I'm not exactly sure how every other guy feels when they see someone they find attractive but I often think that a lot of guys have similar tastes with some unique differences. I think that I'm one of the rare men that views romance and sex in a very different way.
1.) What do I think when I see a beautiful woman
I'm assuming that when most guys look at a beautiful woman they will check her out and won't be able to stop thinking about her. When I see a beautiful woman in public, I'll subtly glance at her and admire her beauty/find her attractive. I'll then forget about her and go on with my day.
2.) I don't want to date every single attractive woman I see
In fact, there is only a few beautiful women that I see as potential dates. I might glance at a beautiful woman and think "wow, she's hot!" but that doesn't mean I see her as a potential girlfriend for various reasons. She might look hot but she's not my "type", she might look hot but I don't develop feelings for her. She might look hot but her personality is bad.
3.) She might have a hot body but not a pretty face
Stereotypically, I'm not sure how common it is but it's said that a lot of guys pay way more attention to how thick, curvy and how big her breasts and butt are but for me, that's not the first thing I check out in a woman, I check out her face. The woman can be scrawny, curveless but if she has a pretty face, I still find her attractive. She can be big breasted, have a large butt, be "thick" and curvy but if she has a below average face, I won't find her attractive. It's not asking for much since I think a lot of women have pretty faces.
4.) Body shape
I'm also very lenient when it comes to body shape, I find most women's body shapes to be ideal. All she needs is to be in decent physical shape. Most guys love the "hourglass" body shape, I think it's a nice body shape as well but to me that's only a bonus. She can have a "rectangular" body and still look sexy.
5.) What do I think when I'm sexually aroused
I'm certain that it's way different than most guys. Most guys probably think of what they can do in bed and they probably imagine the woman naked. I'm different, I think about what she would look like in Corduroy pants, I think about what her midriff looks like, how her navel looks like, I think about how dominant a woman can be in bed and the most different part is that I even wonder how the flatulence of certain women smells.
6.) Adult entertainment
Obviously most guys watch "Porn". Well, I don't. I've never been interested in "Porn" because I just don't like to see random naked people do sexual things to each other. I actually find porn to be hilarious, not erotic.
I might not watch porn but I do like looking at pictures or videos of women that are wearing some type of pants(ideally corduroy) and with bare midriffs. It's not the pictures/videos themselves that turn me on, it's what goes through my mind when I look at the pictures. Of course, pictures and videos are optional. My imagination itself is better than any picture or video I've seen so far.
7.) Clothing in women
Most guys love it when females wear dresses and skirts, not me. I don't like dresses and skirts, I actually like it when women wear pants, it doesn't have to be sexual but I think pants look good on everyone.
8.) Unusual attractions
I have felt some temporary attraction to much older women before. I remember seeing one woman that looked to be in her mid 40s. I saw her staring at me and giving me a flirtatious smile. I actually could picture myself in a relationship with her if I was her age or if she was younger. I even felt some sexual attraction to her because I fantasized of being submissive to her which was awkward
I also feel sexual attraction to much taller and "heavier" or muscular women. I think it's because I fantasize of allowing myself to be submissive to them for some reason. I don't have any romantic interest in them, only sexual but of course they are only temporary moments of attraction. Of course I only date women that are around the same age as me.
9.) Racial preferences
It's kind of taboo to say you have racial preferences but I'll say it anyways. I'm not a racist/bigot, I don't hate anyone because of their race or ethnicity, I don't consider any race or ethicity as inferior, I also don't consider any race or ethnicity as "Ugly".
I do have some racial preferences. It's not that I don't find women outside of those preferences attractive but I just don't see myself in a relationship with them because I can't connect with them emotionally. I don't have anything against them, I still have women of various races as friends but I can't picture myself in a relationship with them, there is still a chance that I can date outside of my preferences but it's very unlikely.
Personally I find myself to be attracted to women of Hispanic and Caucasian ancestry. Being someone of part Hispanic ancestry, I'm almost certain that my future girlfriend/wife will be Hispanic. I live in a area of the US where Hispanics are the majority, I grew up in this area. Asians, Blacks and whites are minorities in the area where I live. To answer your question, I'm part Japanese, part Mexican.
When it comes to Caucasian women, I tend to feel this strong emotional romantic attachment to them. It has to do with her looks. If I know the Caucasian woman for a while, I may start to develop a strong sexual attraction to her. It is unexplainable, that's best way I can explain it. When it comes to Hispanic women my feelings of attraction vary.
Most Hispanic women I find attractive are a result of simultaneous strong emotional romantic attachment and a strong sexual attraction, however there are some Hispanic women where I feel only a strong emotional romantic attachment or only a strong Sexual attraction.
When it comes to Black women, some Black women, I can only feel a strong sexual attraction to them but no emotional romantic attachment. For other black women, I might not feel attraction at all but I wil see them as adorable.
When it comes to Asian women, I feel only sexual attraction to some of them as well but no emotional romantic attachment. I can see other Asian women as adorable but I won't feel any attraction to them.
10.) Sexual orientation in women
I personally don't care what sexual orientation a woman is, I don't hate people for who what their sexual orientation is or which gender they want to identify as but I only date Straight women that were born as women. I have nothing against LGBT people, I can have LGBT people as friends but I only date straight women who are "XX".
Remember, I'm not trying to offend anyone, I'm only trying to be detailed to explain my views on romance and sex. Maybe people can relate to this, perhaps this will help other GAG users write similar takes.
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