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How can i get people to stop looking at my boobs?

It gets annoying when im in a conversation with someone and they just stare at my boobs. They almost never look at me and it gets fustrating. One of my friends even squeezed them while we were talking o.o (i hardly talked to him after that). I cover them up almost all the time but nothing ever works. I blame it on genetics because im pretty skinny and im a 32DD-DDD (depending on the brand) and my mom as had the same problem when she was my age. All in all does anyone have any suggestions.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I know quite a few friends with this problem.
    Nothing really works but some mitigating thoughts to add to those of your mom's.

    a sports bra (bras if one won't do) that holds them down - squeezes them flat

    multi layered dressing in winter

    one piece swim suits NOT WHITE

    Black, dark Navy, etc. are your new fav colors to wear

    In unsecured places, grease down your hair = unattractive as possible to avoid being sexually approached

    RED lipstick diversion, as well as hoop earrings, etc.

    Padding on abs = less dramatic curves

    Ask Dolly https://www.dollyparton.com/

    Nigh necklines

    • and most important - join clubs and teams that treat you as an equal, so you'll spend less time with jerks

  • Well first things first do you show a lot of cleavage? If you do, maybe cover them up. If not, then maybe they are just meant to be stared at. Though at the same point I have to ask what kind of people do you hang out with. Even when a girl is showing lots of cleavage I still look at her face because thats just respectful.
    Though based on your dimensions I have to think that people can't help it. But again sometimes people really need to exercise some common sense and stop staring.
    Though now I am curious how this plays out in real life.

    • Yea i cover them almost all the time

    • like with big sweaters? That really doesn't help. I mean if hey are that big, then you are kind of stuck really. Calling people out on staring at them, or saying things like yes they are real. But dont worry about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • There's very little you can do. I have 32DDD boobs and know it's not really possible to hide them unless you're wearing a thick baggy sweater which makes you look frumpy lol.

    A lot of people assume that having boobs means you like attention or something which is silly. You need to set boundaries.

    I'd suggest just being brutal when people are clearly staring. A "my face is up here" should do the trick. If someone thinks it okay to grab your boob, then make it clear it's not.

    • Frumpy, hahaha

    • What is funny about the word frumpy? lol

    • Its just... amusing lol

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  • People will look no matter what. Im in shape and my breasts are bigger than yours. And I wear large t shirts but people look at my breasts. If you don't want people to look then don't go out lol

    • When I was 16 I was your breast size and I went to VS, but, as, i, got, bigger breast VS told me no. so I went to lane bryant. now I get my, bras, custom made online

  • other than covering them up or having a reduction surgery there is nothing you can do. Don't worry about and embrace your breasts.

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  • Except surgery there isn't anything you can do about the staring. Well maybe tell them "My eyes are up here."

    Now if someone just grabs them. Just grab hills balls. HARD and twist.

  • Don't be ashamed of them or embarassed by them. If guys are staring, call them out on it. The traditional "Oy! My eyes are up here, asshole" works wonders.

    • There is a shirt that says that.

  • I hope you kicked that guy in the nuts!

  • It's like complaining that the sun is shining. It's gonna happen.

  • Tell your boobs to stop looking at us. xD

  • Wear burka like muslims.

  • why are you complaining about this sort of thing?

  • Stop showing cleavage.

    • I don't -.- i said it in the explanation

  • Oh i got a suggestion, keep working on your face make it more beautiful.
    Wear a stripes (Check the link), stripes are good for hiding something.
    www.ceefg.com/.../...uler-striped-t-shirt_44_1.jpg
    What else?

    Hmmm.. make me your boyfriend, if someone stare at your boobs then i'll smack their faces.:)
    Just kidding...haha

  • Stop wearing low cut t shirts and showing them off.

    • Like i said in the explanation i cover them.

    • You're hanging out with the wrong people respectful people won't grab your boobs or stare at them while talking.

  • are you married? if not marry the guy who doesn't look at your boobs

    • I will not look at boobs at all. Its a present neither a utility. now she should marry me

  • So instead of embracing what god gave you. You decide to complain about it? Just embrace it and flaunt it stop being negative about something so normal and in my opinion attractive.

    • I like my boobs but i also like when people look at my eyes when im talking

    • This is why you were shades fellas

    • Lol haha

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  • You have the problem that thousands of girls pay plastic surgeons thousands of dollars to have.
    I'm not a boob guy so if it makes you feel better I would probably just ignore you if we met somewhere

  • unfortunately there isn't anything you can do apart from wear really baggy clothes. it's a fact of nature that men get distracted by big boobs, the best thing you can do is learn to take it as a compliment and hopefully it won't bother you anymore.

  • Wear a Parka.

  • Genetics are also the cause for your other problem. There's just nothing you can do. As long as you wear something that even just allows to guess their shape, they're interesting.
    Since you're probably, as I myself, not a fan of burkas, I suggest to deal with it somehow.

  • ask them to pay 100$ whenever you caught them staring, videotape whole thing if you need solid evidence

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