I keep seeing so many posts about guys in their 20s who are inexperienced and unhappy about it. Now, I get what you're saying. You feel like you're missing out on something that you're "supposed" to have already done by your age. You're also clearly worried about so many things, including the possibility that women will not want to sleep with you and/or be in a relationship with you because you are a virgin.
Well I'm writing this to tell you to STOP WORRYING.
I know it's easier said than done, but guess what? There are plenty of women who actually find your lack of experience to be a HUGE turn on! I know I (and a few friends of mine) would be so excited if I met a guy I was into and found out he was a virgin. Yes, some women do want men who are experienced so they "know what to do" in the bedroom. But honestly, most of those experienced guys are too overconfident in bed and actually don't know what they're doing at all. Look at it from the female's perspective: What sounds better, being with a guy whose only concern is himself/a guy who thinks he knows what he's doing because so many girls have faked it with him before, or being with a guy who tells you he's a virgin so you can show him exactly what you want, and he's willing to learn how to please you? Seems like an easy choice to me.
Not only is it fun to play teacher and to get a guy who does exactly what you like in bed, but its also a huge turn on to know that you're the first girl to ever touch him and make him feel all the amazing things (physical and emotional) that come with sex. Knowing that no one else has ever done that with him... I can't speak for anyone else, but I know that I would kill for that. Unfortunately, men in their 20s tend to keep their virginity a secret... so women who feel the same way I do will never get to experience that.
My point is, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not having much (or any) experience in your 20s. There are enough things in life that we all have to worry about, so please don't make virginity one of them. It will happen soon enough.
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