The Importance of Foreplay

PANDAmonium Yoda

I think we can all agree that sex is great (and for those virgins out there trust us it's great.) But I feel like foreplay is often left out or worse half assed. Because im here to tell you that would good forelay there will be no great sex.

Now of some of you may only want to fuck and a good fuck doesn't need foreplay, as it's only about the instant gratification. But a more intimate and sensual kind of sex requires foreplay.

Foreplay should never be a one sided thing, so ladies it should never be just about the man and getting them in the mood. And men it should never be just about the ladies. It's about the two of you getting each other in the mood and setting the tone for some great sex.

This is good foreplay

This is what happens without foreplay

Foreplay will bring satisfaction

Sex without foreplay

And lastly if you feel that your sex life even with foreplay is getting a little dry and boring try incorporating some toys into your foreplay.

Nipple clamps for the ladies

Blindfold and some roughness for the men

Dont be afraid of new things. As great foreplay will mean great sex.

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Most Helpful Girl

Anonymous
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I dig the foreplay thing, SOMETIMES, sometimes i just want my boyfriend to get it in and get on with it

Not in a bad way of course but in a "i want you bad" kind of way.

The other day he tried to do foreplay and i told him he can skip that shit. And he said "but isn't it fun?" and i told him itd be more fun with him inside me.

Lol
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- annie616pop
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  lol, I totally agree. Sometimes a girl needs a good fuck... and she needs it... NOW! It's a wise boyfriend who knows when to be a Pirate versus being a Prince.
- Birthday_Cakeman
  +1 y
  My girlfriend does this often, she usually hates the entire process of foreplay and just wants to get on with it.

Most Helpful Guy

Prof_Don Master
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You gotta preheat the oven, before you put in the meat!
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- Poppykate
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  My partner tells me this all the time! Except his saying is something like ' preheat the oven, and don't stuff the turkey in''. See guys your Home Eco teacher was trying to teach you more than one life lesson when you were learning to cook.

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emmabee11 Yoda
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Foreplay is completely important, it's definitely VERY important for me, if a guy doesn't try to understand a womans body and just tries to shove his twinkie in well.. . lets just say i won't be very happy and i won't be seeing him any more...
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annie616pop Xper 5
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*Standing Ovation*
Verily, the youth speaketh with the wisdom of Solomon!
Yeppers, Panda, I agree with ya. Also, don't forget the word 'play' in foreplay. A former boyfriend had quite a fetish for cosplay he saw from the girls in Japanese manga magazines, especially the school girls and the harem maids who were always flashing their panties while wearing short little dresses and uniform skirts. I initially thought it was weird but gave it a shot. It surprised me what a turn on what it was for us both. Now, I'm a believer!
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lumos Editor
+1 y
Nipple clams for the ladies? Fuck that.
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- PANDAmonium
  +1 y
  HA gotta love typos
- lumos
  +1 y
  :D I know, I had to. But still. Ouch.
youknowitt Xper 7
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What's for pandas?
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YourFutureEx Master
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I like your takes pandamonium, but this was lackluster.
This take failed to define "the IMPORTANCE of foreplay".
It was more like "the CONSEQUENCES of foreplay".
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- PANDAmonium
  +1 y
  Tbh this wasn't really a legit take
CommieDearest Guru
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10/10 great advice, especially the nipple clamps.
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Creole_Flavor Yoda
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There is nothing better than building anticipation and excitement before the act.
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matheus_mb Guru
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Absolutely true!
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JohnBhoy94 Xper 7
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My GF and I get up to plenty of foreplay, in fact it's probably the best part of sex :D
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Random_chick_2384 Yoda
+1 y
Foreplay seems hotter than sex.
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Chloe-Price Xper 6
+1 y
foreplay is for the weak lol
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- Findingmyway
  +1 y
  That makes no sense.. The inexperienced lack the understanding of the importance and relevance of foreplay..
- T-shirtsandkneehighs
  +1 y
  Are you a dumb 😂
- T-shirtsandkneehighs
  +1 y
  Minus the a
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- Chloe-Price
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  all those downvoters lol xD they're the weakest of the weak.
Nikriel89 Xper 5
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Foreplay is a good part of making sex better, which is true. But not everyone wants to waste 20-30 mins of rolling around and want to go straight for the kill.
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BelleGirl21 Guru
+1 y
I agree, foreplay is so overlooked. For me the sensual, personal kind is the best.
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JackKerouac77 Guru
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Life = foreplay
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DuckyD1nOnly Xper 2
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Gotta make here *** first lol. Devour that ***** for a little while lol
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Roycaryn Xper 7
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If you don't have foreplay, you don't have sex.
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R3d_Anonymous Yoda
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I'd love foreplay.
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Kaylatie Xper 3
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Bondage is kinda what i see at the end
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Dakota_The_Rota Xper 6
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I think I read somewhere that like only 20% of women can cum without foreplay, so unless a guy just doesn't care about his woman getting pleasure, he needs to go down on her or she will most probably be disappointed.
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- Imagirl___
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  100% agree with you
- hsshannah96
  +1 y
  I hate receiving oral. So better not!!! Hahaha. Anything but that
newmdallas Xper 3
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Nothing more erotic than two bodies connecting and foreplay is the key element.
Sex without foreplay is like a car without gas... ;-)
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