The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

This Take isn't weird
Obviously, if I'm doing this myTake, I've got a foot fetish. That means I find female feet attractive and that's all. I know there is a slight stigma attached to fetishes and with the foot fetish being the most common (by all accounts), foot fetishists often seem to be stereotyped as pervy loners. I'll be honest, I'm sure some of us are. But pervy loners are not exclusive to foot fetishists. I have a foot fetish and I am (mostly ) a normal guy. I want to get married and raise a family. I want to meet someone I can speak to and connect with. I find many parts of the female body sexy aside from feet. Feet just happen to be one more thing I do find sexy. I don't do anything criminal or weird and would never violate someone's boundaries for my own gratification; something which many guys without foot fetishes can't say.

Plenty of women seem uncomfortable with the subject so I thought I might do a Take explaining the benefits a man's foot fetish could have for his female partner.

NOTE: This all applies to me and the majority of foot fetishists in my experience. Everyone's sexuality is a little different.

1. Foot rubs

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Yep, this is the main one. Some women LOVE foot rubs but can't get their partners to do it because they're either too lazy or don't like feet. If your boyfriend has a foot fetish, he will jump through hoops to massage your feet. You can come home, pop off your shoes and most guys with a foot fetish will volunteer to give you a massage for the next hour anyway you like. They'll practice and find ways to make you relax and enjoy your massage so they can do it more often. Your feet basically have their own personal masseuse now.

2. Footwear

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

At some point most guys will complain that their girlfriend has too many shoes. Guys with a foot fetish however won't complain. Hell, they'll probably offer to pay for half of them. To them (us), the wide variety of women's shoes make women's feet sexier and draw attention to them in the same way that other forms of clothing (e.g. lingerie) do for other parts of the female body. If you go shoe shopping, he will be interested and it's a personal fantasy of mine to go shoe shopping with a girlfriend and she teases me the whole way through. The wide selection of female footwear will catch his interest as much as yours which provides plenty of opportunities for fun and you have an excuse for buying more shoes.

3. Variety

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

In long term relationships, sex can get boring and it helps to have options available to freshen things up. A foot fetish means there is one more way to experience sexual pleasure. Obviously, it shouldn't be one sided but if you're looking for another way of turning your man on and he has a foot fetish, you basically have 2 'On' switches to his sex drive on the end of your legs, giving you the chance to bring variety to your sex life and explore new things. Who knows? You might like it.

4. Intimacy

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Many men with foot fetishes seem to be secretive with it. Obviously most people don't broadcast the details of their sexuality for the world to hear but even for foot fetishists in relationships, it can be hard to open up about this in case the woman rejects it and believes he is weird. Therefore, if the woman accepts it, it can bring her and her partner much closer. They will have a stronger bond as he will have shared secrets that only she knows of him and have kept it between them. This is guaranteed to make you special in his mind and can lead to a great amount of trust.

5. Pampering!!!

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Women generally love to be pampered. Foot fetishes are an opportunity for that. Not only will you get foot rubs (see 1.), he will love to get/give you pedicures, foot baths or paint your toe nails for you. He could also buy all this for you as a present and the pedicures could be his present too.

6. Attraction

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

This means that there is another part of your body that can be attractive to (some) men. Everyone has body parts that they are proud of and some they aren't so proud of. It's natural. I know some women (that I've seen online. I don't really stare at girl's feet irl you'll be glad to hear. ) that look pretty good but have incredibly sexy feet (people disagree on what this means. Some fetishists love toes, some prefer soles. There is a wide variety). That makes them more attractive to me than women who have 'ugly feet' but look great otherwise. It opens up more options as well as meaning there are now more parts of your body that he is attracted to and only you know that. You can tease him in public without anyone else ever knowing by just dangling your foot in his view.

Conclusion

Foot fetishes come in many different forms and, like most forms of human sexuality, they are too unique to just sum up easily. But in my opinion, foot fetishes provide a genuine opportunity to bring a couple closer as it offers unique opportunities such as those I outlined above. It makes that person unique.

I hope that I will be able to explore my fetish in future with an open minded and mature partner and I will make sure that she reaps the benefits.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • While I do not consider the foot the most pleasing part of a body to look at, I must agree that a foot massage is something that even I do like because it can be relaxing after a long day in high heels or a long trekking in constricting walking shoes.

    Besides, the foot is a reflection of the body and contains so many trigger points that, from a medical point of view, are used to alleviate or excite parts of the body, including but not limited to the inner parts.

    Now, as to the rest of the fetish part, I really have an issue with some of the practices such as licking feet.

    A baby's foot is nice, an adult's foot not as much anymore. Just think of halux valgus (bunions), athlete's foot, nail fungus, crooked toes and those that cross over.

    Where my understanding of this fetish stops is when I picture somebody wanting to take a toe into the mouth with any of those symptoms. I cannot comprehend that people take such risk with a fungus.

    A foot fungus is not compatible with the bacterial flora in the mouth. Sorry, but while I will allow my partner to massage my feet, I will refrain from anything else, including buying me shoes because if I want something, then I buy it myself and not because something is expected in return.

    • I will love to give you foot rubs n massage. I don't mean to lick feet or take toe in mouth. I like if girl step on me or walk on me in heels or barefoot.

    • I'll take the massage, thank you. As for the back massage with feet, this is a common massage practice in Asia. I just would be cautious with someone stepping on my back that weighs 300 lbs. I would consider you submissive if you allow a girl to step or walk on you with heels. Besides you being potentially hurt by the heels, I do not find it hygienic, knowing that those shoes have walked the streets where people spit, dogs defecate and urinate and so many more crushed snails/worms that litter the sidewalks are stuck on the sole of the shoes.

    • Lmao not with somebody 300 lbs 😂 😂. I can handle upto 60 kg. Under heels not like sharp n pointed n definitely i am wearing clothes if girl walk on me but i prefer barefoot that will be more comfortable.

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  • Interesting forum. I hooked up with a feet guy and he did like massaging them and in his mouth. It was very sensual and i wish more guys were like that. He liked his feet massaged too.

    I don't understand why it has to be broadcasted as a fetish--it's stigmatized. It could simply be stated that you love my feet. Also for all the stinkers out there, the men should just wash your feet first and then do their thing. Just like taking a shower before sex. No brainer.

    • Thank you 😊 for supporting opinion Mam really glad to hear this

    • Thank you Sir!

    • shower doesn't wash athlete's foot off. info worth knowing.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Very nice! I love it when someone is responsible about their fetish. All of these points are valid. But we must consider that there is more to a woman than her feet, breasts, butt, etc. The most important part of a woman will always be her heart.

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  • OK, so I get that you like feet and like giving foot massages, but what if the girl has ugly, big, or smelly feet? Is that grounds for terminating a relationship, would you maintain the relationship without your fetish, or would the girl's nasty feet still get the same amount of attention because you really like her? I can't imagine you'd want to be with a girl who has hammertoe, fungus, or psoriasis on her feet if you're obsessed with feet because you think they're soft and attractive

  • Great Take. I enjoyed reading this. 👍 I loved my feet massage. That's the best perk 😜

    • Hahaha 😂 and its perk for me to massage ur feet and rubs them

    • Haha

    • Hahaha 😂 do you like erotic foot massage 😂😂?

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  • I used to think guys with foot fetishes were creepy and gross and swore I'd never date one. Well one of exes was a closet foot fetishist and honestly I grew to love it and really embraced it. He used to buy so many bedroom shoes and we'd have sex while I wore high heels. It made me feel real sexy, and who doesn't enjoy getting their feet rubbed?
    Hed even suck on my toes while he fucked me. It was kinda hot, after we broke up I now miss the foot attention lol To me it was another body part I could tease him with and not as obvious to other people when you're in public. He still loved breasts, ass, legs etc it was like every inch of my body turned him on. I'd almost prefer for a guy to have a foot fetish now.

    • You are spot on @MissPanda. There are a lot of erogenous zones to our body that can be easy to call weird or whatever. I think exploration, creativity and especially vulnerability are very important to great sex.

  • Yeup. I'm with someone who's into feet, and before he told me about it, I would have NEVER guessed he was. It's just how you go about things before you get close to the other person. Nothing wrong with having any kind of fetish.

    I'd rather be weird than normal any day.

    • That's really nice 😊

  • Some, hun, Have.. Been there and Done that.
    However, I make Sure it Doesn't get out of Hand with any Man.
    Thanks for the Kind Invite. xx

  • Of all the fetishes out there, I think this one is pretty mellow. Nice Benefits though.

    • Which benefits you like most

    • I say all of them, pampering maybe, I really do like a good pedicure and foot massage.

    • Lol Nice to hear

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  • That part you said “I’m sure some of us are” to being a pervy loner loll. Aside from that this was a different angle from the usual about foot fetish which made it more interesting to want to read

    • Thankyou 😊

    • Yw😊

    • You vanish?

  • im a bi female with the same fetish. i love pantyhose/stockings on a woman too. how do you feel about nylon feet i love to rum and suck on them and even wear them as well for the other girl. lots of fun!!!

    • I love nylon

  • My feet are ticklish, therefore I can't stand having someone else touch them. I have like 2 pairs of shoes that I wear regularly and another 2 depending on the season/occasion... so he's not going to get to see my feet in many different shoes lol. I don't care much about my feet anyway so pampering them would be a waste of time for me :/
    I have nothing against guys with foot fetishes lol, but for me personally it's not a turn on and I don't really enjoy having my feet touched, pampered, or dressed in many different kinds of shoes. It would be extremely one-sided and I bet I would be a disappointment to guys with foot fetishes :D so that's a no from me.

    • Appreciate your opinion 😊

  • An ex of mine had a foot fetish, I didn't like it bc he'd want my feet at the worst times. After I had JUST gotten out of school, and I'm like dude, I'm tired, my feet are sore, we live in the South, it's hot, my feet are sweaty and stuck to my damn socks-and here you are wanting to suck on them. Can a woman get a break.. He made the fetish seem super gross and rabid. I know not all guys are like that (just like there are varying degrees of ass desire) but oh my gosh, it was such a negative experience. I wish I had experienced even half of this list.

    • Lmaoooo

    • He wants ur feet wrong time 😂

  • So does toe cleavage turn you on more than boob cleavage

    • I just like feet n boobs also but more feet they really pretty n soft

  • well i didn't experience that yet but my EX boyfriend like / love having a foot massage and he don't like any one else doing that to him. he wants only ME lol

  • The massages and pampering are cute, but I don't have many shoes, and my feet are ticklish. I'm not sure it'd work out if he wanted my feet all the time

  • Cool!

    • Thanks 😊 I thought u will not read dis

  • I see that you really like to touch a girl's feet. But I don't see any advantage on that.
    I'm sorry, but I find your fetish disgusting.

    • I only want to see ur feet 😞

    • But I already told you that you won't see them. Accept that.

    • Still hope

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  • Well I have a nylon/pantyhose foot fetish so him having a foot fetish is a huge perk for me

    • Who are you Goddess? Why we not meet earlier 😂 😂?

  • Unfortunately, a majority of women love foot rubs. I don't like it. Feet stink.
    But I don't judge men with foot podophilia. Nothing wrong.

    • Lol podophilia, that’s a good one

  • You had me at shoe shopping

    • Yes And i will help you in wearing shoes

  • Well, I offer my feet to you for your fetishes... hahaha... so sweettt boy

    • Today really lucky for me 😂 😂

  • Pampering and Foot wear.. yes :D

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