Books for When You Need a Good Cry

A Thousand Splendid Suns

Books for When You Need a Good Cry

Summary: This tells of two women, Miriam and Laila. The story expands thirty years and through the eyes of Miriam and Laila, tell of life for women in what Afghanistan was like pre-9/11. Miriam is an illegitimate child who was married off at a young age. Laila recently lost the love of her life and becomes a second wife to the man who saved her, as well as a sister wife to Mariam. Miriam and Laila become good friends and they learn to survive from their friendship.

I cried four times while reading this book. There is parts that include domestic violence, strangulation, isolation, beatings, rape, a bullshit Justice system, and horrific abuse. But I couldn't stop reading. Khaled Hosseini has an amazing story telling gift. The characters are so dynamic they feel real so you feel real emotions. My heart broke a thousand times but I loved this book.


War Child

Books for When You Need a Good Cry

Summary: As the main character's Emannuel Jal's township in Bantiu devolved into a bullet-ridden war zone as a civil war tears his country apart. Jal, his family, and countless others traveled from one burned-out village to the next in search of food and shelter. Separated from his mother during a raid, Emmanuel Jal later heard she was dead. When soldiers from the SPLA came to take him to “school” in Ethiopia, he did not protest as he wanted to make his mom happy. What he encountered when he arrived was an area decimated by famine, riddled with death and disease, and devoid of hope. Jal was at an SPLA military training camp, where he was “educated” to become one of the 17,000 “Lost Boys of Sudan,” or child soldiers. He carried an AK-47 bigger than himself. Beaten, starved, and brutalized Emmanuel fought in battle in Ethiopia and Sudan. He saw most of his friends die and contemplated suicide himself. Amazingly, he survived. He has now gone from child soldier to refugee to a successful rapper.

My review: It's extremely graphic but I liked it. He doesn't hold back when describing anything traumatic and because of that, I took regular breaks. But I never quit reading it and always came back to it. And at the same time, it is a hopeful story. It ends on a positive note and Emmanuel did get help for the amount of trauma he went through.


Handmaid's Tale

Books for When You Need a Good Cry

Summary: In a futuristic, dystopian world called Gilead, a far right wing group has taken over. The government is now a monotheocracy and the Book of Genesis is taken quite literally. Thanks to this, women are heavily discriminated. The story is told through the eyes of Offred. Since Offred is fertile, she was kidnapped and made into a handmaid due to declining birth rates. As a handmaid, she is assigned to carry children for people of the elite class who have trouble conceiving. So basically she is raped on a daily basis.

Review: This book would be less terrifying if Missouri didn't make it legal to fire employees simply because they use birth control. Or the new bill from North Carolina that legalizes rape. Offred is a very ordinary woman dealing with very complex issues. Offred's tale is told with compassion and precision by Atwood. This book is a terrifying reminder for all of us. This book makes you think while also being a great story. This book is also a reminder why separation between church and the state was written in the Constitution by the Founding Fathers for a reason.

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  • The first one is lying around somewhere on a shelf (my wife read it), Handmaid's Tale I read years ago, I've not seen War Child.

    The book War Horse (although it's a book for children), set in WWI, was really upsetting to me, and the background I've just read about is very interesting, too:
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/War_Horse_(novel)

    • Both of my parents enjoyed War Child. The main character stilll has some innocence in him. He even talked about how he felt he was going to war just like the army man toy he played with, which is why he didn't hate his captors and thought they did nothing wrong. He realizes now what they did, but he doesn't hate them. War Horse for some reason sounds really familiar. I wonder if I've read it. Thanks for the background information on it. I'll read it right now.

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  • From those three I've only read A Thousand Splendid Suns and yes it made me cry, before reading it I didn't know difficult life is for women in some countries.

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  • Alberto Moravia, A Woman of Rome. Sophia Loren could act; the movie version was faithful to the book.

  • Handmaid's Tale is not for a good cry lol, I read that in 10th grade and I just thought it was strange. Good book, but I wouldn't read it for a cry.

    • I added it to because I just couldn't imagine living that life. I stopped watching the show because of that. Because I am somewhat fertile, I can't imagine being forced to get pregnant against my will. And when I protest it, they will probably say something like a baby is a gift or whatever.

  • I bet after reading these books I'm still going to see the same pattern.

    Religion brings out the worst in humanity.

    • Yet Pol Pot, Stalin and Mao were atheists, and Hitler was secular, so lack of religion doesn't really help - people find a reason for brutality and oppression with or without the concept of deity (-ies).

    • @zagor Good point. These books are examples of one particular type of bs, but for bickers sake... I'll expand my argument to include these political figures. Ideologies that create the "us vs. them" scenario. This includes the "religions of peace" (that was my sarcasm), Communism/Marxism, and Hitler's National Socialism. Us vs. them, Communism and Marxism using class and Hitler's us vs. them... we all know that one too well. Pretty easy to see how religion creates the "us vs. them" scenario, so I won't prance around there. Socialism and communism are alike in that both are systems of production for use based on public ownership of the means of production and centralized planning. So basically shit moves like appropriating the wealth of the wealthy (or killing them and taking their stuff), creates "capital flight" and replaces skilled labor with, equal opportunity. But it's just us vs. them... and so on.

    • I meant equal opportunity in the sense of America's policy of it (don't know if you're familiar with it)... it's forced equal outcome, and not really equal opportunity. So basically it's anti-meritocracy and forces employers to pass on better qualified labor in order to obtain quotas based on race and/or gender.

  • Cool MyTake! I've been wanting to read The Handmaid's Tale for some time. Love the movie and the show.

  • Hmm that's too sadistic

  • I cried so much reading A Thousand Splendid Suns! Such a beautiful yet sad novel.

  • a thousand splendid suns is one of the most beautiful books I have ever read. It was that good that I read it for 2 days. Like 300 or so pages

  • I ruined my copy of The Fault In Our Stars because I was crying at the end!

  • I dont like to read things that make me upset. I bet they are good books tough

  • A thousand splendid sons is an amazing book! I shead years reading it, it's touching 😊

  • Very good take. I appreciate that.

  • I think there is a movie out for the Handmaid's Tale, I may watch it