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The one thing I am not so happy about on my body is my lady part. Even as a young teen before I ever had sex I always looked in the mirror and cringed at my vagina. Okay it's not THAT bad. But it's not a perfect pink innie either. Larger longer lips, and they are a couple shades darker then anything else on my body. I used to be at terms with my lady part until a bf at the type jokingly made a remark about my vag. Something along the lines of about wrinkly GRANDMOTHER vagina. My heart sank & I called his uncircumcised penis a sea cucumber. Though This had no effect on him , 2 years later I still look in the mirror and remember what he said. Long story short I am scarred. Is it really Thst big of a deal that I don't have a  p*rn  vag? Is it tht big of a turn off? I'm afraid of having a man's face between my legs because that's all I can think about. Help me men I need HONEST answers.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know this isn't the answer you want. Especially cause I'm a girl. But I'd just like to say, loving your own vagina is so difficult... Trust me. Its took me years of looking at other vaginas to make me feel normal or attractive. I saw to many plastic surgery p*rn star pussys and it made me feel old and abnormal. But now i see and I've had many men also agree that its almost scary how p*rn stars are trying to have a childs vagina, hairless and virtually invisible, just a fuck hole. A man that was a friend actually accidently saw me undress and saw my vagina and everything.. I was so ashamed and embarassed and we ended up having a 2 hour or so conversation about vaginas. He is more experienced than me and he explained how a vagina is a beautiful thing in itself any shape or size or color. The folds and creases are essential. He called it my flower which i found weird but also very sweet. I never liked or let a man give me oral sex for more than a few seconds cause it was just to embarrassing and uncomfortable. But now I am with probably the most attractive man I've ever met and he loves my pussy, and he's made it clear, I let him stare at it in the morning day light (probably my biggest fear) and you describing your "lady part" was pretty much describing mine. I hope one day you have the beautiful moment when you fall in love with your vagina.
I fucking love my cunt x

Hidden_P · Accepted Answer

Oh my lord... I'm so sorry, I couldn't help but giggle at the phrasing and one of the comments you left for one of the guys (the photo). You have an awesome sense of humour.

Ahem. Firstly, I'm not sure any girl has a p*rn perfect vagina and I don't think everyone is happy with their own. I don't like mine. It sounds to me like this guy was a massive jerk, most men don't really mind what it looks like. Every girl feels, looks, and tastes different, just like men. Don't be scared to let a man go down there, at the end of the day, he's not going down there with a Dulux colour chart, he's going down there for other reasons... Chances are he won't even notice the colour difference.

:) Don't be so harsh on yourself!

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

babe vaginas are just vaginas!! period... bitches in  p*rn  movies have lots and lots of surgery and make use of harsh chemicals... just love your vagina!!

Janoside89 · Accepted Answer

Vaginas come in all shapes, colors, and styles. In most women, the labia major (the normal skin to either side of the vagina) conceals everything. Some women have larger than normal labia minor (the soft, often reddish folds of skin just closer to the middle than the labia major). In women of varying ethnicities, the color can be different, but it is often darker than normal skin, sort of like how the lips on your face are a different color than the rest of your skin. In some women, the labia minor is large enough to extend past the labia major. There is nothing wrong. I have never heard of men being particularly turned on or off by protruding labia minor. I'm sure there are men on both sides of that, I just haven't heard of them. I know that it makes no difference to me.

I hope this knowledge helps you feel better.

Red_Dragon · Accepted Answer

You have a "outie". That's not a big deal. Every girl has the same exact parts it's just the labia is outside on yours. Guys don't care, and if they do I don't think they should.

You mention p**n. I've heard P**nstars have their labia removed. I don't know if it's true or not, but I wouldn't be surprised. Also, I've seen some rough p**nstar vags. There's no way yours looks as bad as some of the ones I've seen. No freaking way.

It's not a turn off for me unless it's like a weird color like green or something and if it looked as bad as some of the p**nstars vags I've seen and I doubt it looks that bad.

kheserthorpe · Answer

I've encountered way more outties than innies in real life.

Being darker is normal and very common.

The reason magazines like playboy show less labia is that they airbrush them out. This isn't to make them look better. It's to make the photos LESS explicit. They started doing this when all their models started being shaved.

cavmanier · Answer

I don't have to read this. Vaginas are great. Tbh I'm much more interest in what it's going to feel like inside. That part may turn me on, thinking about it.

UlsterScot · Answer

I may have my secret preferences but any healthy vagina is beautiful. Like that box of chocolates, you don't know what you are going to get but they are all sweet and delicious. Just keep after hygiene and trimming and I will be diving in.

Editor · Answer

That guy was a jerk. Everything you described is perfectly normal and natural. Every guy except that one will be happy with what you have. Men are not nearly as picky about vaginal aesthetics as women are so put it out of your mind and relax.

Supermosh1990 · Answer

That guy is a jerk. Any vag is a turn on. Exspecially when I figure it. It doesn't matter what your vagina looks like. You shouldn't have to worry what other people think, and just think of how good it will feel once a guy sticks his penis inside you or him licking your clit.

decemberxblue · Answer

I've never known girls were insecure about this before coming to this site. You should've said he had a pencil dick, scar him for life. Lmao. Honestly it's more than likely in your head.

arsham7shah · Answer

It doesn't matter to most of guys. women comportment is more important than every thing to me

medic69 · Answer

forget him he's so wrong, your bag is your bag no two are the same, but one thing there are all lovely

Anonymous · Answer

" Even as a young teen before I ever had sex I always looked in the mirror and cringed at my vagina. "

For some reason, lots of women do. Don't worry about it.

"Though This had no effect on him " Why should it? Honestly, people get worked up over such trivial things...

"Is it really Thst big of a deal that I don't have a p*rn vag? Is it tht big of a turn off?"

No and no. Any healthy puss is a good puss, and your ex was either being a douchebag, or didn't realise he was being hurtful and thought he was being funny.

Anonymous · Answer

I do prefer inner kind, but honestly it's not a big deal, I'd still

Anonymous · Answer

I am sure its fine.

Anonymous · Answer

lmao about the Dun Dun Dunnnnn and you calling his uncircumcised penis a sea cucumber lol you seem like a charming fun girl, but anyways im sure that guy was just an idiot looking to give you hard times maybe the guy was gay, but i bet you have a beautiful pussy, i wish i was lucky enough to see it and if i did ill tell you the truth, i wish there's more to say, to help you, but i dont know what yours looks like, but i bet its soo beautiful just like the rest of your body but again i dont know what you look like

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