Note that (sex + surprise + boundary-pushing) almost always equals (negative), even when sex, surprise, and boundary-pushing are positives in themselves. For example, you could be willing to have your boundaries pushed on anal play but if your partner, out of nowhere, pushed a finger into your butt, you would probably freak out, you know?
Likewise with men and cum play. Do not surprise him with it. You should tell him how much the thought turns you on, perhaps offer something in exchange, and not raise the subject again. In all likelihood, he will shoot the idea down because it is human nature to distance themselves from things they consider alien. Do not get too discouraged by this. Once you have put the idea in his mind, he will probably chew it over for a long time, maybe taste his own cum in private, and maybe warm up to the idea. You never know, a few months from now he may surprise you with a deep kiss while you have his cum in your mouth, like a good boy should ;)
This is not unlike anal play: women tend to shoot the idea down, play with their butts in the shower, and maybe warm up to the idea. Before you know it, they are giving up the butt like a good girl should ;)
(Did you notice how I talked about anal play, then making an exchange, and then anal play again? That was slick, wasn't it? lol)
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For me it would be something I would have to build up to. I don't mind kissing after a blowjob, I have even tasted my own cum on occasion.
I also think it depends on the guy, some guys get turned on by it, others find it nasty.
If it would turn my woman on by doing I would be open for trying it.
o god no i don't like that >_> if he likes that kinda stuff i'd think he a freak lol
but i do think its sweet when a guy is willing to kiss u after a bj, and even after u swallow. its gross but he loves u enough to do it and that's flattering. let him be the one to choose to kiss u, whether with cum in your mouth or not
It honestly varies by each person. That's your thing, maybe it's not necessarily his (For instance, I personally don't give a crap, although it depends on my mood). That's pretty much my feel on this topic. Oh, and that behavior is perfectly acceptable, as long as your other half is comfortable with doing that.
He said he would but when i tried he pulled away and made me swallow before he kissed me.
Well, sit down and ask him how he honestly feels about it. Maybe he is just doing that so you stay in the mood or he is simply not ready yet.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Personally It's unacceptable for me to kiss her where there is cum in her mouth. That tastes pretty gross. However, I would kiss her after I give her.
Thats pretty stupid. Whats different between them? You pig.
Yes, ask people for their opinion and criticize.
Well, you could try it. It is called a snowball.
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Sorry that is a No Way In HEll for me. I am not gay, I am not a woman..those are the 2 people that this would be considered Normal to want that in their mouth. If women naturally shot semen out of their pussy, then I would be lapping it up and swallowing it with the best of them...but they don't..
I certainly hope you let him know before hand. I would just flat out walk out of the house if someone "surprised" me with that.
There is no answer to whether it's acceptable or not. If you both agree to it, then it's acceptable. Personally I would feel very grossed out kissing a girl with cum in her mouth. I just don't want that in my mouth. You can ask him if he would be okay with doing that, but you can't force him to. In other words, you have to respect his feelings. If he's not comfortable with something, don't do it. Same if you're not comfortable with something.
I would definitely not kiss my girlfriend if she had my cum in her mouth, especially when she prefers to French kiss - fuck that.
I have not done that exactly, but I would if it really turned her on, sure.
I just can't see why it's that big of a deal. Some guys will think it's "gay", but that's totally nonsensical and based on their own insecurities.
heck no. in fact i want her brushing her teeth before i kiss her after doing that in her mouth lol
I think thats very disrespectful. If you were my boyfriend and you had that attitude i would just stop giving blowjobs... Fair enough if you don't want the mouthful of it but after she swallows it should be fine to kiss.
how is it disrespecful to not want to taste my stuff?
Because what makes you think us girls would want to?
That's disgusting. I wouldn't even want to kiss her after just a bj, let alone with the cum still in her mouth
That is nasty, I would not want my girl tasting her own fluids.. NO NO NO
Why?
Because it came out of my body, it is like eating some other dudes sperm. my sperm is for a woman. soo nasty
Ok fair enough... What if you were having sex with a girl then wanted a blowjob? Her juices are on you and your about to put it in her mouth... Is that different?
I've done it. I think it's extremely hot.
Nice
It would take a lot of convincing before I would even think about it.
It would turn me on immensely if you kissed me with my cum still in your mouth, something so hot and kinky about it
It completely depends on the guy. For me, kissing after she swallows is OK, but not before. No way.
Make sure you use church tongue.
Some are up for it others aren't.
no that wouldn't really do anything for me , the bj be hot but kissing after words in such a way doesn't do anything for me
Why not? And if it wouldn't do anything for you but make her happy would you do it for her?
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