My boyfriend wants me to do cowgirl more and I feel like I suck at it. Someone care to give me tips?

My boyfriend and I have had sex a countless amount of times but I'm almost never on top. He's asking me to take the lead more but I feel like I suck at riding him. Someone care to give me tips?
1 0

Most Helpful Girls

  • I like to put my feet flat on the bed.
    And ride him like that (in a squatting position).

    Then I like to rest my knees on the bed and also go up and down.
    Sometimes I wine my hips.
    To give a different sensation,
    I may even face away from him in the cowgirl position (doing the same things I mentioned above).

    When facing him, I like to lean forward and kiss him.
    The position is very intimate.
    He can even hold your hips and bounce you on him to help.

    It's a lot of fun!
    It's give him room to relax, so he can get his energy up and
    take charge again!

    You'll get better at it and your stamina will build up if you do it more frequently.

  • Honestly, it took me forever to figure out how to do it without getting cramps and stuff haha.

    Bend forward over him while you ride so that you're at like a 45 degree angle. If you want him to go deeper, put your feet up on his thighs. If you get tired, raise yourself and guide his hands to your ass, so he can hold you as he thrusts up into you.

  • Practice , bounce that ass and swirl those hips. Once you get better at it you get on your feet and bounce

Most Helpful Guys

  • You are just being a little to shy I think. Let him give you some oral pleasure (even ask for it first and tell him you will ride him if he gets you hot enough.) Then when you get on top of him just slide up and down on him slowly until it starts to feel great. Then close your eyes and go wild on him! Trust me - he wants it and if you've not gone wild while on top you are going to love it as well. I hope this helps. Good Luck! :D

  • Just rock like you're riding a horse and ask him to tilt his hips and get into you to the max. Get going and do your best to break that thing off. Of course you won't but I'm betting you'll have bombastic orgasms.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 4
  • I like a girl on top... she can control the speed and angle to stimulate her. Next time you are on top... do what is best for yuo.. have some fun with it.

  • Why do you feel you suck at it? It is probably the easiest way for the girl to get off.
    You just sit on his dick and slide up and down on him, moving to what feels best for you.
    Any way that you move is going to feel good to your guy. Up, down, back, forth, he will feel it.
    Also, it is good for the guy, he can see your face as you pleasure yourself on his dick.
    Just find the best position for your legs and feet, and go for it.

  • I think you should go for it do it the best you can until you get comfortable doing it... if he asked you to do it I'm 99% sure he loves the way you do it... to him your great at it and it gives him pleasure... do something unexpected and take lead during the beginning... he will love it... most men feel that their girl isn't into it that much if she does show how much she wants it like they wants it... men like to feel needed in that way... a lot

  • It's a great positon, it's all about your hips. Use your hips in a circular motion and also try up/down. I love to hold her hips and have her bounce on my dick.