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Why do guys hold a girls head during a bj.?

Okay so this has happened to me on different occasions; when it first happened I thought it was just my boyfriend and not all the other guys did it. But I've had other boyfriends and they also seem to do the same thing. When they're really into it they tend to grab my head or pull my hair during a bj. I for one see that as a major turn off. So question for the ladies am I weird for seeing it as a turn off. And guys why do you tug on a girls hair or grab her head during a bj? Does it turn you guys on more that way or what?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is a turn on. especially if she is on her knees in front of me. Put my hands on both sides of her head and kind of fuck her face. or if we are laying in the bed I can kinda weave my hand through her hair and really grab on. something about guiding her over my cock while she sucks it. It is hard to describe but, ohhh yea baby, it is a turn on..

  • As far as holding your head, our arms are not long enough to reach anywhere else, and often want to touch you while you are doing it. As far as hair pulling I would put that in the same category as women scratching a man's back. They just get over excited or think their partner will assume it means they did a good job pleasing them.

    • So it's a form of approval? Lol

    • Good answer

Most Helpful Girl

  • I've only been with two guys and both of them said they grabbed my hair just so they could watch.

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  • Depends on the situation. He could be really turned on, or trying to hold your hair back and watch. I love looking in a woman's eyes when she does it.

  • For dominance.

  • You should see it as a bit of a turn-off, it's a bit degrading.

    Personally, I run my fingers through her hair and caress her scalp.

    • I'm glad you agree with me!!

    • ;-)..

  • They are just really into it. And if you don't like it speak up about it

  • I'M THE BOSS NOW SUCK ME GREG.

  • ummm... they don't want u to let go and want u to go in "deeper"
    and ur head is sexy

  • Do you grab a guys head when its reversed same difference

    • Nope. Or else I wouldn't be complaining about it lol

    • Maybe you should try it next time

  • We just love the way she worships our penis. We feel like king and her as a sex slave who was born on this planet only to show me Paradise by placing her toungue on my organ and rolling all over my dick with her juicy mouth! It's like huhhhhH! BOW DOWN to ME ! I want every cum of mine on your toungue baybey and you are mine!

    • She’s more like the King because with one bite your precious duck is gone.

  • yes its a big turn on for the guy , your BF probably doesn't mean to pull your hair when he does it he's just excited

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