My girlfriend wants me to seduce her?

Apparently to spice up our sex life, my girlfriend wants me to try and seduce her. How do I even start to go about this? She says I have to find my inner player, but I am strictly against everything and anything they do. I don't want to degrade women, let alone my own girlfriend...Needless to say I'm stuck at this point.
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  • first off after reading the female comment below...don't ask your girl to go inside just go (if she doesn't want it she'll give u a sign or tell u to stop) ...the less talking the better unless your girlfriend likes or wants you to talk dirty to her...a lot of people aren't good at talking dirty and thats fine so that would be something u should randomly ask her some day and get her opinion on it and if she want that then implement it when you guys are in bed or messing round (don't ask her about it while in the act) ...and when your girl says to seduce her i think she just want u to be more aggressive and controlling when you guys are getting it on. But u can start by foreplay...a lot of dudes dont kno foreplay is the key to good sex or just are selfish and dont care about pleasing their girl...trust me the more u become better at foreplay the better the sex and better the response you are going to get from her. So for example lets take the couch scenario while watching the movie.. I would start by putting my hands round her waist then going in for a kiss just to test see if she's in the mood then from that i would move from her lips to licking then sucking then sucking while slightly scraping her neck with my teeth to give that passion and intensity of how bad u want her until u feel the gear change and she getting more and more into it and if she is then i would slowly move my mouth to her ears and whisper and tell her bad i want to be inside her or u can say i wanna eff you so bad. I can guarantee u if ur doing it right she should be wet by now. But after that start kissing her again while massaging and grabbing on her boobs... I could go into more but u should get it. Remember not everything is a race. Something are done better and felt more slowly than fast. For example you can run your tongue down the middle of her body after sucking on her neck and go from neck to straight down until u reach down under...but dont go there and go over to the corner of her

    • thighs and build up excitement and anticipation for when u do go down under by licking slowly up and down just tracing her thighs with the tip of your tongue...Have fun...make things sexy for her and u cud have her forever if u want. Remember if u cud do what most guys dont do girl will love you for it. And one of those things is foreplay and pleasing here first. The more horny and freaky of mood you can get her in the better, loose and excited she will be when it comes to her pleasing u

  • First and foremost, there's nothing degrading about seduction. We all like to be seduced.

    So set up a role play. Ideally, go on a get away to a nice hotel with a nice bar. She gets in the shower first so you don't get to see what she's wearing in the bar. She gets all tarted up and heads downstairs. You get ready and let her sit for 20 minutes or so. Then go in and find a guy to have a little conversation with. At some point, bring up the hot chick by herself. Tell him you're gonna go make a run at that. Sit down with her and charm her. She'll probably get hit on by other guys so stay cool. She'll rebuff them given a little time. Once you're there, you'll be amaze at the golden BS that comes out of your mouth since you know the outcome. Invite her back to your room, take her up there, and ravish the hell out of her. You'll both have a great time and I suspect it'll become something you do again from time to time.

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  • You don't need to do anything too extravagant to 'seduce' her. It's more than enough to watch a movie with her at home. You guys can cuddle on the couch or bed while watching.

    It's actually something I love when my boyfriend does it, though not much of the movie will actually be watched. Put your hand on her waist or inner thighs, and start kissing her neck. That will progress to making out, and as things get heated just ask her 'baby, can I go inside you?'.

    Ok, so I'm totally guilty of modelling this after what happened with my boyfriend just last night, but hey, it works! So I'm on top, we're both having fun. Then he goes 'baby, go on your back. I really want to fuck you.' I know you might think that would make a typical feminist feel all degraded, but honestly there's nothing hotter than someone wanting you that much.

    So yea, there's an idea. Just do or say anything that shows her how much you want her. It's the best when you literally beg, somewhere along the lines of 'baby please, I really want to go inside you/fuck you..' should she be acting hesitant. Of course, that depends on the relationship between you guys but if you know she's pretty open and down for sex quite often, there's nothing better. :)

    • yes ♡ but the on top thing, do you like that?

    • Do you mean do I like being on top, or was I okay with him asking me to switch and get on my back?

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  • Get her really drunk and take advantage while she's unconscious! Ha! Hows that for seduction