4 Dumb Myths Men Still Sadly Believe About Sex

[Anonymous]

1. Women always reach orgasm

First of all, I want to tell you that porn is also a movie, I mean it is not real. They will show you that women reach orgasm in every position but that's not right. Don't expect your partner act like the women in porns. Or else she will make a fake orgasm to pleasure you.

2. Women are always ready for sex

I see lots of questions here asking if we feel horny when we see a hot guy. No we don't always feel horny. We just think how hot he is.

Starting from this point of view, foreplay is essential to get ready to have sex. Finding someone hot is not enough.

3. Men can have sex over and over

Again what they show in porn is not right. Don't compare yourself with the guys on porns.

4. Women will touch to the men that they like

If she is flirting with you she will give you flirty touches, but she won't touch you there directly.

[FakeName123]

4 Dumb Myths Women Still Sadly Believe About Sex:

1. Every orgasm for a man is a good orgasm.

2. Men always think about sex.

3. Men always want sex.

4. Men are mindreaders and easily know where the erogenous hot spot of every individual women are just by seeing her naked.

[Imhotep99]

Your comment is better than her post. Lol.

[0112358]

Number 1 is so true. It's especially women who need a lot to reach orgasm, for them orgasm = good sex, and assume if we get a side orgasm while her orgasm was reached it must have been great for us too.

[SovereignessofVamps]

This list is an epic reply. But that 1st point, I'm still jealous of the avg guy.

[0112358]

@SovereignessofVamps why? It's almost meaningless. It lasts a couple seconds. You can have a really blah sexual experience with one and be like 'that wasn't worth it'. Our orgasm is not your orgasm. .

[SovereignessofVamps]

Lots of women have weak Os, too. I do, and I can't even have multis. But when guys do edging/lasting longer during fucking they can O harder.

[SovereignessofVamps]

And I have a high sex drive, so it's not hormones lol

[0112358]

@SovereignessofVamps yes. But that was the entire point of his point 1. That a weak o doesn't mean it was good.

[SovereignessofVamps]

But you can have a weak O from any sex act, or at least that happens to me. So this doesn't just apply to guys.

[SovereignessofVamps]

You implied women always have good Os. Plus, I srsly feel like the build up can be better than the final O, though that is my own POV. The O is necessary but not the epic part, not always.

[0112358]

@SovereignessofVamps I will give you an analogy. Some women are like the equivalent of a picky eater. And imagine we take this picky eater to a restaurant and after she tells a friend 'we had a great dinner. You kmow I'm picky but he got me a really good seafood appetizer. Then a little soup. He didn't have any. Then we got fillet mignons. Well he gave me his then i ate mine. So good! I'm really full. He just ate all the bread and the potatoes off our plates. He said he was really full too. It must be so great to not be picky!'

[SovereignessofVamps]

So... what are you saying, women can be more relaxed about sex?

[SovereignessofVamps]

Like sex is usually more focused on her?

[0112358]

@SovereignessofVamps that can happen yes. I've experienced that a lot. I didn't mind focusing on her a lot. But she'd never put effort in the other way because since i got off she must be doing enough. Not all women of course and plenty of men are selfish too. But there are women who think if he got offnit must have been good

[SovereignessofVamps]

Ohoho So guys are jelly. So yeah, you put in more effort than her and you can't be the priority as much as she is... I knew tons of guys felt this way, but why didn't you just say that before?

[0112358]

@SovereignessofVamps yes, but myth 1 is I presume the root cause of her not trying back.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I doubt it. My weak Os don't have anything to do with him. I can get them even when I get myself off, and I know how to do it best.

[FakeName123]

@SovereignessofVamps Just because YOU are not like that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of OTHER women who are. Stop thinking everyone thinks and behaves exactly like you, because 0112358 is correct. Plenty of women out there who think "he ejaculated - I must be a sexgoddess".

[SugarMeSweet]

what do you exactly mean every orgasm for a man isn't a good orgasm. i don't get it. i wanna please my man so he cums at least 20 times in one night (i know its probably not possible) but that means most my hard work won't even be enjoyed? wuut?

[FakeName123]

@SugarMeSweet It means that there can be really mindshattering and fairly boring orgasms. Unlike for you women, for men an orgasm is also physically caused. An example: If a guy has a morning wood you can theoretically stroke him easily to orgasm. But if he wasn't mentally in the right mindset or mood, then he might not find it enjoyable.

[SugarMeSweet]

ohhhh i see i get you :) he has to be in the mood. like a woman. no i hear ya i hear ya. thank for the tip :) .. i don't mean that literally haha

[SovereignessofVamps]

@FakeName123 What do my Os, have to do with how he Os? I never said that last part.

[SovereignessofVamps]

And women can masturbate or get off even when we're not totally in the mood too. Like why would there be a reason we couldn't. See, you're assuming women have to be really turned on to O, which is really not true. When i get myself off, fantasy does help a lot but I can still have weak Os like how I mentioned before.

[Unit1]

Well, I am a man and I ALWAYS want sex, so the 3. th is true for some =P Good point also!

[Anonymous]

Do you live in some isolated tribe in the jungle or something? While I'm sure there are a few men who believe some of those things, I would say the percentage is extremely low. I don't know any guys over like 15 YO who believe any of those things.

[myTake Owner]

Then why I see many questions about these things that men ask rapidly?

[Opinion Owner]

Please show examples of those questions you're talking about. I really haven't seen any.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I think it's true lots of guys, but not the majority of guys. At least not for points 2, 3 and 4. Sometimes I feel badly for guys that they have to put in so much effort to get her to cum from sex... Of course, that doesn't trump how I can feel frustrated about sex and Os, but still.

[SovereignessofVamps]

See, I argued with a guy on here, and just like lots of guys he thinks women's orgasms are always awesome, or even always multiples. If only guys understood how social sex can be, like meeting certain standards. So lots of women will exaggerate their Os, and then admit it later in life. So guys can think sex is universal, like how women experience it or they believe all the exaggerated stuff.

[Anonymous]

unfortunately some really believe them

[hellionthesagereborn]

I was unaware that any one thought that, I honestly don't think any man believes any of these.

[AbbyKay]

Wtf. I mean Im a woman but I think I can speak for men when I say I think men know all of these things. I don't know a guy who believes in any of the supposed "myths" you mentioned. Do you think men are morons or something because it's coming off that way. Really sexist man.

[OlderAndWiser]

Four things men believe about women that are usually true:

1. A woman won't tell us what gets her aroused and, whatever it is, it is probably different than our previous partners.

2. Women need a boat load of foreplay to have an orgasm.

3. When we go down on a woman, she wants us to keep going until she cums. When the same woman goes down on us, quite often she won't finish with her mouth because "that would be disgusting!"

4. Many women don't want to make any sounds when they have sex because they think it will make them look like sluts. Hearing a woman moan in response to what we are doing is one of the most arousing things a woman can do in bed.

[MrMysteryMan]

I think point #3 should be directed to women more than to men. But, the rest I have no fault with.

[fauchelevent]

I really don't think men believe any of that.

[myTake Owner]

There are a lot of men here asking these kind of questions.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Women are always ready for sex? Preposterous! Even men aren't *always* ready for sex! I sometimes even have nights when I wish I could get excited in that way, but... as the old song once put it: "I turn the engine but the engine doesn't turn." And it's entirely possible for me to not want it.

[godfatherfan]

I have never known any male friends that have thought women always orgasm. Actually, the opposite. Men figure women usually don't, so we go the extra mile. maybe it is you young people that have grown up with the internet and all the porn. It is sad that young people think porn is real. One of the sadest posts i see on this site is when people talk about a favorite porn star. That is just beyond sad. If you have a favorite porn star, you watching way way way way too much porn. It should only be used to enhance sex, not as a way of life.
I don't know any man ever that thinks they can have sex over and over again. I have known a lot of women that seem to think this is possible. I don't know why.
Women may not want sex all the time but you can do it anytime, all the time. Your very lucky.
I have no idea what that last point was trying to say. It makes no sense at all.

[SovereignessofVamps]

The internet is what helped me know that women don't usually cum from sex. Everyone IRL says they have multiple Os easily...

[dragonfly6516]

@SovereignessofVamps The actual meaning of multiples is a little hazy. More than one in "session"? Yes. More than one at the same time simultaneously? That actually is rare.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@dragonfly6516 Exactly, like even guys can have multiple rounds in one session. But girls are almost expected/idolized to multi O, and I think usually people do mean in the same round.

[JimRSmith]

With respect, Asker, do you really think men believe any of these four things? You'll probably find a few below 20 who do, but it's not as widespread as you think it is.

[myTake Owner]

There are a lot of men here asking these kind of questions.

[Sovereignty]

I think you meant to title this article... "4 Dumb Myths Women Still Believe Men Believe About Sex"

[AleDeEurope]

Lol what men believe this? I think your Take is aimed towards basement dwellers xD

[Chrysis]

I personally disagree with number 3! I'm not really into foreplay & all I need to get ready is that one minute it takes to take off our clothes, lol.

[jacquesvol]

Beliefs from porn addicts

[frozenhorizon]

I'm a porn addict and I don't believe any of this

[Unit1]

@frozenhorizon Me 2!

[Browneye57]

Ya, the younger set really needs to bag off the porn train. It's ruining their time in the bedroom for sure.

OTOH, this sounds like eighth grade. :)

[genericname85]

all those are not exclusive to women xD it´s the same for men. we are not always ready for sex and won´t always orgasm :P i mean i can have sex over and over if i feel like it but i don´t take that for granted. you´ll have to see how your partner is like. of course us touching you doesn´t mean that we like you sexually... and nobody expects to be touched in private areas right away! XD

[AWiserFool]

Dumb list, seriously. Dumb. Also, some men can have sex over and over.. sometimes just like some women can sometimes have multiple orgasms. But, even youngins know you have to prime the lady to get her lady parts going first.

[Unit1]

Never heard any of these so called myths before.

[Leandri]

Awesome!

[Iraqveteran666]

Good take. Too many guys get their sex education from porn.
No1 for women in think is the notion that just because they've been boned by loads of guys that somehow they are good in bed.
No.2 that it's the man's fault if they don't orgasm especially if they've never had an orgasm.
No.3 that it's up to the guy to do all the work
No. 4 that men are psychic and know what they like sexually without the slightest hint.
No5 that they are hot simply because a lot of drunk guys come on to them.

[Ali55sven]

Words of advice stop watching porn, it destroys brain cells.

[John_Doesnt]

I don't know any guys who believe this.