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Are all guys just sex maniacs?

Okay, so I've been talking to this new guy and things have been going well. In many ways, he is a gentlemen who's well versed in many topics - we have a lot in common. The thing is, the man is outrageously horny - I love it! I do, it's just that all girls and women have to be careful not to get hurt if they want more than sex. Back to my question though, is it just how ALL guys are, mad about sex in general, or does the sex drive/hunger for sex actually have anything to do with that particular female? It seems that I attract men who are HIGHLY sexual, or again, are all guys just like this? I wanted to add that I love a man with a healthy appetite and I enjoy being desired... it's just that I'm curious to hear more from guys and this whole obsessing over having sex with a woman 24/7.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Men vary as much in each trait as women. You'll find men all along the libido spectrum. I wish you hadn't posted anonymously. I'd love to see your photo since you clearly attract men with very high libidos consistently. I'm one of those men. As I hope my answers show, I'm literate and bright and have many interests but none of them compare with my interest in things sexual. It seems to me that some women are just engineered to be with men and to be in bed with them full time, even if the lady doesn't realize it or want it that way. When a man can be in a relationship with one of those women (as I have), it just requires feeding that monster to get past it to the other parts of the relationship. I'm not saying any successful relationship is built entirely on sex but it is the engine that drives intimate relationships and if it's thermonuclear it can get a couple past a lot of the smaller and more trivial bumps in the road.

    What say the rest of you?

    • It's very important to me to feel that sort of connection with a man, even if I don't have sex with him, I want to feel as if I must have and I enjoy it when he clearly feels the same way. I'm all or nothing on this, either I click with a man on that level, or I just don't. And when I don't NOTHING progresses, so suffice it to say my more meaningful relationships began where there was a very strong attraction between us. I can't date a guy or even talk to him without that. I've tried, it just doesn't work for me... such a downgrade, why settle for less? LOL Again, even if the sex isn't happening, knowing that level of desire is there means a lot to me as well. It makes me happy! As far as my likes, well I'm petite, brunette, long-ish hair - Eastern Europe background.

    • Or maybe, more accurately, I enjoy when there's a good dose of us fantasizing about each other that turns me on so much!

  • Women are equally obsessed about sex. The only difference is that they're obsessed about a different aspect, namely-

    " it's just that all girls and women have to be careful not to get hurt if they want more than sex."

    And more than that, girls don't want to look like sluts, because of some ridiculous societal double standards. So in conclusion, men are obsessed with sex in a different, but equal in magnitude, way.

Most Helpful Girls

  • XD it seems that way doesn't it. I think men are by nature more sex-driven or pleasure-driven than women, while women are more emotionally-driven or driven by intimacy. That's a generalization though and is not the rule for every case.
    Like in my case, sex seems to be much more of a necessity to my boyfriend than it does for me--he gets very horny and really needs to sexual release and satisfaction to keep himself "sane" haha. For me, while I really enjoy sex, I don't really physically "need" it like he does, because the thing I love about sex is the intimacy it provides, which I can still achieve through plenty of other means besides sex.

  • If only!
    Haha!

    No, I've met MANY men who didn't care all that much about sex, and some who never cared to have it at all, really. I even dated several, which was a disappointing and discouraging experience.

    Do men *generally* have higher sex drives than women? I think so.
    But there are always exceptions, I think we all know that by now.

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  • Not all guys are highly sexual. Plenty of women here complain their partner is much less sexual than him.

    I suspect you're attracting high-drive men, which sounds like it works out for you.

    • Oh yeah, never fails! LOL

  • I don't know about other guys but i do love sex.

  • no , some guys are asexual

    • Hyped up on coffee, LOVE the name!!

  • Are all guys just sex maniacs?
    honestly yes its hard wired into our genetics

    some men may very just like women about how strong their sex drive is where some of us go several rounds and stretch it out over a longer time other mite be the wam bam thank you types, but everyone wants sex especially once you reach a age of maturity be it 18 or 60 where the peer pressure for society no longer intimidates you then people become much more open and straight forward about sex

  • No not all guys have the same sex drives.

  • You better believe it!

  • You're naturally going to find more sex hungry men to have sex with than less sex hungry men. But care to explain how you got the idea that he is a sex maniac?
    You said he is well versed in many topics. so it can't be all about sex?

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