Am I supposed to tell her if I'm going to cum or does she know already?

[cumpilationzzzz]

So I've been dating this girl for about a week now and yesterday we had sex for the first time. She seemed very comfortable with me and I was very comfortable with her when we were doing a little bit of foreplay. She ends up sucking my dick and she is amazing. So, as a natural instinct of when I was about to cum, I grabbed her head and vigorously thrusted into her mouth, making swishing noises. I came in her throat, didn't even warn her or give her the option to spit or swallow it was already down her throat... She ended up leaving after that... Will she come back? Am I supposed to tell her when I cum?

[KimmyB]

Ok so YES it's never a bad idea esp. during a blowjob to warn the girl that ur about to cum!! It's much easier to deal w/ if I know when it's gonna happen so I can get ready for it. Sometimes it's obvious, but other times it can be really sudden. I feel like if a guy I had been seeing for only a week grabbed my head and "vigorously thrusted" and then blew really far in w/o warning, I would prob swallow as per usual, but prob think to myself like oh... and be a little disappointed he didn't think about warning me :o/

Honestly, tho, I don't want u to like feel bad or w/e, so it prob isn't THAT bad of a situation... u will prob hear from her :o)

[wineme2014]

It would be a courteous move to let her know in time that you're cumming. Because some girls like to swallow, some girls don't, some girls do other things...it's all about communication. I get your natural aggressiveness as a male for her to keep doing what she's doing but it's a two way street and you both need to be in tune with each other for it to be a better, more pleasurable experience for you BOTH

[panda92]

In a relationship its disrespectfull! If you just have a one night stand or just a fuck with a random chick I guess its ok but have some respect! u must warn her or pull out also maybe chat to her and see what she prefurs? she might be grossed out by the cum in her throut some girls don't like it

[SüßeJäger]

Yeah you should tell her. Especially if its your first time together. Plus, you never grab her head and thrust unless you know for sure she is ok with it. Most girls can't deep throat anyway. Lastly, maybe she didn't want to swallow, I've only been with 1 girl that gave me bjs and she didn't like to swallow. Lots of errors, especially for your first time together. Some of those things would be ok maybe if you knew each other and you knew she was ok with those things. I don't know if she will be back or not. I am sure she was plenty pissed. Those things should be just common courtesy really.

[Clappy]

You broke rule number one dood, always hit her before you cum.

[throwit]

I can never tell when my guy is about to cum, his warnings come out of nowhere.

[DodgersGM]

Yeah, until you know each other very well I think that you should let the woman know when you're about to cum.

[knotme]

she might not come back. I can tell, but she might not have known. You should have told her

[cumpilationzzzz]

damn... :(

[knotme]

hahah, your fault. :) Call her to say you are sorry and you got carried away, and see what she says

[sexybaby2002]

I don't mind whatever makes you happy

[Anonymous]

Yes you need to tell her and dont just grab her head and shove it down her throat either

[Anonymous]

If a guy did that I'd be pissed. I'm happy to swallow and I do but the grabbing of my head would have pissed me if we hadn't discussed it earlier.