I'm not shy about giving oral at all. Still, I know many are. Here are the most common reasons why:
- They don't really know what to do, and don't want to look like a fool.
- They are afraid of vaginas.
- They don't like the smell/taste, and aren't willing to suck it up.
- They're just selfish in general, and this is only a symptom of that.
- You don't maintain yours the way he likes (hair, bathing, etc.)
The obvious thing to do is talk to him about it, and see which of these applies, and then see if you can work out a mutually beneficial solution. If not, you either accept him the way he is or you break up with him and find someone you are more compatible with.
just the guys you are with. plenty of guys enjoy it. but I think it does come down to a general dislike for it OR not really interested in non-mutual sexual pleasure...by which I mean a person who enjoys giving oral ultimately feels pleasure by pleasuring the other person. so if a person is not into oral they may not be into giving pleasure if they aren't getting an immediate reward (like sex where both people are experiencing pleasure simultaneously)
I must entirely agree. It is the man's preference or tendency. to do so? I don't know. I've been blessed enough to have had my fair share of pussy eating men (though I will never fully profit from it, if you know what I mean, I enjoy it!) but... then there are those who could care less to do so. Either way, I would just think you really would have to ask for it when it came down to it. But really, as long as I'm getting something I will make it.
it is a preference thing. and for those who are just opposed to the idea of going down on a girl and dislike or reservation would be a result of sort of being more selfish lovers what do you mean you'll never "fully profit from it"?
It's weird, so few guys like doing it! If you find one that does, hang on to him!!
Oral sex is great fun, tastes great, feels great, and you get to make a girl moan like that... what's not to love?
I know some guys don't like ANY pubic hair at all and it puts them off but if I have to deal with yours, you can deal with mine!!
Give and thou shalt receive is my policy with guys.
I've never been with a guy that didn't love giving oral...
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That doesn't even make sense.
It's the same for me. I don't know who these men are you're dating.
Any man that doesn't enjoy diving between a girls legs and wearing her like a feed bag might secretly be gay.
Those guys are missing out!
Eating vagina (when clean) is awesome. :)
I would love to go down on a hot girl
Its usually the main part of the foreplay for me
i love to give and receive.
I quite enjoy it myself
It is for me!
Seriously? I never heard men thinking that giving oral is a chore. That's just messed up. I believe some women consider giving oral as a chore, but not guys.
HA I have so much to complain about. I love the "chore", yet some don't want to receive. I must be a biter.
A chore is only a "chore" when you're not enjoying it.
I like giving it better than receiving actually.
What is up with all these closet homosexuals who refuse to eat pussy and keep begging for anal?
werd' hit the nail on the head lol.
This is amazing.
haha ya guys just want to receive...i usually make my bf go down on me first if he wants head :)
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