I wrote a similar take like this a week ago.
I promised to write a take about how to distinguish sluts from non sluts. This take is for entertainment although I do have a message here.
I have noticed how guys get bashed for their preferences when it comes to dating and casual sex.
I want everyone to embrace their preferences and desires and never give up them just because they don't benefit others. Do you boo!
I am abstinent myself (virgin) 👸and I respect everyone's preferences. That being said I absolutely don't mind being undesirable or a turn off to guys who dodge abstinent or virgin girls. In all seriousness am not mad at them at all. In fact I don't even want to be desirable to such guys as they don't meet my standards of an alpha man.
In all seriousness I am glad there are guys who don't mind dating women with high count because I want everyone to find their match.
Okay let's move on from the drama. 😄 Now I am going to tell guys how you can distinguish sluts from non sluts.
I believe that a woman who has had numerous lovers in the past can still be happily married and be a very loyal wife. I call such women ex sluts. By the way I have noticed that these ex sluts in spite of the fact that they are happily married still get triggered when guys (even random guys) say they care about a woman's past and want to date a virgin or a woman with low count. Ex sluts are no longer sluts but they still get heated on. The sole intent why they are triggered by this and are strong about your excluding sluts as a girlfriend or wife is because they take that personally and use the defense mechanism ✊(Something that most insecure people do). Sluts and ex sluts have the habit of constantly freak out on 👊people who dislike promiscuity. They blatantly seek for being desired by men and praised by others and it doesn't matter to them that they don't carry themselves in a way that projects class and confidence.
As well as they tend to judge guys who prefer hookers over sluts. Okay I understand that virgins and non sluts also don't like the idea of a guy sleeping with a hooker but at least they also don't like him to have slept with sluts.
Sluts and ex sluts get mad 😠 at such guys not because they think sleeping with hookers is risky and gross but BECAUSE THEY GET INSULTED THAT GUYS CHOOSE HOOKERS OVER SLUTS. 😠Their problem is the guys choice of hookers instead of sluts. It is really hurtful 😦to them that you didn't choose sluts even though they are free. If you buy something instead of just taking what is free that means what costs money is way better than the free one.👍
You don't have to ask the woman for her count or get background information about her in order you know if she has had hook ups (casual sex) or not. 👌Sluts and ex sluts automatically betray themselves ✌about their promiscuous past or promiscuous present by their reaction to people's opinion on promiscuity. No slut is going to be calm when promiscuous behavior is looked down and no slut is going to be silent if a guy voices that he prefers 0 or few past lovers from his girlfriend or wife.
Sluts and ex sluts are very insecure attention lovers. Being undesirable is very painful to them.
So guys you are already guessing how to know approximately how many guys she has slept with depending on her reaction to your preferences on past lovers.☝
And of course sluts and ex sluts go crazy from happiness 😆 when a guy says he doesn't care about a woman's past and doesn't value female virginity.😜
Guys have the right to know your sexual history if they want to date you. If you are ashamed of your past and don't want to tell him then leave him or skip that question but don't lie. You will make yourself look even more insecure and dishonest. Insecurity is a bad trait it is even worse when it is combined with dishonesty. Dishonesty will bring distrust with it. If there is no trust in the relationship then it is not going to last long.
Women, accept yourselves the way you are and don't get mad when you are not considered girlfriend or wife material by some men.
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