If He Doesn't Please You In The Sack, GET OUT!

[amandaschwartz]

1. Life is too short

Let's be honest. We don't know what the future holds and who knows what is going to happen tomorrow. Life should be enjoyed everyday, and if you're not enjoying the sex- then you can do better. It isn't about the size, it's about the effort put into it.

2. If he doesn't care about your pleasure, he doesn't care about you

A guy that doesn't care about whether you cum, or whether you're enjoying sex, is a guy that cares more about his pleasure than you. Think about it in terms of the relationship. It can start off small, but if he doesn't try to please you in the sack, what are the chances he will try to please you emotionally, mentally?

3. Try and you will most likely succeed

All it takes is trying. Even if you see that his effort is great, or that he is willing to learn from your advice on what you like and don't like- unless you try you won't know whether you can succeed. A guy that gives up right away is not worth your time.

[I-am-a-nobody]

Wow Amanda, this catharsis of yours just keeps getting more bitter. Eventually you'll need to let the bitterness go.

I'd also contend that you should be able to tell if a guy is willing to please you sexually BEFORE you have sex with him. If he's all about himself in other areas, he'll be all about himself sexually, too.

[crazybi]

This should go for both sexes. However if you find someone who you are compatible with outside the bedroom generally the inside the bedroom stuff is fantastic.

[logan16]

the politically correct thing to say is it doesn't matter but from my experience if he isn't satisfying you then as the years go by your desires grow and then we cheat to fullfill that desire

[Jen_Jen]

Sami Khedira *melts*

[John_Doesnt]

Exactly, everyone should leave a partner who doesn't give them good sex.

[CHRIS11796]

Sex isn't the most important thing.

[JustCallMeLeon]

I have to agree with this...

[Decentguy]

there is more to life than sex

[I-am-a-nobody]

Exactly! What are all these people going to do when they are in their 70's, and he's not a stallion and she's not a vixen anymore? Are they just going to end it all?

[Decentguy]

@I-am-a-nobody people are wayy too immature these days man

[CT_CD]

I don't care about pleasing women

[Anonymous]

Yes. If the sex isn't good, just get out.

[Anonymous]

i dont care it

[Anonymous]

Didn't agree with the title, agree with the take.

Things can be improved where there's effort. Lack of effort - get out.

[samhradh_leannan]

I agree, the title sounded way too harsh, but the myTake is actually good.

[Anonymous]

There are more important things than sex for a woman.
Sex is something only a man enjoys. The female is the recepient. She has nothing but a cavity that leads to her womb whereas the male has a large organ meant to give him pleasure.

[samhradh_leannan]

The female also has a large organ meant to give her pleasure. It's called the clitoris. Look it up.

[Opinion Owner]

@samhradh_leannan The clitoris is a prenatal nub leftover from what should have been a penis. It should be cut off cause it has no use and makes her a slut. Female circumcision ftw!

[Anonymous]

Good point. And the same holds for guys: If she won't lick your balls and suck your cock, dump her sorry ass.