Fellas, have you ever walked up to a girl right off the bat they give you this stink eye or they just get up and walk away? I know, it sucks, trust me I've been in the same boat as you guys, but I have found out why girls do these things. There are three main reasons why this happens, physical features, body language, and personality. Let's get into it.
1.) Physical features
If you are an unattractive male chances are girls are going to find you more creepy than someone who is attractive. When women see an attractive male, they would go "Omg, he's soooooo hot! Look at those biceps! That jawline! He can be my man any time of the day!", where as if you are physically unattractive, girls would say "Eww, he's ugly, he's probably a rapist so my best bet is to leave." You do not understand how many times I have seen this happen. The bright side to this, and also kind of the bad side if you put it in a way however, is that mainly girls who are physically attractive are the ones doing this stuff. Lesser attractive women tend to be less extreme when it comes to the judgement of unattractive males.
2.) Body language
Body language is a huge one. If you aren't projecting yourself in a way that is confident, then you would be automatically called a creep. Overly confident people, as in arrogant people, tend to get better results than those who are just moderately confident. If you don't project any confidence then girls will automatically think that you are out to rape people, which doesn't make any sense because not every guy is a rapist. DISCLAIMER: I obviously understand that rape is a very serious topic, but i'm using the word rape and rapist because that is one of the first things a girl thinks of when someone is creepy. Confidence however, cancels out when you're unattractive.
3.) Personality
Personality is another biggie. If you're a shy guy like myself, then you get the short end of the stick. Guys who are awkward and shy are automatically creeps to girls, which is again stupid. Not every guy is born with amazing confidence. Some people are born insecure about every thing about them, like myself, which is why we remain reserved so that we can escape from rejection. I'm always nervous about what I'm going to say because anything I say to a girl can be turned against me, and it usually is. When I speak to a girl, more specifically girls who are more attractive, it's like walking on egg shells. What you say can determine what the opposite sex thinks you are.
So in conclusion, If you are unattractive, shy, and awkward guy, then you get the short end of the stick. It is unfortunate that even the 17 year old self has to deal with such bullshit. All my friends tease me about not ever kissing a girl, but I never tell them this because they never understand the mechanics behind why girls like them so much and why they don't like me. Hopefully you guys take some out of this and feel free to comment, whether that be praise or hate, it doesn't matter to me. This take can be a place to voice your opinion on the matter.
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