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How do you girls feel when you know that a guy masturbates to you? (Read my details)?

So interesting day at school, I was in my 4th hour and writing a note to my friend (we can't have our phones out at all in history). Anyway she was telling me that some girl had something to tell me. Don't really know this girl but I wrote her a note anyway. If any of you remember that ab pic that was up, well my friend was looking at it when the girl saw it on my friend's phone. She asked my friend to send it to her and she did. The girl eventually told me that she got off to my pic the night before. Like, I'm not even mad at that. It was actually kind of hot. So how do girls feel when this happens to them?
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  • Funny I see this tonight, several hours ago my boyfriend texted me asking me to send him some pics because he was having trouble getting off. I was more than happy to help haha it's really gratifying knowing I can help the person I love feel good just from some erotic pictures of me. Someone who isn't my boyfriend though. . . well first of all I don't put up suggestive pictures of myself in places accessible to the general public anyway so it's unlikely someone other than my boyfriend would try getting off to a regular old picture of me like from Facebook or something. But if they did I don't know I'd feel kind of uncomfortable. Like no, my body is not for your pleasure, it's strictly for my boyfriend's, that's it. . . >.>

    • Very well put. Nice. Honestly, if that's how you feel, I respect that. I think the boyfriend, girlfriend relationship totally validates the naughty photos being sent for the sole purpose of getting the other off. I mean, I also totally get where you're coming from with your perspective about a stranger using your photo to get off and from what I'm gathering it's much different for guys than for girls. Like, even though she was a stranger, I was in "Glad I could help." mode. Haha You're definitely protecting yourself from that by keeping suggestive photos off of social sites. Has anyone besides your bf ever told you before?

    • Yeah, I love being able to pleasure him, but that is only because he has my permission to use those images in that way haha and I know he loves me for more than my body. And no, no one has ever said they used a picture of me to get off. . . aside from my boyfriend obviously. I kind of hang out with a very religious crowd though so stuff like that really doesn't happen among my friends.

    • Not that they say anyway. Hehe See? That's another thing too, like I'm religious, I love God but I'm sexual too. Not in like sex-sex 'cause I'm waiting until marriage but I do think about it and when I do then I... ...well I think you can figure it out. I wish us religious people didn't have the stigma of being "prudes". Haha Do you and your bf trading pics work for when you're in the mood too?

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  • If it came from someone I didn't know, it would shock me and probably make me giggle with embarrassment and move on.

    If it came from someone I'm dating, talking to, in a relationship with, crushing on, etc... THEN I'd be really happy and turned on to hear that he thinks of me while masturbating. I usually think about my crush (etc) while playing too, so it's pretty sexy knowing we're thinking of each other.

    • See? This was my thought process too. Some random, no biggie because you can't control what they do in their private time even if you did get grossed out by it. (Which you and I do not). 'Nd if it's a crush etc, then even better 'cause chances are you're thinking about them too. Have you ever had anyone tell you so?

    • Yeah, usually boyfriends.

    • So no biggie then, right? Hehe

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  • I think I would be really creeped out and turned off if a guy told me that but if he never told me I think it wouldn't bother me even if I knew, I just think that ould be disrespectful and awkward if a guy told me that

    • So what if he never had any intention of telling you but you somehow caught him getting off to one of your pics...then what would you do?

    • Id be thinking this is awkward and id hope he never seen me and never tell him I did

    • Hahah But if you knew that he was getting off to you. You'd be cool?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd imagine that most women would LOVE it if it was their BF/love interest. If it was a random then they might get kind of weirded out.

    I know that's how I'd react...

    • If it was some random girl, you'd be weirded out?

    • No I don't think I'd be weirded out. But I wouldn't really want to know about it either.

    • You are interesting. Haha

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  • I'd rather the girl let me masturbate on her. That would be hot

    • This is true. It usually seems as though it starts off as self masturbate and then turns into on pleasing the other and vice versa

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  • Depends on the guy. If I'm interested I'll be all for it. If I'm not I'd feel creeped out and awkward.

    • Thenk you SO much for saying "interested or not in" as opposed to "hot or ugly". I like that so much better and because of that, I can totally agree with that. You are awesome. (:

    • You're welcome haha. And thank you (: But I have a boyfriend and when other guys tell me they masturbate to me I'm like stfu haha.

    • Well yeah, of course when you have a bf, I totally understand your reasoning for that. :P That's just respect but if you're single then...fair game? Haha

  • I feel like a sexual object, like the guy only sees me as such and not the intelligent person I am. I feel almost used.

    Yeah, I usually get told after the guy has done it, even when I tell them not to.

    • I can understand that. I mean when girls grab my butt sometimes I feel the same way but who knows what's running through their minds when they are jerking off. I mean Honestly, when I do it, I usually have someone in mind and I'm thinking about all Of the aspects of her. Conversation is involved, laughing as well as the physical aspect. I don't think all men automatically degrade a woman just because they are attracted to them sexually. How do you usually handle it when someone tells you what they've done?

    • I just tell them how disappointed I am in them and how ashamed they should be.

    • Really? Well that is...wow, yeah. That would make me feel bad. I guess keep what's private, private is your philosophy; huh?

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  • I'd feel awkward...

    • Why is that?

    • I'd feel violated in a way...but I'm pretty sure no guy has ever done that to me...I recon they'd just get off to p*rn or something like that

    • Hehe I think you'd be surprised. Haha

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  • I would feel pretty awkward.

    • Why might that be?

    • Because I prefer not knowing things like that.

    • Fair enough, no one's told you before huh?

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  • Flattered.

    If he is not my boyfriend, I'd feel annoyed and slightly disturbed. I don't care if I find him attractive or not. If the guy is not in a relationship with me, I don't want to know what he does with his genitalia, when and why. Ever. At all. Eww.

    • This applies only presuming the guy told me himself. If I was told by a third party I'd brush it off as nonsense and forget about it.

    • That's a good point that second one that you brought up. Both are good observations honestly. I guess him telling you would lack decorum and that's IF he didn't know you. I assume that most guys who do know you, know that you don't appreciate knowing that. I take it that your boyfriend has told you then. Hehe

    • I've dated a couple of time, but since I've never been sexually intimate with a guy, they didn't push the conversation too far into the area of their own private sexuality. So no.

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  • It all depends on the guy for me. If I like him, it's HOT. If I don't, ewww, lol.

    • Haha That's fair. Now if you like the guy then do you give him more reason to continue thinking about you when doing so or, you figure he'll find out a way on his own? Haha

    • Well if he shows more interest I wouldn't mind indulging him, it's fun if we turn each other on. I love it.

    • So basically you have to see it going somewhere other than just physical?

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  • I would have to ask her if she wants to try it with the real me there. Not just a picture.

    ;-p

    • Hahaha That is definitely an option there.

  • Id be weirded out I guess, but my boyfriend said he would masturbate while thinking about me. Not sure if he's done it yet, but I felt flattered when he told me.

    • If he's told you he would and he's your bf, then chances are he has, so you may as well just consider that done. Haha So basically if it's someone you like or are with then yes?

    • Yup! If the guy im interested in or im with told me that, that means he not only finds me attractive, but I meet his standards and know how to raid the magic stick.

    • Raise*

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  • I would think it was hot too

    • Haha! You know what? Like I wasn't even mad. I'm not really attracted to her, she's not unattractive or anything but...I still found it super sexy and I was much obliged to help her. :P

  • I've had two people here on GAG message me and told me they have masterbated to my picture. I really didn't need to hear that. But it doesn't bother me they they do or did.

    • That is...wow. Haha I get where you are coming from. As long as those guys aren't harassing you for pics, I guess that's okay. (:

    • That blanket just looks so soft and sexy, why have I not done this yet?

    • Ha ha, it is soft too! That's at our camp at the lake.

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  • WONDER WOMAAAAAAN!

    • This a good thing? Haha

    • Yeah it is. They feel powerful sometimes it's what I meant

    • Oh, haha Okay. I see. Has it happened to you?

  • I'd be grossed out

    • Hehe Why is this?

    • I'm not a very sexual person (I'm waiting til marriage) so a guy using my picture sexually is really gross to me. I'd probably never talk to the guy again.

    • I'm waiting until I'm married too but I don't think that means that you can't be sexual. Well let me say, that doesn't mean I can't be sexual. You have to do you. I never want to be grossed out by anything sexual, you know?

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  • i would rather not even know.

    • Why is that?

    • because if the guy is ugly or old it's disgusting and if he's good looking it's uncomfortable. It's bad in any case. keep that info to yourselves.

    • I guess that's fair. Haha I take it that no one has ever told you huh?

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  • I would be uncomfortable

    • Go on. (:

    • Im going from your description and that would be just creepy. I don't know you, so why do you have my picture, damn stalker

    • Haha My friend gave it to her. She knows that I'm not really ashamed of my body. What if it was one of your friends?

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  • I've had my godfather's roommate tell me he was jacking off to my Facebook picture over chat.

    Then he said I led him down the "path of temptation" by having that photo up.
    As if there weren't plenty of other Facebook pages to stalk...

    • You're kidding. What was the photo of? It couldn't have been that bad.

    • I was in a V-neck. Apparently my cleavage was the size of the Grand Canyon or something...

    • Yeah...that's kind of ridiculous. I think that guy was just really horny and came across your pic. Besides, he knew/knows you so that always adds to it.

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  • It's hot if I like him, creepy if I don't.

    • Hmm...I think that's fair enough. Haha Do you then encourage them or no?

    • I'm not going to break out the cheer poom-pooms, but I wouldn't be upset to find out.

    • XD haha I meant would you give him more material or no?

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  • Pretty flattered if I liked the guy.

    • Nice. Has that ever happened to you before?

  • Well I suppose it depends of who done that ^^
    But I think I could take it as a compliment :)

    • Haha No one's ever told you before?

    • Well few friends of mines done that thinking of me

    • I had a feeling. What do you do when they tell you?

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  • hmm... I would be like.. really? interesting.. :P but I wouldn't wanna know lol

    • korean girls!

    • Haha So the "interesting" would just be so as to not make things awkward?

    • I would think that is interesting the fact that my appearance can make a guy to do that.. but not interesting that he actually use my photo...haha don't wanna know about it don't have to know about it.

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  • I would be INCREDIBLY uncomfortable unless it was my bf and I highly doubt he would do something like that out of respect for me

    • Respectively I ask this but...you think that's disrespectful?

    • Since he's my bf not really, but I think he would feel that way and I appreciate that he is like that, its sweet ^_^

    • I s'pose that's why you two work as well as you do. Haha

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