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Ladies: is bigger actually better?

Ok, so first off I'm a generally well endowed guy (like 8 inches, so not huge, but definitely bigger than most), so this isn't some guy with a small dick complaining about girls. So I haven't been terribly sexually active til recently. The first couple girls were relatively normal, just sex and fun, but recently I've been having more sex with more girls, and I've been having problems. It takes effort to even get inside after she sucks me off AND I go down on her, so lubrication isn't the issue. I was just with a new girl (our first time together) and she wouldn't even let me finger her in the morning because of how sore she was from the night before. SO MY QUESTION IS: is bigger actually more pleasurable, or is it just like... A novelty type thing? I don't even go fast during intercourse. I generally like it slower so I experience everything more vividly, but the last three girls have said they were sore afterwards, and it took actual effort to even begin penetration. Opinions?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm personally not fussed about size as long as he knows what he's doing. However, one of my ex-boyfriend's was very well endowed, probably around eight inches or more. It took about four or five different times until we could actually have penetrative sex and for a day or more after I was so so sore and even during sex every time was really painful. I would say the bigger the more painful, I prefer an average sized willy personally, but it depends on the width and length of the woman's vagina too. For guys with larger penises there's a few good positions that lets a girl control how much she can take which is a blessing from the fucking heavens. Start really slow like first with fingers then just the tip etc.. It's normal to take a while because the vagina has to expand and all that fun stuff. The more lubrication the better for both people.

    • She started on top and once I finally got in she just sort of sat down... I could tell it hurt her, but she did that to herself lol. And there was alooot of warm up before that. So I guess I should go slower. Maybe not penetrate fully at first? How can I make this less painful for girls. I don't want to hurt them, I want to please them lol

    • That's a good mentality to have. I would say you're spot on, don't penetrate fully until she initiates, just work your way up slowly and after a few times (if you're with the same partner) you'll figure out what works for both of you. I sounded pretty harsh in what I wrote, the sex was great and I wouldn't not do it again, but it requires knowing your own body and also commitment from the guy to know how to please the girl. Anyway good luck!

  • It really depends on the guy. I have been with a guy about 8 inches and he was very good in bed. It might have had to do something with his size...I can't be sure. But this man knew how to make me scream. We actually had a knock at the hotel room door because I was so loud. It was a couple of maids laughing hysterically.

    • Haha well I am pretty good in bed honestly. It's just difficult to be good when you can't even get inside her in the first place lol. Thanks for the reply!

  • Different size penis for different size vaginas. The tricky part is finding who fits who.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I always find if girls aren't getting sex regularly they usually get sore after sex. I don't know much about female anatomy but maybe they tighten when they don't have sex frequently.
    That's probably the issue not because of your size because 8s average I think:)

    • The average is 5.5 to 6 inches.

    • O really? I'd hate if my penis was that small I wish mine was a few centimetres bigger I'm a 8.

  • Not always...like this. If too big then the girl would be sore in the morning or after the sex.

    6-7 inches is usually the MOST desired length depending on the girl of course ya know?

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  • Everyone is different but in my case bigger is better. It's what I like, it's what I am getting and don't plan on leaving it.

    • Does it ever hurt, or is it all pleasure for you?

    • 1000% pleasure all the time. He knows exactly how to be gentle until we are ready for a bit rougher!

  • Personally I don't care about size as long as it's not tiny. Lol I mean if you can navigate than yeah that's good. :)

    • How about a 5 foot long snake? Is it enough?

  • No bigger is not always better, Its about knowing what you are doing and pleasure

    • BA! Right here.

  • Omg lol your doing something good ;)))♥♥
    I like it big tho o..o

    • Well then I guess the last 3 have just been abnormal... they all came, just sore, and said it hurt a little

    • Lol they probably don't like it rough o..o I like when it hurts sometimes.. it feels good riding him...

    • I'm not even that rough usually! the girl last night tried riding me and whe she sat down she screamed a little. No girls really ride me and I think it's cause I'm too big :(

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  • There is no doubt in my mind. The bigger, the better. Size matters. Bring on the foot longs!

    • hahahaha alright. good to know!

  • The bigger =/= the better, at least to me ! I'd be a happy woman with an average sized guy who can get it rock hard =]

  • Nope. As long as they know how to work with it, then we're good to go.

    • Nope, as in bigger is not better?

    • That's right. Bigger isn't always better. As long as they know what they're doing when pleasing a woman, I could careless.

  • No bigger is definitely not better. But I will say that small is definitely never good. Average is my preferred size

  • The bigger vthe better. But every big has its limit. 8 is quite large...

    • I've never seen myself as that large til recently. I really thought I was slightly above average, but girls are starting to tell me otherwise the more I experience

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