Why did he want to finger me so badly?

I was hanging out with a guy and he kept asking to finger me, why would he want to finger me that badly if he's not getting any pleasure from it? Wouldn't he rather me give him a bj? I said no to him anyway but he kept rubbing me through my jeans.
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  • Well, it partially depends on what kind of relationship the two of you have. Assuming you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, there could be many different reasons. Maybe he wants to arouse you so that you'll want to do more. He might like to tease you, though that sounds unlikely. If you are the first girl he has ever been intimate with, he might be curious, or he might not know how to best arouse you. If he's doing this against your will, he needs to be corrected.

    Assuming that you are willing in this situation, and that you might simply be confused, he might simply enjoy pleasuring his woman. I, for example, enjoy pleasuring the woman I'm with so much that I actually to get pleasure from it, a rush of endorphins that make him simply happy and feel good. I actually enjoy giving far more than I enjoy receiving.

  • Guys are highly visual creatures (thus why we watch p*rn lol.) We love to see the pleasure on your face from what we are doing to you. Some of the best guys in the bedroom are this way - givers that love to give you total pleasure. I think your guy is either just curious about it or he is a natural giver. Let him do it when you are comfortable with letting him do it and let him see you enjoying it - and be honest too. Next thing you know he'll want to give you oral pleasure too. Too many guys out there just 'expect' you to give them a bj. I think you might have a good one here. Play safe and have fun. I hope this helps. Cheers :D

Most Helpful Girls

  • It probably turns him on. He probably enjoys doing it. And he is probably hoping it will leading to more than fingering

  • He wants to do it in the hoes of making you horny so you will want sex.

    • winner!

    • Thanks, and oh, forgive my typo I meant HOPES not hoes lmaooo

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  • Some people are givers... and some are takers... im a giver and would give any woman of mine unlimited oral sex as much as she wanted... but the taker would demand bj's and not want to return the favor... consider yourself lucky.

  • He's probably desperate. A lot of guys are at your age

  • I love pleasuring a woman

  • He would get to touch your vagina and probably hoped it'd lead to more?