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Is it bad that I fantasize about my boss?

im 23 and he's probably in his late 30s to mid 40s. he's just so sexy. he's really funny, tall, nice body and he gives off this vibe that he could put it down in the bedroom!!! I can sense that he's attracted to me but im not sure if he can read me. I hope he can't tell because I don't want to do anything that would be awkward or scandalous at work
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Nope not bad at all. We all have fantasies. It's part of the human sexuality, nothing to worry about.
    You already know what are the things that make him attractive to you: "funny, tall, nice body, sexual maturity". feels a bit like the forbidden fruit to think about sleeping with an older person.
    Everyone is attracted to older people at some point in life. Some pick up the courage to act on it, some don't. Everyone's choice and as long as it's done just for "having fun and experimenting", then no harm done. In the end why should it be ok to sleep with someone your age and so BAD to sleep with someone older?
    I sometimes get horny around some older ladies. Not just any older ladies as they still look young at around 40 ish or so (i'm 23). I sometimes act on it.
    I'm a sexual person and i embrace that. I respect them and expect to be respected.
    Having an older boss... i'd advise you to not get involved in this. This combination of work and sex usually ends up bad.

    Enjoy your sex life but make sure you won't regret it later.

    • Thank you, take care !

  • As long as the relationship had no benefits from work, then I can't see why you would feel it would be scandalous or awkward. 2 mature people doing what mature people do, x

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nah, nothing wrong with that. I've had lots of hot bosses and I would fantasize about some of them too lol. As long as you don't act on it, it's fine!

  • Oh yeah I like those boss fantasies, theyre so hot. And your boss sounds really hot!

    And there's nothing wrong with it. :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Do you work for me?

  • never understood why girls are attracted to guys more than a decade older than them

    • I think it's more that there's not much that stops them from having that attraction. Youthfulness isn't a big attraction point for women.

    • so in a nutshell, it's because men don't have a biological clock but women do? if men had a biological clock then women would mainly prefer youthful looking men too right?

  • Its just a fantasy nothings wrong with that...

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