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Guys and Girls, what do you think about prostate massages and pegging?

This has probably been asked before but what are your thoughts on anal play with a man? Men have you done it? Would you do it with a partner you trust? Women would you do it? Have you done it? I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I know he is kinky so I want to try prostate massaging and ease in to pegging (maybe). I told him I wanted to finger him and milk his prostate and he said "I'm all yours dirty girl" which to me is green light to have my way with his butt. Yay. Thoughts on it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Pegging is simply one more way for couples to find pleasure in bed.

    Men have a Prostate gland, which when stimulated, can provide intense pleasure and orgasms 10x more powerful than a normal orgasm - that is their motivation for anal stimulation.

    Women can enjoy switching roles and running the show. They can also enjoy providing their partner with amazing amounts of pleasure. And some women can reach orgasm while pegging.

    So - there is a lot of incentive to explore pegging for both the man and the woman. Pegging gives you the chance to take a walk in your partners shoes, sexually, which many times results in deepening intimacy due to compassion and understanding.

    The most common misconception about pegging is that men who enjoy it are gay. Incorrect. The area of your body that you enjoy having stimulated has no bearing on the gender you prefer to do the stimulating. Plus, only about 35% of gay men even have anal sex, so everyone would do well to let go of the old, tired assumption that men who enjoy anal stimulation must be gay.

    The next most common misconception is that it hurts. Not when done correctly, if fact not only does it not hurt, but it can provide intense pleasure for the man.

    I do it. I teach about it. I write about it. I love it. I am not looking for anyone to do it with.

    https://PeggingParadise.com

  • The only thing my guy got out of me pegging him was multiple orgasms. Poor guy was coming for five minutes straight, he didn't know where he was. He loved it. It was amazing to do it to him, so intimate
    How did you go?

Most Helpful Guys

  • You go girl!! Just keep in mind that his prostate is quite sensitive and, like all forms of erotic pain, will be less sensitive as he gets more and more turned on. Some of the most mind blowing orgasms I have ever experienced were when she has me on my back and is deep throating me while massaging my prostate and, when I go off, she clamps down with her two fingers as hard as she can. A major portion of the pleasure in a male orgasm is the muscles around the prostate clamping down to force ejaculation. When she supplements that, it feels like I'm gonna turn inside out, I'm cumming so hard.

    • Amazing description austinman!!! I can't wait to experiment this with him...

  • PM produces a very deep and intense orgasm. You're gonna blow his mind.

    • Yes! I just hope my finger can locate it cos I've never done it before...

    • Just go in with your first finger and make a "come hither" motion with your finger against the front wall of his rectum (towards his front). Feel for something that is rounded and sort of walnut-sized. As you press on it, you'll be giving him very deep, intense feelings, and he'll probably have pre-cum dripping out of his penis in short order. You can still use your other hand to play with his penis, or you can suck on his penis while you're doing the PM. You're every boyfriend's dream. Use a latex glove and some lube.

    • That's exactly what I will do then. Thank you!! Very informative.

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  • I am jealous of you two. Good for you for enjoying each other and being open minded. I would love to experience that, but my wife just isn't into it :(

    • Aww :( Sorry to hear that truthbeknown. Have you mentioned it to her? She probably hasn't grasped the concept well and needs to read into it. Women are programmed in a sense to be receivers so we skip at the chance of being the "pitcher" even though it can be a very empowering feeling. Ease her into it by talking about the importance of your prostate health, lol.

    • It has been awhile. The thing is, I like to crossdress when we have sex sometimes. She is a good sport about it, but she really rather I didn't do that, but she enjoys the fact that I like it. I am happy with what we have for now. Maybe I will try again and ask one day. thanks!

    • You're welcome.. ^_^

  • In my opinion I've never really ever been a fan of anal I've never tried it and I don't even like watching it in porn... I don't know I just fins it a turn off because I just get worried that what if I or she sees something you don't really wanna see come out of there if you know what I mean hahaha

    • Poop.

    • Exactly!! Hey there's a chance it may come out haha you will be surprised how many stories I've heard where its happend

    • LOL. Exactly. Butt play is gross.

  • its gross because butts have germs

    • So do mouths.. but we kiss any way.

    • but with rimming you can catch ecoli and die

    • My topic doesn't mention rimming?

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  • I've had the prostate massage. I'm not gonna lie it felt pretty good.

    I don't think its too weird but I think a lot of guys are against it for the "gay" factor

    • True! Precisely why it still remains a taboo.

    • Yup! Enjoy yourselves behind closes doors (: kink makes life fun

  • that sounds great I love getting a massage back there then put the toy in and make me scream like a little girl and cream like a little girl too

    • I bet you like to get spanked too huh? Naughty!!

    • just light taps gets me off

  • I hate anal soo much I haven't even tried fingering myself in the butt >:(
    Its so disgusting. How can people even do anal stuff. yuck. wait... i think i'm going to throw up...
    >:(

    • Cool. To each their own. Don't trip on your way to the toilet.

  • Best prostate experience I had was in the 69 position with a talented woman who was able to massage my prostate and blow me in rhythm as I sucked on her large clit and protruding labia. I enjoy meaty pussy so it definitely added to the experience and she swallowed all three loads without missing a beat before I finally went limp.

  • Sounds like you guys have a great relationship. My girlfriend started touching me there out of the blue, and to my surprise I was like "hey, I could get into this..."

  • Have tried it loved it. Can’t wait to do it again

  • What the fuck is pegging first of all and I got know problem with a finger up my shitter every now and then As long as it is announced b4 hand but how the he'll do you milk my prostate cuz seems like I would have known I was being milked if that was t he case?

  • I do enjoy anal and prostate stimulation. I would do it with my partner but am afraid yo ask.

  • I have a weird story about this

  • I'm not sure I'm into pegging but light assplay is awesome ( just a finger maybe two)

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  • Dying to try both but the mrs very not down.

  • That is how my girl eased me into it, finger than a month later it was mister vib. Then she got some porn that had guys getting pegged and she said i wanna do that to u , i said yeah why not. She went to the closet and already had bought a strapon. It felt great and happy she got me to do it. Never came so hard in my life

  • I have gotten prostate massages from my girlfriend. I wasn't sure I'd like it, but she asked me once during foreplay and I told her I was okay with it. It felt great and made the orgasm I had afterward very intense. Just make sure to use lube on your finger.

  • Sounds great. You have a lucky boyfriend

    • We are equally lucky!! Thanks for the feedback.

  • i want a girl who can massage my prostate with her tongue.

  • I've never done it, but I'd definitely be willing to try it.

    • Yes!! :)

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