I am wondering if I am too big?

[Anonymous]

I'm sure this question has been asked 1,000 times, but I was hoping for some honest advice from girls. I recently had sex with a new girlfriend (my third girlfriend), and she complained about being a little sore afterwards. She was plenty wet, so I know that wasn't the problem. According to her, my penis is a lot thicker than her previous boyfriend (I am her second), and that I was stretching her out quite a bit more than she was used to. She also felt very tight to me. I have been told that I was bigger than average before, but neither of my previous girlfriends have complained of pain. I've never been hung up on my size, but when we measured the circumference (girth) of my penis, it was a little over 6.5 inches around. I am wondering if I am just too big (thick) for a girl, or if she will eventually get used to me? I really like this girl, and I definitely don't want to hurt her when we have sex. Thanks in advance!

[Anonymous]

There has been a couple times where a partner of mine has been too big or just painful during sex because of their size. I'm pretty tight and naturally a day or so after sex the vagina will not continue to stretch out it will actually get tighter due to swelling in the vagina. This is natural in females. She will not get "used" to your size or start to stretch out to become comfortable with your size. It will probably always be painful for her. You might just need to find a girl who isn't so tight. A girl should feel 100% pleasure during sex. Pain is an immediate turn off however you can try having her concentrate on relaxing more it might help!

[Asker]

Thank you for your thoughts. I'd really rather not have to find another girlfriend, as I care about her, but I appreciate your help. :)

[Sex_Panther]

That's a friction related occurrence. The swelling / agitation I mean. While an aerosol can is very large around (about the size of his supposed penis) such things can be accommodated to but not if there's a friction related problem as it causes swelling, tenderness, and obviously more friction. It is a signal of a lack of lubrication, even if the girl is "totally wet", particularly because the body can't handle it and therefore swells anyway since lubrication is not necessarily evenly spread throughout the entire of the canal. Blahblahblah knowledgeknowledgeknowledge

[revolustion]

I don't think I've ever heard of someone complaining but i can understand that she would.
I agree with the answer below mine because different positions can give off different feelings. So try to switch up the regular routine (if you haven't already) and see what happens
if that doesn't work then maybe it is her. Or maybe her boyfriend was a bit of a limp haha

[Asker]

We have only tried twice so far, and as such, haven't had a lot of opportunities to experiment with different positions yet. That will definitely be the next thing we try, though, thanks!

[rawrnessism]

She'll get used to it. Dont give up lol Just communicate with her what feels good or better etc. Every guy is different. I know a girl whos first was really small and she felt like a virgin again with her 2nd bf cause he was much larger.

[Asker]

Thanks for the help, I appreciate it!

[AustinMan]

Practice makes perfect. I strongly suspect that the little soreness won't stop her from taking on your monster again. Just do your thing and don't worry if there's minor pain. If she's enjoying the filled up feeling as much as most gals I know, you're golden.

[Sex_Panther]

Sounds like friction-based pain. Her body will get used to you.

[Anonymous]

Can anyone tell I got cum on my lip

[Anonymous]

Give her time to adjust if u are only her second and different positions should help her

[Anonymous]

Certain positions may be more comfortable for her...so perhaps try a few different ones out and see if she finds any hurt less.