In a way it is something that must not be, especially if you are physical with your partner.
Some people don’t mind if their partner watch porn, but the question is: What happens when porn starts to diminish relationship commitment? And in some cases men / women swap out the person who’s actually lying in bed with him / her for some fantasy person they’ve never met (and probably never will).
And I think that watching porn kind of gives you an “ idea ” about how sex is supposed to be in the bedroom, and some people expect that from their partners and in some cases gets disappointed when they can’t live up to the standards….that is also where cheating comes in…they go look for that satisfaction.
For some women / men that are insecure about themselves pornography in a relationship can be their downfall. Cause, that seeing physically attractive and sexually available partners on screen may heighten a person’s perceptions of his / her own possible partner. And how can you satisfy someone like that when you can’t even be content with yourself?
A lot of people will disagree, because porn spice up their relationships...and doesn't interfere with their intimacy. But the question is: " Who is really on your partner's mind? Is it you or the woman / man in the video? Are you giving the satisfaction or them?"
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