DO you feel threatened by the Fleshlight toys for men?

Anonymous1971 Xper 4

In 1998 the Fleshlight the first great simulation of a Vagina was first put on the market after more than 1000 years of the dildo. Before the Fleshlight there was a ton of badly made attempts at vaginal simulation products. One I tried made my penis swell up bad. I being a guy was jealous of dildos and all the hundreds of ways girls had in option of the real thing. Now what do you think about guys getting off with a Fleshlight and not with you? I can tell you I am mixed on whats better the FLeshlight or the real thing, A lot of them time now even if I have the real thing if I want it I opt for the Fleshlight. So Fleshlight does it make you feel threatened?

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ops I forgot to add. With this toy men are at home more often now instead of going out to meet women. So let me spell it out for. Less chance for you to meet a new guy..

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3 no's so far a predicted answer..

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Annie_Mosity Xper 6
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The kind of man I want to fuck wants to fuck women, not hunks of plastic so I see it as no threat to me or my chances (if I wanted them) of getting a guy.

Flesh lights don't say anything. They don't tell you how good it feels when you fuck them. They can't suck your dick. They can't get wet from the amazing job you're doing. They will make you cum. That's it. Hardly replacing women unless that's all you wanted them for, and if you did then aren't we all blessed your spunking into a cup rather than a real woman?
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- wankiam
  +1 y
  do you have a vibrator?
- Annie_Mosity
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  @wankiam Not anymore, when I did I only used it with my partner. Something about fucking yourself with a soulless piece of buzzing plastic that kills the mood for me - god knows why... I can't get off that way.
- wankiam
  +1 y
  thats cool then. god knows what you must think of me having a sex doll though
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- Annie_Mosity
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  @wankiam your life isn't my life. Would you prefer to have a willing partner?
- wankiam
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  nah... im at a point where i dont want a partner at the moment and its not even that i pretend she is a real woman. its a toy and i play with it as such.
- Annie_Mosity
  +1 y
  @wankiam so it's an elaborate wank then?
- Annie_Mosity
  +1 y
  in this case, you aren't trying to replace a human...
- wankiam
  +1 y
  yeah i guess it is an elaborate wank although i do go a little overboard with outfits and different wigs lol
- Annie_Mosity
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  @wankiam Okaaaayyy... why? Fantasy extension?
- wankiam
  +1 y
  partly and also i think the thrill of indulging in something so taboo
- wankiam
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  and the fact i just love being a dirty old wanker
- Annie_Mosity
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  @wankiam does being taboo with a real person not appeal more?
- wankiam
  +1 y
  you know im 51 right? i have had the most wild ride so far but at the moment im exactly where i want to be. it may change again in the future
- Annie_Mosity
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  @wankiam yeah, there are plenty of 51 year olds out there who haven't "had a wild ride". I wasn't knocking you for it, just wondering if you would prefer a human to do it with or if you prefer the doll and wigs...
- wankiam
  +1 y
  casual hook ups happen less at my age and i dont have time for more than that. im moving to another country so working all hours to get as much cash as i can so dont want anything more. i have always enjoyed porn and wanking so while im single...
- Annie_Mosity
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  @wankiam yeah that's what I'm getting at, there's not wanting a relationship (or having opportunity) and there's not wanting humans...
- wankiam
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  got ya there's also no needing for now lol maybe when i settle abroad i may look again but for now i dont need a relationship
XRabbitHeartX Master
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Nope. Too many guys still want sex from me and all the other girls on the planet for us to feel threatened. If guys rather wanted to spend nights with their fleshlight then explain the thousands of guys prowling around my uni campus looking for sex with anything that moves :P
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- Anonymous1971
  +1 y
  Once situation does not an answer make.
- XRabbitHeartX
  +1 y
  I can highlight many situations.
- Anonymous1971
  +1 y
  and yet you didn't even one.
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- evenlift
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  Eh? The college campus environment is dead as far as romantic and sexual relationships go. There might be exceptions here and there, but that's the general picture. I don't think Fleshlight's to blame though.
Veritasharvard Xper 4
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Threatened by a device that has no beating heart, sultry voice, soft curves, and the ability to act without you manipulating it...um, not a chance! If a man chooses that over the real thing I feel sorry for them.
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- Anonymous1971
  +1 y
  Were not sorry..
- Veritasharvard
  +1 y
  You would choose that over a real person?
- Veritasharvard
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  Ps. I'm not saying don't use it, I'm saying I'm not threatened.
Anonymous
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Not threatened at all. I even occasionally watch p*rn of guys masturbating with them. I feel like both dildos and fleshlights pale in comparison to the real thing though.
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- doctorwhofan23
  +1 y
  Is p*rn of people using those actually a real thing?
- Anonymous1971
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  Unless you grow a penis you well only be able to feel they pale... As a owner of a penis its close enough. And in some ways even better.
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah, I find female p*rn stars annoying so I only watch gay or solo male and fleshlights are pretty common in that category. It may feel the same/better, but seeing an actual person's responses and making that physical connection can only add to the experience (unless one or both suck in bed).
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- Anonymous1971
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  Oh you have so much to learn about men. NOT trying to pick a fight.. Its just the way men and women view sex is so different a woman may never know.. But YES the real thing is nice but all men occasionally find masturbation while running a good fantasy through their heads better than the real thing and the Fleshlight takes it up a notch and men do this more often now. YES I did say "all men" so long as they are normal.
- Opinion Owner
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  All I'm saying is the only men who would choose a fleshlight over a real man/woman majority of the time is someone who can't get anyone in the first place. I don't believe women either when they say, "Why would I want a man when I can just buy batteries." Sure masturbating is fun, but not having at least the option of the real thing sucks.

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InquisitiveMale Guru
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Nothing beats the real thing.

People are still screwing; always have and always will.

It's a flaw in our design.

Overpopulation will be what leads to our eventual extinction.
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- Anonymous1971
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  Wow I am amazed someone actually said nothing beats the real thing like I didn't agree. My point being just like when a girl uses her toy and not NEED a MAN to get the desired orgasm efficiently now a man can do the same thing efficiently. A hand a lube is not even close.
- InquisitiveMale
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  I'd bet their putting more people in business then out of business. People who weren't having sex to begin with obviously don't count towards the thinning of the herd. Can't remove someone from the field who was never on it to begin with... Those who can and do have sex, a toy will only stand to increase their libido. Sex breeds more sex.
- ThreeIn
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  The population is actually expected to stay at 11 billion. Which isn't really that bad, considering Japan has about 100 million people in an area roughly the size of California and America only has about 350 million. We do have the room. We just need the food. But once the population stops growing, the tech will catch up.
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- InquisitiveMale
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  We are supposedly going to max out around 2070, decrease in population until 2100, and stabilize out anywhere between 9b-11b by 2300. That's made under the assumption that reproduction rates decrease as seen in developed nations and continue at a rather stable and predictable rate. That's a medium estimate, around 9billion stabilization by 2300, higher projections, put us at 36.4billion by the same date. In reality, we really don't know, future predictions are educated guesses and if the past is any indication of the future, they're rarely right.
- InquisitiveMale
  +1 y
  Point being, you have nothing to worry about. You'll be long past your prime before rates drop, if assumptions prove to be right; which I have my doubts.
rthomas43 Guru
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Are flashlights any good? Been contemplating buying one for when I'm away at college.
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- rthomas43
  +1 y
  Fleshlights* Can't say I'm surprised autocorrect changed that one lol
- Anonymous1971
  +1 y
  I thought I was to manly for one but I got one free at a sex party and another one at a bachelor party of a gay marriage. Took a few tries to find the right positions to use it and since then I have been living the even better sex life. I have been thinking about getting the shower attachment also. The quality is lacking a little bit.. I think there is some planned obsolescence built into it.
- rthomas43
  +1 y
  Any particular brand or anything you recommend?
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- Anonymous1971
  +1 y
  I'm sure there are company's trying to copy the Fleshlight but so many sex toys are so cheap and crappy.. I would only go with the one I know of that is good.. The Fleshlight.
- rthomas43
  +1 y
  Was not aware that was actually the brand lol Thanks bud.
- Annie_Mosity
  +1 y
  There's a little new thing called something like a Tenga Egg? Looks less like a thalidomide face-hugger than the flesh light...

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lumos Editor
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Nope, I don't feel threatened.
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harakiri Guru
+1 y
No. I'm happy for y'all.
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C3POandR2D2 Xper 5
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I watch p*rn of guys using flesh lights and dirty talking and I think it is sexy as fuck. I'm not threatened at all I'm turned on haha
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- Anonymous1971
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  Your turned on then what? You get out your dildo? haha
- C3POandR2D2
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  I actually don't own a dildo lol
apropos Xper 7
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No
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Msputiton Guru
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Naw. Guys don't do it for me sexually
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princesswitch Xper 7
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Not at all. I find it really hot to watch guys use them, actually:)
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ThreeIn Xper 7
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This makes me want to try one.
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Nathand Explorer
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I'LL TRY MINE IN AN HOUR OR SO... I'M SO EXCITED
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Jamovitz Xper 5
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Here is mine
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Anonymous
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I have one. It’s like one step above just using your hand. I wouldn’t worry too much about it because I still very much prefer the real thing over just using the toy.
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Anonymous
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No it sounds funny
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Anonymous
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Not in the least
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