My wife and I have been together now for over 20 years, when we had been married for about 3 years I too wanted to share my wife with other guys. We seemed to only talk about doing this during sex, at first she seemed a little reluctant to the idea. The more we talked and role played it she was getting hornier wanting to go through with it. I finally asked her if we knew anyone she was willing to try this with she said yes a black friend of ours named Kevin, needless to say I wasn't surprised as they was always flirting back and forth. We continued our role play before actually setting this up with Kevin. Then she surprised me during the role play she admitted her and Kevin had talked of this fantasy, both were turned on to this idea. When I asked if she thought she could go through with it, she said YES she had all ready had sex with him when they talked one thing lead to another before long they were in the bed fucking. At first I was shocked, jealous, yet at the same time even hornier knowing she had fucked him. Now I wanted to watch her fuck him even more, so we arranged a visit where we would discuss and plan this event. Without making this reply to long we did go through with the two them fucking. I was surprised how much I liked seeing her fucking someone else. We had him over several times after that then she was willing for other guys we knew to fuck her. She admitted it turned her on knowing I liked watching and her being the center of attention. As long as you are both ok with it and know it is nothing more than sexual attraction without an emotional attachment, I say have fun. We still do this when she is interested in someone she lets me know when she wears her short denim skirt no panties on giving guys a peek at her pussy. I still enjoy watching her have fun. Maybe you should just have one on one sex with him, be honest to your husband. As for me I very much like watching my wife enjoy having sex.
0 0 0 0You are in a world of hurt, and an irreparably damaged friendship, if you pursue this relationship. Marriage is an entirely new ballgame, with new rules.
You two may have been able to laugh it off in the past, but chances are she is not following the same game that you two used to play.
I would check yourself and make a decision as to whether or not you are willing to possibly see your relationship with your friend fractured forever.0 0 0 0
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People want what they can't have. My childhood friend married and I developed a crush on him and fantasized about what sex with him would be like. That's as far as I let it go. I would never ever do something like that to a friend. Find away to get over it because someone will get hurt. It's just to risky and not worth it in the end.
0 0 0 0Finally someone who understands me:( I am trying so hard believe me I am I have even brought over guys I considered dating an everytime the guy would hold me touch me you could see the jealousy in her husbands eyes. I love my friend but if you think about it this way he's looking at me more than her when I am around. What if he realizes he isn't interested in her I would rather him be mine than with another girl with my body type:/ I know I just want him sexually now but it could change Did you ever admit to your crush about how you felt?
No I never told him. Eventually I just moved on. I know the feeling is strong and sometimes unbearable but keep trying. If their relationship ends and you still want to be with him then go ahead but until that happens you must stay away.
Why dont you just tell your friend maybe she will let you join in.
Absolutely not... any guy that is taken I consider off limits and have no desire to fantasize about it let alone do something physical with a taken man. I've known quite a few girls that lusted over married men... not saying this applies to you... but they wanted what they couldn't have.
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0 2So what happened? @maria2716
0 0 0 0Don't pursue this it will only hurt you. I know because I went through the same thing but ended up stranded on an island with him and had to kill him because he hoarded all the coconuts
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