10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

First things first, all guys want sex out of a relationship! But some relationships are just based on sex. Here are 10 signs that your guy is only with you to get some.

1. You Never Go On A Date

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

You never go out in public, but only meet up to hook up.


2. He Calls or Texts At Late Hours

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

All booty calls happen after midnight. If you hear from him at that hour, he only has one thing on his mind.


3. He Doesn't Want A Commitment

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

He's not ready for a relationship, but he stays ready to have sex.


4. The Relationship Got Physical Right Away

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

You guys stimulate each other sexually before stimulating each other's minds.


5. You've Never Met His Friends Or Family

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

You don't meet anybody he's associated with outside of the bedroom unless it's on accident.


6. You Barely Know Anything About Each Other

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex


There are no deep conversations, all communication is purely sexual or flirty.


7. No Sleepovers

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

He can't stay the night or you have to leave because he has to do something early in the morning.


8. He Only Compliments Your Appearance

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

He loves your rack, but isn't a fan of your personality or opinion on current events.


9. He's Busy When You Want To Do Something Other Then Sex

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

He doesn't care how your day went, but he cares if you're busy later. He can't meet you for dinner, but he can meet you for dessert.


10. All You Do Is Have Sex

10 Signs He Only Wants You For Sex

When he comes over, you guys make a beeline for the bedroom. If you haven't at least spent an hour together not having sex or thinking about sex, he ONLY wants you for sex!


If you're cool with the arrangement, then by all means stay "busy," but if you're looking for something serious; run for the hills! Have you experienced any other signs that he just wants sex?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Thanks Mr. Obvious I learned absolutely nothing from this. Just the things I already know..

Most Helpful Girl

  • I mean I guess it's a good thing I only want him for sex, then.

    • I don't know what this is called exactly I tink "revers role play" Haha...😃 I understood what you said

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  • This all seems like common sense to girls... we were all naive once thinking that all these signs may lead to something more, but in the end we just get our hearts broken...

  • I thought this was all obvious and didn't need to be stated... lol. I liked the graph though.

  • Women have known this since the beginning of time.. It's not exactly rocket science.. However a refresher course never goes amiss!

  • It's happened to me plenty. When we really like guys we tend to ignore warning signs like this and pretend that there's something more there.

    • So sad and the honest truth as we know it

    • Yep. There's been a couple of good signs like sleepovers and knowing the friends, but it was just circumstantial. Think he just likes sleeping in the same bed with people.

  • I don't get HOW someone can fall into this trap and think 'Oh yeah, he cares...'.
    For God's sake!
    Not a brain teaser > plain as day.

  • The thing is, they "experiment" by doing sex with them in hope that they can make their guy to fall in love but eventually, end up calling "every guy is same".

  • Uhhhhhh, duh.

  • Good take!

  • That's kind of sad...

  • While I guess most of it makes sense if your talking exclusively about a guy just wanting sex and nothing else, the part about getting physical right away is just bullshit. It is sad that women think this and it has screwed up many relationships with women waiting and waiting for no reason. At our core men want sex. Plain and simple. But for most of us that is not ALL we want. We want a relationship more then anything so we can have meaningful sex. Guys can separate sex and relationship. Women are too emotional about sex and they go hand in hand for women. Sex is not about emotions for men, it is about sex. So if you put out on the first date or the 20th date, it is exactly the same (for any guy worth having). The guys that it makes a difference for are the assholes that only want sex or the religious freaks, and you don't want to get mixed up with them. In todays world you have Texting and cell phones and Skype and facetime and email...24/7/365. When I was young it would take me 5 - 10 dates (depending on how quickly we setup the date) just to get the amount of information that I usually have by the time I meet someone for the first date (based on online dating). Women don't take that into consideration.
    Consider the fact that sex is considered "on the table" on the 3rd date and after. I already have more then 3 dates worth of information by the first date, so does she. Of the 8 women I have dated in the last year I had sex with 5. 3 were 3rd date, 1 was 4th and 1 was in place of the 1st date. But it took us 5 days to find a day we could meet. we texted/talked over 3 hrs a night for those 5 nights. she asked me very in depth info on my marriage, sex in marriage, and much more (she brought it up, not me). so we were on like date 15 by date 1 time. We went out about a month. she lived too far away to work.
    My secret is I never bring up sex until she does (does not include kissing). they always bring it up by the 2nd date or after. boom...

  • This should be common sense but thank you so much for the airheads that just don't use their brains.

  • Agree to the list, most boys have nothing else but getting physical on their agenda - as if degrading women is their pass time

    • This actually is not true. And its because of mentality like this that it is near impossible to find a woman or spend time with one because they assume thats all you are after when in fact some of us just want someone to go to a movie with, laydown and cuddle / talk to, or just be able to call when we feel like talking to someone.

    • I am not too familiar with this website, just discovered reply option - //in fact some of us just want someone to go to a movie with, laydown and cuddle / talk to, or just be able to call when we feel like talking to someone. // Ah, exactly why women don't like getting physical on first meets. Laying down, cuddling up - I can understand where this is going? Calling up? With boys this happens dead in the night, at odd times

    • Not true, perhaps most the boys you have tried to date are like that. Also, when did having sex become degrading to women?

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  • true take,,,, that's why people should be very careful

  • 12-17 yo girls should read this. It's a valuable guide that is a must read.

  • And what am I suppose to do with this?

  • That is so unreal!!! I would never want just sex out of a girl! I would want her heart, her personality, her hugs and kisses, her faith in Jesus, and a lifetime commitment to spend the rest of our lives together!!!

    • I agree 100% man! You read my mind.

    • Thanks! I learned from my favorite weapon and the Big Man!

  • True true
    be careful who u date

  • Lolol obviousness but many still get fooled

  • When girls expecting for guys money (like men have to pay in dates) then guys expets sex only that is why my girlfriend always pay equally we share everything but those people who don't pay are only thinking for sex so no worry that is there will.

  • This is common sense, people are just too blinded to see the warning signs. :(

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