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A Way To Have Longer Sex Using Toys

It's just an idea that popped into my head. I'd been looking at different ways to have longer sex, like online...and even asking people. I liked a lot of the ideas, but they seemed a bit...frustrating. For both partners. I think the most common way is to stop sex, and wait or do foreplay and then go back and forth like that.

It sounds like it could be awkward...and I wouldn't like the different stimulation, like switching the focus like that. But I wanted an idea, for making sex longer. And I wanted something that'd be easy for him too, instead of needing tricks or him having to make himself space out.

A Way To Have Longer Sex Using Toys

So it occurred to me, what if he just used a toy on me? Like fuck for 5 minutes, then he uses a toy that's the same size as his dick on me for like a minute or 2. We go back and forth like that and have really long sex. Or, he could cum and keep using the toy on me.

I just feel like it'd be better to cum from his raw dick. He probably would prefer that too, or us even cumming together if we got lucky. But he could also be tired and not want to. Or we could vary, sometimes cum from him and sometimes cum from the toy after he cums.

I feel like the toy would be good for reapplying lube. I couldn't have long sex, or basically nonstop penetration if you count the toy, without lube. So we could put it on the toy too, and that could make it easier.

I like this idea. It's easy for him since all he has to do is move his arm back and forth, and of course I could take over and use it on me too. I do like short sex, but I think long sex could be really good sometimes, so I feel like this idea could make it more simple.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd be down for that it sounds like fun, it's something I've thought about from time to time as well. I've been wanting to try a Cock sleeve and I have tried desensitizing spray, the spray worked REALLY well for me, I had no problem basically fucking as hard or soft as I wanted for as long as I wanted with plenty of feeling and no zoning out mentally, but I think some guys lose their erection from it cause it can kill all the sensation for some people.

    I've also had some good results with multiple orgasm practice but that's not something I would do unless I was REALLY close to my partner. It's fucking crazy the intimacy/emotions it brings up, like it's hard for me to deal with solo and I totally get why there is a spiritual aspect to it for a lot of people, so that might not be the best option for everyone.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm not into toys, but your idea certainly sounds like a whole lotta fun!! = } We kinda do something similar, he uses his penis for a few, then massages my G-spot a lot for another few back and forth until I literally see Rockets!!! = } it's guaranteed for a wobbly legged rest of the night when he does that! If he makes me cum like that, I just kinda go off in small little tremors of orgasm every minute or so, (it could be less or more, I'm not counting the time by that point). Just gets more amazing the longer he goes, nothing matches the first orgasm though. It sometimes lasts well into round two until I get so sensitive I have to take matters in hand (or whatever) and finish him off again...

    • This sounds amazing.

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  • I found two ways to have sex last longer. You mentioned one. When I feel I am about to cum I pull out or have her stop sucking my cock for a couple minutes. It is like a reboot lol

    The better way is masturbate two or three hours before you know you are going to have sex.

  • Why not just longer foreplay with him first before he penetrates u?

  • Would you be able to cum from just being vaginally penetrated by the toy?

    • I don't see why not, but with this idea we'd switch it up.

  • Hey, whatever works for you. How do you feel about toy + dick (vibrator of any function)?

  • Yes, I'm sure this will work for everybody.

  • Here's an idea if you're desperate "to keep it going longer"... It's called tantric sex. It's been around for quite a while.

  • Why do i need a toy if i can go more than 3 rounds?

  • Thank you for sharing!

  • I like this idea. Way better, especially for the girl, than doing old fashioned foreplay during those couple of minutes. The guy can rest while the girl continues receiving pleasure to keep the fire going.

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