Be aware that whenever people ask about time, everyone who lasts a long time pipes up cheerfully.
4-6 minutes but much faster if hard and fast would be around the average person.
With practice, you could likely stretch his time out and let him go harder (though maybe not flat out) for longer.
Are you saying you need more than 5 minutes to build to an orgasm, or that you only build towards an orgasm when he goes hard and fast, or just that you'd like him to go flat out for 10 minutes because that's awesome?
mostly practice. first he has to want to last longer - some guys feel an orgasm building and don't have the will power to do anything to reign it in. But once he decides he wants to last longer, all it takes is identifying when he's getting close and then pausing or at least slowing down. Also, distractions can help: I usually try to solve a math equation in my head or concentrate on tomatoes. This has had some success, but a side effect is that math or tomatoes get me horny.
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I agree the pausing is key, but longer term, what she seems to want is him to not need to do that.
yeah, the pausing isn't really the practice but for the purpose of practicing. Ejaculation tends to be something you can only do once and then you're done for at least an hour. Sort of like if you went to the gym but were only allowed to do one complete bench press - getting into shape would take a while unless you did a bunch of 'incomplete' bench presses before that.
Pretty long. My bf, while a mega-dork, clearly has tons of sexual experience and he can go for a LONG time super hard and fast. I do not like just a quick 5-minute how-do-you-do and he knows that so if he feels it building he just slows down for a second. I do not know how many guys fuck harder but not many. All I can say is that at the end you feel mighty well shagged.
Great question. I would also like to know. I can only orgasm if my bf is going really fast and hard but the problem is usually be doesn't last long enough that way for me to finish
What we did find that helped was giving him a bj before sex. He lasts longer the second time
Ejaculating? Is it if Ejaculating inside the vagina, fertilisation can occur, how does it actually feel if semen is ejaculated inside?
That you need to experience, no words can say it , but for ur relief , my princess said it was like a massive boom inside her , she shah her head hit back n she didn't sense anything go few moments , well that might also have occurred due to orgasm ,,, but she saisaid she wanted it again n one thing , she was walking like a drunk person after that quality time...(she texted me that)
Omg I don't want to experience it already. Ejaculate it outside
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!5_10 mins normally , but going hardcore without test 60 sec is enoug, you might have seen it in p*rn that they go hardcore for some time n then take it out n do smthng like fingering or whatever
In p*rn they also edit multiple sessions together. The also load the guys up on drugs that both desensitize them and keep them hard. Even if they cum.
Yeah, all of that stuff
I'm the inverse. I can go "hard and fast" for a very long time but actually ejaculate faster (and more) at a normal pace. It likely has to do with the type of stimulation you practice while masturbating since I've heard many different reports of how that works between men from LSPG.
When my boyfriend and me have sex at normal pace he can last for around 20-25min and when he goes hard and fast its around 15min but it also depends on the positions. :)
i bet in good ol doggy, he won't go more than 5 mins without cumming.. for us guys.. that's too freaking hard. lol
Last time we did it in the kitchen table in doggy style all the time and he literally lasted for 10min I swear I was surprised myself!
Porque?
I always masturbate before sex so the first and fastest one is out the way then i jus eat my girl out till im less sensitive from cuming then i goin for. A while since i already came itll be a little minute before i do again so meanwhile im fucking as hard as possible
A lot of factors need to be taken into consideration. 1. How long has it been since he ejaculated 2. How often does he masturbate? 3. How attractive are you to him? 4. How tight are you? 5. How fit is he?
If you want him to prolong then 1. Right before sex 2. Very Often 3. Unattractive 4. Loose 5. Overweight.
All these factors will help him last longer. Incorporate some of this and he'll be able to last longer.
DEPENDS. MY TIME IS 30-45 MINS APPROX
Yeah I lasted a long time my first time. I guess it all depends on the person but let him cum before sex.
you have to train with him on that.
he has to do it till he gets close, then stop.
let him get soft.
then start it again
it takes time
and it also depends on the last time he came.
if it was a while ago, let him come.
then rest a while,
then next time he'll last a lot longer
it really depends, after first round, usually i last like 30-35 minutes normal pace... in first round if i going hard and fast in doggystyle , could be up to 3-4 minutes lol before i cum
All depends on his stamina. He can do exercises to help it too
Well that is fast normally a guy should last between 15 to 30 and then there's the few there's a few that go 35 to an hour but that's switching from slow to normal at fast and hard should be able to last a min to 3 the most without hurting them selves because of the friction hope this answers your question.
I normally cum too quickly first time, if I go a second time I can last much longer going hard and fast
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