Why is my boyfriend obsessed with my ass?

My boyfriend loves my ass. He loves 69, he likes to lick my ass... he'll basically make out for ages with my ass, bite my cheeks, finger me. We did anal once. It wasn't my thing, but he loved it. Now when he puts me in doggy, he puts a thumb or finger on my asshole and pushes/rubs it like a button while he bangs me. It feels good, I just feel like he's obsessed with my ass. Why? Also, he loves head (obv... what a surprise) but also when i lick his balls, gooch, and (I think) asshole.. Lets just say whenever i say "haha you like it when i rim you" he says "no, i think you like to do it more than i actually like it"... But i think he's lying. Whats his ass-obsession? He's certainly NOT gay or bi. For that I'm sure, so don't even try to suggest it. lol
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  • He is a freak the last guy who licked my butt hole and was constantly biting me got dumped by me for it and kept harassing me to have sex for like 3 years with random texts, calls and emails. Anywho if u are not comfortable about butt play then tell him and if he doesn't get it dump his freaky ass. Some men are just freaky thats the same freakiness that gets them in trouble and various stds. My current boyfriend is very bland when it comes to sex he doesn't even like bjs I kept asking to try it on him he says its not his thing and I asked him if he'd lick my butt hole he said "fu-k no." He says he is willing to try kinky sex when we get married, he claims he wants to leave things to do like anal and bj's when I'm his wife. That makes me feel special tho :-)

    • thats super sweet :) And i will deff take your warning into consideration :) but my bf is more like yours than you think. he hasn't had a lot of partners... like... a LOT less than me (yikes, but im not a skank either... just means he really didn't get around.. small town, you know how it is) Anyway, ya I think this whole ass thing is new to him. we never ever used to do it for MONTHs after we started having sex and then it was little by little. now he lovessss it. he's like a kid in a candy shop. its nice to be honest. Its like im giving him something he didn't have before, thats nice.

  • If your ass is like the one on the avi then I understand why he is so into it.

    • you're cute. :) ya its like that. not full or anthing. tiny and perky.

    • Better than those huge unproportional butts :D

  • he is an ass freak!!! just go with it or tell him that its not your thing

    • lol i go with it!. just sometimes i feel like he's making love to my ass and not me. LOLL

    • lol.

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  • Its not really obsession more or less a sexual thing. Im the same way haha I love eating a girls ass and puttin my fingers in her ass. by the way if you werent already aware if there's something in your ass while he's fucking your pussy itll make your pussy feel tighter. Just because there's less space there. That could be it. Its another hole. Like your pussy. It feels good when you fuck it. Its a lot tighter. Its just sexual play thats all. As for him, and the balls, gooch, and asshole thing it just feels really good. I've never had a girl lick my asshole but I've had one go pretty far down on my gooch. think about rubbing your fingers lightly over your legs or stomach. Thats what your tongue on his balls and gooch feels like. It feels good.

    • yea. he never asked me to lick his asshole, i just was down there and did it once. and the first time i did it we were 69-ing and then after i while i said "what do you want to do?" (aka, do you want to fuck me now?) and he said "I dont care, you can do whatever you want to me" lol. he was like melted butter, i never saw him so excited/ relaxed. it was awesome #TheReasonHeStaysWithMeWhenImBeingFuckingAnnoying lol

    • haha must be nice to have a woman willing to please in anyway possible. but yea not an ass fetish. He's just ok with more then the average haha some guys think asshole shits nasty. but you get lucky with some guys. I've noticed most girls like ass stuff. Every girl i've been with likes her asshole played with and at least 2 or 3 liked anal sex

    • i like anal. more the idea of anal that gets me off. but im scared. i hear of gay guys having to wear diapers when theyre old because they destroyed their inner muscles and stuff... not for me, fuck that shit.

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  • Asking a man why he likes a womans body is like asking why he lives life. Haha. He likes it because he does, thats really all.

    • I know. i guess I'm just looking for insight into the male psyche. Plus, my bf isn't a big talker.. though he's a grrreat do-er ;)

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  • Anytime i see a female with a nice ass... like in a perfect fitting pair of jeans... i get an overwhelming desire to want to worship her vagina... sometimes guys are obssessed beyond whats reality... lets not forget that even a nice ass is still "that thing" that shit tumbles out of.

  • He is an ass man! Some guys are into legs, some into boobs, and others are all about the ass. I am also an ass man. Be happy, enjoy it!

  • Umm if your ass looks like that I can see why lol. I would be obsessed too. That would be very dangerous.

    • its not my ass, but my ass is very very similar... but i mean, there's not really any fullness to it, even in the profile pic ass its not like a jlo ass or beyonce ass,. i have a quaint, small, bit-of-meat (like a mouth full) ass.

    • J-Lo's and Beyonces asses are okay but the ass in your profile pic is basically perfect at least according to my preference. I'd be wanting to be all over it too.

  • Well, he's an ass man, and he loves your ass. Seems pretty self-explanatory to me. :-)

    • true. man, i wish we thought like dude. you like something, you like something! nothing more to it.

    • Haha. Yeah that's really all that's going rough his mind. :-)

  • Why don't you just ask him?

    • Haha... mmm... it's curvy though. lol

    • my boyfriend is... i dont know. reserved about sex. Not during.. during hes, evidently, freaky... but he doesn't like talking about it.. he's a "gentleman" LOL.

    • Yeah... is yours like JLO? :p

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  • As long as you like it, it's cool.

  • Why does a guy like boobs, why does a guy like pussy, why does a girl like cock, why does a girls like balls? They are all erogenous zones and turn guys and girls on. Also, it's enhanced by the fact that he feels you have a really nice ass.

  • Do you even squat? xD

    • yes! sometimes... i mean, im lazy but i have a good body for being lazy. Lol #ThanksGoodMetabolism

  • I can clearly see grom your pic why is he obsessed with your ass :p

    • It looks flat lol

    • I clicked on it expecting to see something like Jennifer Lopez size or something

    • its not my ass, lol. but yes, my ass looks like that. its definitely not a bubble butt by any means. fuck, my bf even told me my ass was flat before... then added he loves it anyway, proceeded to make out with it... weird... i try doing squats and stuff but there's nothing i can do. on the other hand, i have a 32 DD boob size.. so... compensation. lol

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  • That's his kink... every guy has at least one. :)

  • I love a girls ass kissing it and licking it. A girls butthole can be very beautiful! You should be flattered that he thinks it's so sexy he wants to lick it

  • He never seen a ass like that!

    • Eminem, is that you?

  • Lol sounds like u just love telling the story and getting attention. Inbox me

  • I don't know a lot of guys are like that im sure. I'm sort of like that apart from the rimming lol.

    It's just natural I guess and if your girl has a nice ass why not make the most of it. Give her ass as much attention as she wants

  • I can. see. why.. i dont blame him.. lol

  • well i too love to do that... just love girls ass... you can count on me... its quite normal

    wish had a girl like you... you are too cooperative.. like it

  • just lay back and enjoy it. if you ask him why he may think that you want it to stop.

  • Is he black?

  • I like the big butt cheeks, not the a hole

  • If that's you in the profile pick I can't blame him, your ass is hot. Some guys just like anal more.

    • Dose he like anal on him? Have you guys considered a strapon?

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