How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

I'm not exactly sure how every other guy feels when they see someone they find attractive but I often think that a lot of guys have similar tastes with some unique differences. I think that I'm one of the rare men that views romance and sex in a very different way.

1.) What do I think when I see a beautiful woman

I'm assuming that when most guys look at a beautiful woman they will check her out and won't be able to stop thinking about her. When I see a beautiful woman in public, I'll subtly glance at her and admire her beauty/find her attractive. I'll then forget about her and go on with my day.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

2.) I don't want to date every single attractive woman I see

In fact, there is only a few beautiful women that I see as potential dates. I might glance at a beautiful woman and think "wow, she's hot!" but that doesn't mean I see her as a potential girlfriend for various reasons. She might look hot but she's not my "type", she might look hot but I don't develop feelings for her. She might look hot but her personality is bad.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

3.) She might have a hot body but not a pretty face

Stereotypically, I'm not sure how common it is but it's said that a lot of guys pay way more attention to how thick, curvy and how big her breasts and butt are but for me, that's not the first thing I check out in a woman, I check out her face. The woman can be scrawny, curveless but if she has a pretty face, I still find her attractive. She can be big breasted, have a large butt, be "thick" and curvy but if she has a below average face, I won't find her attractive. It's not asking for much since I think a lot of women have pretty faces.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

4.) Body shape

I'm also very lenient when it comes to body shape, I find most women's body shapes to be ideal. All she needs is to be in decent physical shape. Most guys love the "hourglass" body shape, I think it's a nice body shape as well but to me that's only a bonus. She can have a "rectangular" body and still look sexy.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

5.) What do I think when I'm sexually aroused

I'm certain that it's way different than most guys. Most guys probably think of what they can do in bed and they probably imagine the woman naked. I'm different, I think about what she would look like in Corduroy pants, I think about what her midriff looks like, how her navel looks like, I think about how dominant a woman can be in bed and the most different part is that I even wonder how the flatulence of certain women smells.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

6.) Adult entertainment

Obviously most guys watch "Porn". Well, I don't. I've never been interested in "Porn" because I just don't like to see random naked people do sexual things to each other. I actually find porn to be hilarious, not erotic.

I might not watch porn but I do like looking at pictures or videos of women that are wearing some type of pants(ideally corduroy) and with bare midriffs. It's not the pictures/videos themselves that turn me on, it's what goes through my mind when I look at the pictures. Of course, pictures and videos are optional. My imagination itself is better than any picture or video I've seen so far.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

7.) Clothing in women

Most guys love it when females wear dresses and skirts, not me. I don't like dresses and skirts, I actually like it when women wear pants, it doesn't have to be sexual but I think pants look good on everyone.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

8.) Unusual attractions

I have felt some temporary attraction to much older women before. I remember seeing one woman that looked to be in her mid 40s. I saw her staring at me and giving me a flirtatious smile. I actually could picture myself in a relationship with her if I was her age or if she was younger. I even felt some sexual attraction to her because I fantasized of being submissive to her which was awkward

I also feel sexual attraction to much taller and "heavier" or muscular women. I think it's because I fantasize of allowing myself to be submissive to them for some reason. I don't have any romantic interest in them, only sexual but of course they are only temporary moments of attraction. Of course I only date women that are around the same age as me.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

9.) Racial preferences

It's kind of taboo to say you have racial preferences but I'll say it anyways. I'm not a racist/bigot, I don't hate anyone because of their race or ethnicity, I don't consider any race or ethicity as inferior, I also don't consider any race or ethnicity as "Ugly".

I do have some racial preferences. It's not that I don't find women outside of those preferences attractive but I just don't see myself in a relationship with them because I can't connect with them emotionally. I don't have anything against them, I still have women of various races as friends but I can't picture myself in a relationship with them, there is still a chance that I can date outside of my preferences but it's very unlikely.

Personally I find myself to be attracted to women of Hispanic and Caucasian ancestry. Being someone of part Hispanic ancestry, I'm almost certain that my future girlfriend/wife will be Hispanic. I live in a area of the US where Hispanics are the majority, I grew up in this area. Asians, Blacks and whites are minorities in the area where I live. To answer your question, I'm part Japanese, part Mexican.

When it comes to Caucasian women, I tend to feel this strong emotional romantic attachment to them. It has to do with her looks. If I know the Caucasian woman for a while, I may start to develop a strong sexual attraction to her. It is unexplainable, that's best way I can explain it. When it comes to Hispanic women my feelings of attraction vary.

Most Hispanic women I find attractive are a result of simultaneous strong emotional romantic attachment and a strong sexual attraction, however there are some Hispanic women where I feel only a strong emotional romantic attachment or only a strong Sexual attraction.

When it comes to Black women, some Black women, I can only feel a strong sexual attraction to them but no emotional romantic attachment. For other black women, I might not feel attraction at all but I wil see them as adorable.

When it comes to Asian women, I feel only sexual attraction to some of them as well but no emotional romantic attachment. I can see other Asian women as adorable but I won't feel any attraction to them.

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

10.) Sexual orientation in women

I personally don't care what sexual orientation a woman is, I don't hate people for who what their sexual orientation is or which gender they want to identify as but I only date Straight women that were born as women. I have nothing against LGBT people, I can have LGBT people as friends but I only date straight women who are "XX".

How My Romantic and Sex Life Differs From Other Guys

Remember, I'm not trying to offend anyone, I'm only trying to be detailed to explain my views on romance and sex. Maybe people can relate to this, perhaps this will help other GAG users write similar takes.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • "I even wonder how the flatulence of certain women smells."

    Fine, you win.

Most Helpful Girl

  • nice take

    • Thank you.

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  • Guys have been stereotyped for all the things you just wrote that you don't believe in or do, but really, many guys are quite like you.

  • One of the consistent traits of teens and early 20's is the notion that you are qualitatively and quantitatively different from everyone else on the planet. And it is true to some extent, but it must be kept in perspective. "Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else." -- Margaret Mead

    • How common is it for a man to imagine what a female's flatulence smells like in a sexual manner? Or how often does a guy picture women in corduroy pants? It's seems so unusual to many people, that's why I tend to be quiet about these fantasies.

    • Not common, I'm sure, but I would not assume that you are the only guy on the planet with these fantasies/fetishes.

  • You're a guy you still want sex in a different maner guys llike you do exist

    • Not, really I'm not someone who "needs sex right away" I can wait till I find my real significant other. I don't have sex with random women.

    • I did not mention any random and right away, if you want now or layer you still want sex unless youțre responsable and comit to that relationship which by the way yo do not seem like a guy to get maried, those kind of guys are diferent and rare

    • I do plan on getting married, just not now.

  • Yea #5 is different lol and why corduroy its hot as hell but not that bad, and yea I see how #6 can be funny

  • You want to whiff her farts? You're not different from guys you're different from people in general. I've never heard of a person from either gender who wonder what a person's fart smell like let alone find it sexually appealing.

  • I'll go get a ladder to help you get off that horse

    • Mind your manners.

    • You can't deny that was funny :D

    • Well, it kind of was.

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  • Same, except for the corduroy thing.

    • And the muscular gay part too.

    • Obviously I don't want her to be too muscular, that's a turn off but if she's tall and is built like this, it's a turn off.

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  • You mean you don't have an Artificial holographic Japanese wife? I thought that was the norm for most men.

    • I thought you just fucked Piggly most of the time :D

  • 1 &2) yeah most guys are like that.
    3) a lot of guys are like that
    4) i do have a preference for pear shaped women. I dont know about others.
    5) forget 1-4, you are right, you're weird.
    6) different, but good.
    7) can't say i agree, but not uncommon
    8) not the norm but i understand. I know guys like that
    9) okay, i dont think we needed those details
    10) 😐, *facepalm

  • Interesting

  • 3... the amount of girls with average to below average faces that have boyfriends who are clearly out of their league... It seems a womans face is only 50% of their attractiveness.

  • Hot doesn't translate to long term relationship. I've seen a lot of hot girls, but whatever. Still single.

  • your normal

  • You are just another guy, you are no different lol

    • So most guys don't watch porn? Most guys get turned on by a woman's farts?

    • ... the fuck are you talking about?

    • Did you read the take or did you just skim through?

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  • How is that being different from other guys?

    • How often do you hear guys say they don't like porn? How often do you hear guys fantasize about a woman's farts?

    • He's proud and likes to show off better be careful with these types of guys