Dating at a younger age: Take Responsibility

[Anonymous]

When it comes to dating at a younger age, both geners are so idiotic in some aspects to the point where i cannot pick who's worse (I am not generalizing, or trying to generalize). You have the thirsty ass sahara guys who are giving out their number and claiming their "nice" to every girl within a 2 mile radius of them and then saying "Why do nice guys finish last". On the other hand you have the girl who is setting thirst trap after thirst trap taking bikini pictures in December and then saying "I don't know why guys are so thirsty".

Here's my opinion on it, stop making yourself appear as trash because you're either going to A - Be viewed as what you are, trash or B - Attact trash. A applies mainly to these dehydrated guys, claiming their so nice when in reality they're just thirsty for pussy and B applies mainly to girls that have their social media looking like their auditioning for Playboy and later claim that they can't find any good men. Why can't both sides just realize that they're both being idiotic and attempt to fix whatever is wrong with them? Guys when will you get it through your head that you're probably not that fucking nice? You're probably laughed at for your thirstyness by these girls you pursue? Ladies when will you get it through your head that you attract most of the assholes you complain about? Unfortunately in society, guys are the ones who are chasing for a girl they like 90% of the time ... it's almost never the other way around so when you present yourself like garbage you're going to get a garbage man not a Prince Charming.

The problem with this generation is that no one wants to take responsbility for their actions, they like to pin blame instead of fixing what's wrong with them. When you see that a lot of fucked up things are happening in your dating life, chances are it's YOUR fault not anyone elses.

[Anonymous]

I can see what you're saying. I am actually that nice in my opinion, but I'm the result of highly unusual circumstances. I agree with you that too may guys give themselves too much credit for their 'niceness' as though they volunteer all their time at a local kitten orphanage and never screw up or are inconsiderate. But for all the self proclaimed nice guys, I hardly ever see them go out of their way to help someone with anything that isn't completely trivial. They think that having good intentions is all it takes to be good. Wrong. As for the women, they theoretically have the easier problem to deal with in that they can start asking men out more often. The problem that arises is that society is sometimes not appreciative of women taking charge of their dating life. A woman who is too bold may get called a slut, or too easy, or classless. The problem here is that any one woman is discouraged from being bold, but that this problem cannot be solved unless woman start being bold. I believe that men in the end have the easier problem to solve, but that women will solve their problem first. Instead of assuming that we're all good, we need to work on ourselves to make ourselves good. Then we'll get the women, not because we're entitled to them, but because they'll want to be with us.

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I'm saying though

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[DarkHumorRUs]

I can't trust people with grammar and spelling this bad.

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THIS TAKE:
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[Unit1]

Quite a fact. That term "Responsibility" sadly does not mean anything for a lot of people :-/