Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
At 25 I've seen a bit... to say the least, but more importantly through many of these sights I've learned to acknowledge them as learning experiences. These lesson, like most only lead to more questions. Feminism is a fiercely debated topic, and one that seems to be protected with fervor as if movement is beyond reproach. Well, I'm sorry, but I've got questions.
Now it's a broad topic, but my efforts as a true egalitarian demand that I question any and everything that goes against standards that are not commensurate to any and all parties mentioned.
Okay, ladies, I know you, understand you, and for everything you can be, I personally appreciate you. This is not some quasi intellectual misogynistic rhetoric. This is a genuine, and poignant MyTake on the vilifying of the western man's sexuality.
Okay, now let's do this. Feminism is a broad topic, form it's principles, to it's theories, to the different sects of feminism that combat other forms of feminism. Today let's focus on the one thing that might be my largest grudge against the agenda. Now if, I'm going to talk about what I don't agree with, I feel it's only fair to double down on how I believe in some, if not most feminist ideals. Here are two.
1. Her Body, Her Choice.
For a woman, having a child is more a reproductive process, than a miracle in this day and age, so barring any religious beliefs, if you feel you shouldn't, or can not raise a child at the moment, you morally shouldn't. Having a child may not stop, but will definitely alter your life and livelihood. Not to mention the toll it takes on a woman's body, both inside and out. So if you've considered your options, do you. Find a reputable doctor and handle your business accordingly. #GIRLPOWER
However, if there's a guy in your life and it's serious, tell him, he deserves to know what's going on and where you stand on it. Even if you remain unfazed by his personal opinions if they oppose your let him know. And if he doesn't want children, consider having him recuse responsibility for the child legally, and continue being the modern woman that you are.
2. Equal Pay
This one needs no explanation, but here we go. You went to school, you gained experience in your field, you always handle yourself in a professional manner and do your job with unwavering pride and dignity, Then you deserve everything we get. Simple and plain.
Now for the grievance.
Why is a mans sexual nature such a bad thing in western society?
We go on and on about more fully understanding that a woman is a sexual being that should not be judged according to how she handles herself sexually. Even Martha Nussbaum advocated for a woman's ability to earn capital using sex. Stating something to the affect that trying to give a woman power by taking away the most powerful weapon she has, is insulting.
This for whatever reason doesn't phase me. Call it bias, or sexual proclivity, but if your safe once again, do you. My problem is why in our effort to "meet halfway" on these gender issues have we forsaken, or completely repressed a man's sexuality socially. Why are we condemned for what nature is constantly calling upon us to do?
For instance the labels we've placed on men to propagate the idea that something is wrong with us.
The Player
A man who for whatever reason (doesn't matter in this case) jumps in bed with different women with no real serious intentions for her. A man like this in society may be coveted by his peers, but is looked down upon by women of the opposite sex. Often generalizing them as chauvinist ass hats, with no respect for women. Why, because they enjoy the company of women? Because they don't adhere to social construct.
The Serial Monogamist
A man who believes in monogamy, but not for an indefinite period. Often considered "boys" or "immature". Seen as men with commitment issues. But any relationship is a commitment up to a point, if you love, love, why not explore that love in a way that supports your ideals. Why if a man doesn't believe in long term relationships, he's considered some kind of enemy to the idea of commitment.
These are just examples of a much broader issue, but the point of emphasis for feminism that is causing a unfair rift for a lot of men, is mainly objectification. I find it to be a bit hypocritical, blaming men in today's society, for something that was perpetuated by consumerism and marketing over 50+ years ago.
Finally MyTake Question
Now there are many forms of objectification, most of which I disagree with such as fungibility and ownership, but sexual objectification is where I draw my line. There is no amount of mental work a man can do to look at a woman and not "see" a woman. A lot of what a woman's body is anatomically, is meant to excite us biologically. So, yeah we know your a person, but damn your beautiful, and if a man feels that way, no one should make him feel bad about that. A man wanting to fulfill his sexual desire in a consenting manner whether solicited or casual should not be condemned, it's a form of emasculation, akin to making women covering up their bodies. Now how he interfaces with women on a more personal level is a greater indication of his integrity. Judge him on that, his character not his being. I guess the question is "Why does the elevation of women in society have to involve the degradation of male sexuality?"
Most Helpful Guy