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Why do people have sex in the pool?

I know things can get hot and heavy quick but why not some decency? My friend told me about her crazy experience with a guy in A PUBLIC POOL! WHERE KIDS SWIM!!! I was honest and told her I thought what she did was disgusting. And especially since it was in a public pool, I made sure to point out that kids swim in there. She called me an uptight bitch. But I then called her a nasty slut with no shame or respect for people. She hasn't talked to me in a few days but what did she expect? For me to applaud her doing the nasty in a public pool? Get real! I'm just venting but isn't there anyone who agrees? That there are certain places for certain things?
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  • I'd be worried about pregnancy issues and such more than anything. I don't know if she was on the pill though.

    Overall, she was probably getting a thrill out of it where you're more concerned about having more decency about it. I've had sex in woods before but that's as far as my exhibitionism has really taken me unless you count the time this crazy girl I was dating went down on me (and wasn't good at it) on the side of the road when I was actually looking to just be affectionate.

    I also do see it as a contamination issue. You can easily read around about it online. Most pools do have chlorine and such that they use regularly. Overall somehow this story reminds me of this. www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...ondom_n_2875056.html

    • Chlorine and other human body fluids, think about it.

  • Well thats spicing up the sex life. Some people like to live on edge and fuck in places they could potentially get caught. And then sometimes you just want it so bad then and there you go with it. I remember when I was younger me and my ex wanted to fuck so bad at this fair so we went behind one of the buildings. It was pretty sexy to put her up against the building. Eventually someone walked out of the door behind us haha they just stood there. It was pretty awkward. But from personal experience things like that tend to be exciting. Either that or the urge at that point is just to strong

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  • I think that's not only unclassy and gross, but also the fact that she told you about it and what not, like have some dignity but calling her a nasty slut is also very vicious and behaviour I wouldn't tolerate in a friend. I don't blame her for not talking to you. If a friend came to me and told me that I would say "Not something I would do, that's kind of gross, why couldn't you go home and do it" and leave it at that. Calling people names and being verbally aggressive like that shouldn't be excusable in any situation on yours or her part.

    • She called me an uptight bitch. That was her response to me telling her I thought it was disgusting because it was a public pool where kids swim. So she was asking for it.

    • The time old saying "two wrongs don't make a right" is so true. It was bad of her to say that in the first place, but you didn't need to retort, you could have said "I don't appreciate that". Just my humble opinion.

    • Oh well.

  • Well i can understand doing it in a your own pool but public pool? LOL It makes things very ugly. I am open minded and relax human being but i don't want my kids swim with somebody elses sperms. That is for sure.

    I think the adrenaline they are going after. But there are several ways to keep it hot, not the way that disturbs people. I can understand freedom but when a thing that you make it freely , disturbs somebody, this is not a freedom to me anymore.

  • I would be more worried about all the fluids that are in the water that go inside your holes and over your skin, everyone has his own way to express their sex life, i have not done it but i think there worst things to be worried about in this life.

    • Thats the reason i dont go to public pools. :)

    • It's still disgusting. You have to let people know when they've done wrong. What she and that one guy did was just inconsiderate of other people.

    • I didn't say it wasn't disgusting, it is And you are right they have to think is a public place, but is not the first time this happen and it won't be the last. Don't get me wrong, I find it gross but I don't worry about that because I don't go to those places for that kind of reasons. I have heard worst situations and way more inappropriate places. Horrible stories.

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  • it just gives a kick ' having sex where you shouldn't makes sex much hotter'

    cuz there is a chance of being busted so the adrenaline goes skyhigh XD

    but yes i agree... sex would be kept in room's =D

  • hahaha I could careless about what others think about me or who I am with, even more so when having sex. I've had sex in a few places, but not a public pool, would I call someone out for it no and why just because it's where people go, so what having sex in the park is now all of a sudden off limits too? Plus if there were no kids in the pool, no one caught them I really don't see the problem. And why would you say sex is "doing the nasty" there's nothing nasty about it, it's just sex. Unless you think sex is just nasty well then hey, that's your opinion and that's fine but to knock/disrespect/shame/shun your friend for voicing her intimate moment with a guy to you was un-called for. You could have found a waaaay more subtle way to tell her that what she did is not what your offended by but more on the WHERE I think your friend may be a lot more open to your criticism but if she's like me she probably won't give fuck, not anymore anyways seeing how she was not called you back.

    • She called me an uptight bitch so I called her out for what she was too. I don't care how intimate it was. Do it somewhere where other people don't swim in it. And doing the nasty is a term. And is was especially nasty in that case.

  • "... a typical blue whale produces over 400 gallons of sperm when it ejaculates... and you wonder why the ocean is so salty!"

    What's a mere teaspoon in chlorinated water? Are you going to ban whales now too?

    • But that's different! Aren't we humans civilized?

    • LMAO@QA.

    • Would you want to swim in someone else's sperm? Especially your kids.

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  • I agree with you.

  • Ugh. As a guy who was a lifeguard at a local amusement park, these people were both annoying and a good story to tell afterward.

  • People have sex everywhere... why would a pool be excluded? Calling your "friend" a nasty slut probably wasn't your best move.

    • She is though.

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