Ok so this is a topic that I've been avoiding for a while because, honestly, I think I would offend a lot of guys in here by saying what I think a nice guy is. Besides it's already beating the dead horse.
I'm going to tell you what happens to nice guys and what really means to be a nice guy, in which I've noticed A LOT of gaggers are. It's not going to be pleasant but I will get right to the fucking point in hopes I wake you up from being a miserable chump.
If you say you are single because you are a nice guy, then we have a fucking problem here, because when you say you "hate" to be single it only means there's a vacuum that "needs" to be filled. It's a YUUUUGE problem (as Trump says).
If you're looking towards the future in hopes you'll someday get married and a "perfect" girl for you (which doesn't fucking exist)... ERRRRRRRRR, you are doing it all wrong, and you are going to get fucked.
At this point, you've probably tried approaching girls in a "nice guy" manner. You've downloaded dating apps and registered to dating websites, and have constructed this typical "hey I'm a nice guy" profile, with a fucking LONG ASS description of yourself that trust me, most women are laughing at. "Hey, I'm a shy introvert. Look at me going at it!".
You have even tried going to churches and places when you think you are going to have a girl with "the same values" as you do... but I'll get to that later.
If you are single, and you "hate it" let me give you a newsflash: YOU ARE DESPERATE! And women see right through this shit. You are giving them a smell of death. Someone who is rotting inside from being alone. A desperate cry for help, you are broken from within. Do you think this is attractive to women? LOOOOOLL
A lot of conservative guys here have said they have "morals" and "standards" in order to date... they say they want a "quality relationship" and that they aren't looking for sex... HAHAHAHA I'm sorry guys but let me open you the window on how women read this like.
When you say you have "high morals" you are advertising YOU DON'T LIKE SEX. You are advertising to be in reality a submissive chump. A guy girls will run over easily.
You are saying "I've never given a woman an orgasm and I'm proud of it!"
Yeah you don't give women orgasms and you don't fuck them good... instead you give them flowers, and you open doors for them... yeah that's better... Essentially, you are saying you have no fucking game whatsoever and that you are a little chicken. Mommie's little snowflake.
When you are dating a girl or seeing her, and she thinks to herself "Gee I don't know, I like him but I don't feel anything. I think I need more" then what the hell you think you are doing? If you get a woman praying to feel something more Mr. Nice Guy you are never getting anywhere!
You are going for church-type women who have boring personalities and eventually will use the sex you hold so deer to manipulate you. You think I'm bullshitting? Go ahead, date one of these prudes and then come back and share your experience.
Most of these girls aren't even virgins and have more sexual experience than you. Heck, there are plenty of single moms in church... but whatever, lets assume she's also a virgin.
Whenever you are ready to have sex with her, you are going to enter her room get undressed and she'll say "hey, I'll be right back" - and lock herself in the bathroom. You'll only hear the water running while your boner and your excitement is getting slowly killed. Why? Because this girl don't like sex! And she'll do whatever to kill off your excitement.
She'll use it against you and you'll end up in this "oh, so high moral relationship" you think you are in, and you'll be dominated in the relationship. She'll have the power and you the frustration. If that's what you're into Mr. Nice Guy then fine. Wait those years until you meet and settle with this girl that doesn't like sex, and set yourself for the life you want in your "superior morality".
Along the line Mr. Nice Guys, you'll see she'll have sex, then the kids happen and then the job is done. And you'll realize what you have missed out. But only then...
You'll never give them what you need, and there will be another guy COMPLETELY WRONG for her that has EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS. And then you'll be completely fucked. And your life will be over sooner than you ever thought.
I don't know, whoever's reading, how do you tell these dudes they aren't in the 60's? How to tell them traditional values aren't the same. How can I explain these "Nice Guys" all women, doesn't matter who they are, have minimum level of hypergamy because that's how women function, biologically, and by today's standards that is celebrated?
Guys, you are either playing their game and being in standby to the women you're attracted to or you play it by YOUR rules. Guys that are described as "jerks" or "players" get pussy because they openly admit they want to fuck, fuck, fuck, and fuck. And they are happy on being single because:
1. They have good/stable jobs, therefore, they got money. Chicks DIG that, yes, but there's also nothing greater than spending money on yourself, and yourself only.
2. They have confidence and they value themselves because they know no one else will if they don't.
3. They have plenty of hobbies and activities to do in their spare time.
^^If you got NONE of those things, no wonder why you are miserable chump. It's as simple as that. Go back to your mother, because all the shit mommy did for ya you are not going to get it from other woman. That's a fantasy of yours. If you are over 20 and single, you should be enjoying it!
Just look at it logistically, women are attracted to men that are high on demand, not men who are waiting in line for things to happen. Yet you are still there waiting for the perfect thing to happen and fall from the sky.
Valuable relationships are the ones that are spontaneous... until then enjoy being single and do the shit that you want, get the shit that you want and stop self pitting and sucking your thumbs like a chump.
To wrap it up, I am not judging you, Mr. Nice Guy if you have high standards... but then again do you have the three things I listed above? Do you, really? If you don't then shut the fuck up and work on it. And forget about "moral standards" because that's complete bullshit as I thoroughly explained, and you'll forever be ignored, or even worse, be a beta provider in the future.