partner.

    It's okay to be a virgin. Just try to be yourself, go out and meet people. That's really all you can do.

  • Nice one. I am so agree on your point.
    However, the reflection of young girls who are constantly wish for losing their virginity is not only end up with how you viewing the perspective. There are more underlying factors such as:
    -Gossips in high school puts a huge pressure on teenagers.
    -Psychologically, When you see half of your friends sticking to another opposite gender and all day long they talk about sex, you get nothing but wonder, frustration of not experiencing it and the early improved drive.
    -Sexualization generation, many kids watch movies under their age group. Porn is one click away, mainstream filled with sexual behaviors and jokes. Customs and dresses are sexualized. That do nothing but to impress the individuals subconsciously.
    -Boys thinking sex will make them a man. Girls thinking sex will make them an adult lady. Doing adult things to become adult. Talking sex and doing sex makes them feel grown up and together.
    -Many girls desire sex and losing virginity in order to seek attention for two reasons. 1. Seeing some classmates or friends have boyfriend, she comes with this idea something is wrong with her that she does not have a boyfriend and been approached. She start to open up her sexual book to gain attention of boys. Also, When girl grow in a family, feeling unseen and unnoticed, she desire to do this even with coldness, to just seek attention and affection from another arm regardless of the purpose and this attention however cold, would heal her pains.
    -Reckless generation, today many generation start doing sex without educating themselves as much as possible. They just tend to do it without much knowledge and control.

  • Oh Innara, I want you to be my first. Totally agree though. If you're biggest obsession in your life is your sex life, then you must not have a very fullfilling life.

  • Sometimes i get asked if im gay just because i never had a boyfriend or been with a guy sexually. im not homosexual at all and it offends me sometimes but i think its cold how some people think of vigins.. smh

  • Currently, with the World Going to Hell in a Hand basket, until Trump, God Willing, gets Sworn into Office... This is the Least of Anyone's problems. xx

  • 👏👏👏
    Sooo true!!! Being a virgin is sooooo not a big deal.
    That goes both ways. For those who think they deserve an award for not having sex, and for those who have a pitty party cuz they haven't had the opportunity to have sex... NOBODY GIVES!!! When it's meant to happen, it'll happen... no biggie...

    • That's bullshit. Western society looks at virgins as if they aren't dateable. You can sit here and tell me its not a big deal online, but I call bs if you knew someone IRL who was.

  • I think it is getting harder for a portion of young people to have sex due to less socialization caused by technology.

    This concerns me because people need people. I recently realized if I wanted to I could never leave the house literally. I can work from home and have anything and everything I ever wanted delivered. Even doctors visits I can have at home either them visiting me or telemedicine.

    You gotta get out there man. Nothing wrong with being a virgin but maybe come up with a plan to meet ladies. Dating is hard and not always fun but with practice you get better at it and then it does become fun.

    • While I agree technology has complicated real world relationships, having sex isn't the only way to maintain healthy relationships. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you're a shut in without anyone to socialize with.

    • @mermaidrocketship of course this is true. It can be a choice. I heart @waffles731 and know any woman would be glad to have him. Sex shouldn't be used as a tool as you say. But sex should be had at some point. It's beautiful.

    • "but maybe come up with a plan to meet ladies. Dating is hard and not always fun but with practice you get better at it and then it does become fun." I was actually advised by my partial hospitalization program and my new therapist to not date for a little while. Its something that someone who is recovering from being suicidal is advised to avoid for a few months

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  • Yea. There is no need to feel rushed to loose it. Specially to someone u barely know only so u feel like the rest of "society". I mean being virgin doesn't make u less of a person. It just meant that you know what u want and are willing to wait for the right time

  • Since when is exemplary self control, a resistance to peer pressure, and knowing 100% for certain you are STD free, embarrassing?

    • " knowing 100% for certain you are STD free" That parts actually not technically true since they can also be passed on by parents

    • And some from blood when treating injures... **and knowing 100% for certain that you have been safe and clean with your body. (IE you're guilt free if you do have something passed to you by means outside of your control)

  • Here, here! :)
    I'm in my mid 20's and still a virgin out of choice, because I haven't found a decent guy yet. I won't lose it until I do. People can slag me for it all they want. I don't give a shit, on the plus side I won't get STD's and can avoid going for smear tests. Yas!

  • Lol talking to those people is like talking to a brick wall. They never learn. The problem is that they try really hard to lose their virginity, but nothing works out, which leads to frustration and bitterness. Then they come here and dump it all on us.

  • I agree with all of your points.
    Yes, complaining about being a virgin can be annoying, but I also understand why some people are bothered by their virginity. This has to do with pressure.
    I'm pretty sure that some guys and also girls are always listening to their friends or people they know saying: "Oh, you're a virgin? How come? That's not normal." Or something like: "You're getting too old to be a virgin. Are you sure you don't have a problem?"
    Or even: "You're the only one who's a virgin here. You need to solve that."
    So, this must be frustrating. Which leads them to feel like it's the end of the world.
    In the end, I guess that we must know that virginity is just a state. It doesn't make you a good or a bad person. And it doesn't define you.

  • I totally agree I'm only 20 only been in one relationship because I haven't found nor met the right guy yet. I hate how society makes it seem like if you lose your virginity age your cool or whatever. And it's like if you lose it at an old age your a loser or whatever. I will lose it when I am ready. I want it to be with the right guy and the right time of course. People ac t like losing your virginity is a race, it's not like you get a prize or something. I am not in a rush to lose anything right now. I just wish society didn't make such a big deal out of virginity.

  • When you get to be my age, you don't GAF what anyone thinks and all this whining is like, "Oh! Woe is me because I haven't got laid yet. Can I please get some sympathy?" Well, let me tell you something: I've had a sinus infection for 2 months, my face hurts everyday, I've seen my doctor twice and tried to different antibiotics that haven't worked, I can't afford the "AFFORDABLE" (hahaha!) healthcare so all of this nonsense has already cost me way too much money, and I don't get any sympathy from anybody. Never!

    So. . . if I'M not getting any sympathy, YOU virgins sure as hell aren't getting any sympathy.

    The End

    • Whats really fucked up about sinus infections? Is that like that like the appendix they basically serve no purpose

    • Sinus infections cause a constant pressure in the face, above and below the eyes. It is unrelenting. It is not a 10/10 pain. At it's worst, it is an 8/10 and usually not more than 7/10 but it never stops until the infection is cured. Some people respond positively to antihistamines and decongestants but, because of an anatomical variation in my sinus structure, I get no relief from those OTC remedies.

    • Oh, I know, my brother had one for two weeks. But like the appendix, the sinus serves no purpose anymore, So instead they just fill with mucus and get infected

  • you said it man... as almost always i agree with you

  • Thank you! Twenty year olds also need to quit saying that they're old. YOU'RE NOT OLD. YOU JUST REACHED ADULTHOOD. Shut up about feeling and being old!

  • Yeah, it' really isn't a big deal, though I've noticed men tend to feel this way moreso than women.

    • Yes, because it's more a shame for men then women. Men've been considered as losers when they have got no pussy. Women've been considered clean and like the holy-girl when they have got no dick. Yes, we should stop whining. True dat but it can be annoying sometimes I've really lost contacts just for being virgin but now i'm antisocial so i don't care anymore. Maybe on the G@G i can bitch but no do it all the time but in real life i have no problem with it.

  • Waffles, not only is this the BEST thing you've ever written, it's THE BEST THING that anybody's ever written on here. Cheers!
    And WORD. LOL.

  • It should be the person choice to have sex at what ever time suits them in their life when they choose to have sex not when society decides

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